Question by Intellithug: When an exgirlfriend keep saying she respects you and cares abut you, how much should you take notice?
What does the respect mean? what does the care about you mean?
Best answer:
Answer by soon_to_be_a_millionaire_2
I think it just means that if you were in the hospital sick she would show up, or if you were in jail and needed bail money she would bail you out. I could also be she doesn’t want to hurt you anymore and is saying that to placate your ego. But I really would hope that isn’t the case.
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Question by : My heart is broken! Any advice?
He said he loved me, we dated for 3 months, after knowing each other for 3 yrs!
He cheated on me, used me, but I still loved him, and gave him another chance. We broke up because he moved to the other side of the world, decided to stay friends. He got drunk several times, swore at me, told me he hated me, and it was a mistake to love me.
He emailed me back another day saying he was sorry and he acted like a jerk to show me how guys can really be.
Don’t know what to do now.
I miss him, and need him, and my heart is broken.
Do you have any advice?
Best answer:
Answer by Boon
Patch up your heart and MOVE ON! It’ll be hard at first, but this d-bag will never make you happy.
People who love people do not “show them how guys can really be.” That’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever head. It’s kinda like saying, “I punched your face to show you that sometimes people get their faces punched.” You deserve better, and some day you’ll realize it.
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Question by : Would it be considered Cheating to date someone online and in reality at the same time?
I know that under normal circumstances it would be considered cheating, but hear me out. I think that this could go both ways. If you are dating someone, you should be able to go on dates and kiss and cuddle and do everything that normal couples do, but you can’t do that when you date online. So I feel like online dating isn’t very serious and it isn’t really dating. Although some could disagree. And I can see where they are coming from, because when you date online you can still develop serious feelings for people and you feel like you would actually be able to date them if you only lived closer to them. But anyway, i just wondered what all of your opinions are on this, Whether or not in an everyday long-distance or Online relationship it would be considered cheating to date someone in real life at the same time… like because you enjoy both of their company and cannot choose between the two which you would rather date, although just because you are able to see the reality person face to face it is already more serious than the online relationship… Anyways. THOUGHTS ON THE QUESTION. I’m done ranting now. 
Best answer:
Answer by Pixiep
Yes, it is STILL cheating. Emotional affairs are sometimes much more damaging then getting drunk and f*cking a stranger.
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Question by : My friend wants to kiss me?
(Guy 18 / Girl 18) I’m really sorry this is long but I need help. Don’t think of this as Yahoo! points think of this a making a difference. Please, this is really well written and I’m begging you to help me.
P.S. If you’re a girl you’re going to love this story… It sounds like a Sandra Bullock movie…
I’m not going to lie. I’m an attractive guy… I like to look good. However, I just haven’t been interested in girls that much until I met this girl. She’s so beautiful, she’s so smart, she’s just fun! I’ve talked to her for only a month or so but I feel so strongly for her and it’s your typical definition of “puppy love”…
Here’s the tricky part…
I love my Mom more then anyone in the world and I’m not sure that will change. After my father left her beaten, pregnant and with no money she stayed strong and she’s the most influential person I’ve ever seen. (How this ties in…) The more I’ve talked to this girl the more I’ve learned about her. She herself has had horrible experiences with men. She’s had 3 boyfriends.
1st- Pushed her into sex and then dumped her.
2nd- Talked down to her, forced her into sex and dumped her.
3rd- Told her that she can trust him and that he would never hurt her. Made her feel like she found someone special and then after convincing her have sex with him told her “she wasn’t good enough for him” and dumped her.
If you have ever heard the expression “Every guy grows up to marry there own mother.” This is what’s happening. I’m falling for her and she’s just confused because she likes me back but she’s not ready for anything serious because of these disgusting a$ $ holes that have done much like what my father did to my Mom.
Earlier this week I revealed to her that I’ve never had feeling for anyone like I’ve had for her. She asked if I was a virgin and I replied “I haven’t even had my first kiss.” (She’s super surprised. (Remember this for later.)
She got into a fight with one of her friends this week and I acted as her “shoulder to cry on” but at points she was trying to push me away. “I can’t do this. You don’t deserve to be in my f u c k e d up life. I can’t be your girlfriend. I can’t be your friend.” I didn’t care that she didn’t want to be my girlfriend but when she said that I can’t be her “friend” I began to cry. The tears showed to her that I value her friendship and that I just wanted to be there for her. I don’t want her ass, I want her heart.
A few hours pass she’s had time to think about it… I get her to let me in a little bit. I just want to help her…
Today… We’re talking after school (Texting) She brings up again that I haven’t ever kissed anyone and I say “what about it?” She responds, “I was thinking about how much I want to be the one to give you your first kiss” (makes me blush typing it 
). I told her that I didn’t understand… She said “I’m not trying to lead you on but everyone needs a first kiss <3" So basically to me a first kiss is a huge step but to her it's "oh Billy... just because I kiss you doesn't mean we have to date! I'm just so thankful. I wanted to be the person do that for you." I tell her that "I feel like that would be dating". "It's just a kiss! It's not sex or anything!" she says. I asked her back "Well then why do you want to kiss me so bad?" She said that "What do you think!?" I responded "well... I know you have feeling for me... but you don't want to lead me on...". She say's "its complicated"...
We trailed off the topic and we started talking about something else...
FINALLY THE F U C K I N G QUESTION!! lol
I want to kiss her sooo bad. I want her to be mine. I want to treat her right and make her the happiest girl in the world. However, I want her to wait till the she's ready to date.
Should I not see it like this? Should I go for the kiss as bad as I want it?
What does a kiss mean to you?
Best answer:
Answer by Hunger Games Rules
Kiss her! If you need a way to bring it up say “You know how you were talking about you being my first kiss?” then just say what comes to your heart! Go for it!!! that’s so romantic!!!!!! <3
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Question by : Do those expensive relationship online self help programs really work?
Have any of you purchased one, and did it really help your relationship? Details please.
Best answer:
Answer by B
I think individual counseling would help more and the books “the 5 love languages” by Dr Gary Chapman see website and “love dare” see “fire proof my marriage”.
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Question by : I am having a hard time reading this girl…She DOES like me, right?
Alright, I met this girl at my college last week in my walking class…it had been raining, so we were strangers at this point but I offered her a ride in my car back to the main campus…and she got in, and we flirted for about 5 minutes until I dropped her off. On the 2nd day of class, we walked together, flirted, and it wasn’t raining but I offered her a ride back to the main campus…when I dropped her off I asked if she was single…she said yes, and then gave me her number.
Today it was raining, and she text me this “Is my dorm on your way to class? You could be a REALLY good person and help out a desperate friend in need!! wanna? ”
So I text her back “You do sound pretty desperate to see me. Sure, what do I get in return?” (btw, she knows I’m sarcastic). She immediately texts me back this…
Her: “What do you want in return?”
I never answered her because I drove up to her dorm at this time. She got in my car, and off to walking class we went, where we flirted and talked the entire time. After this, we got back in my car and she very randomly asks me “Hey, so you never told me what you wanted in return…”
So I laugh and say “Hmm, what are you doing this weekend?” She replies “I have to go home this weekend to see my family” …I try not to appear bummed, and she quickly starts rambling off her schedule and says “But I’m free Tuesday. Wanna do something?” I say yes, and then she gets out of the car and before she shuts my door she says “Okay, I’ll text you! Go to class!” in a flirty tone of voice.
Ten minutes later she texts me “Thanks again for the ride and for talking to me the whole class. I know I can’t be THAT interesting.” I text her back “You’re very welcome, and I *guess* I find you pretty interesting 
”
Her: “Lol well im glad to hear it ”
I don’t text her back for about 2 hours, but then I do and say “Hey I just woke up from a nap. This weather seriously puts me into a coma…the good kind lol. I was meaning to ask you, do you like coffee?”
Her: “I used to work at starbucks actually, i love love love coffee drinks, but actual black coffee is nasty. Lol but yes, i do why?”
Me: “Hah, right on! My dad raised me to drink my coffee black though…he promised it’d make a man out of me lmao…anyway, I’d like to take you out for coffee Tuesday. Would you like that?”
Her: “fah sho! hahaha yeah, that would be fun.”
Me: “Awesome, we’re going to have a lot of fun i’ve got some studying to do now, so I will chat with you later!”
Her: “Lol sounds good, have fun! Haha”
Alright, first of all…thank you for reading all of that. I just have two questions:
1. Is she using me for rides to class, or does she really like me?”
2. Did she ask me “Hey, so you never told me what you wanted in return…” because she wanted me to ask her out on a date? Or…is she only doing all of this because she feels like she OWES me a date?
Best answer:
Answer by psmgamer2005
1. She probably is using you for car rides unless she stops getting in your car with you.
2. I think she feels like she owes you one for giving her a ride in your car.
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Question by Krystal: Songs About A Cheating Girlfriend?
I need some suggestions for songs about a girlfriend who has cheated on someone.
I don’t want RnB, rap or none of that crap or country.
I’m looking into the alternative genre, (emo i guess)
even songs about catching a girlfriend in the act will be good.. thanks 
Best answer:
Answer by lala_itune
my way or the highway- limpbizkit
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Question by : why are guys are such players!?
i need some really good quotes about guys being players and flirting with other girls when they say they like you. it doesn’t have to rhyme or anything
*i didn’t mean all guys are players but a lot of them are.
Best answer:
Answer by sten213
Well, this isn’t what you’re looking for but I just call it ” the path to sex”. That’s why they’re players because it’s all about trying to get sex. And what they will do to get there
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Question by : Does she like me? YES, the background info is long but I only ask you 2 questions at the end.?
I don’t even know why I’m stressing…please tell me I’m an idiot, and that she definitely does like me!
Alright, I met this girl at my college last week in my walking class…it had been raining, so we were strangers at this point but I offered her a ride in my car back to the main campus…and she got in, and we flirted for about 5 minutes until I dropped her off. On the 2nd day of class, we walked together, flirted, and it wasn’t raining but I offered her a ride back to the main campus…when I dropped her off I asked if she was single…she said yes, and then gave me her number.
Today it was raining, and she text me this “Is my dorm on your way to class? You could be a REALLY good person and help out a desperate friend in need!! wanna? ”
So I text her back “You do sound pretty desperate to see me. Sure, what do I get in return?” (btw, she knows I’m sarcastic). She immediately texts me back this…
Her: “What do you want in return?”
I never answered her because I drove up to her dorm at this time. She got in my car, and off to walking class we went, where we flirted and talked the entire time. After this, we got back in my car and she very randomly asks me “Hey, so you never told me what you wanted in return…”
So I laugh and say “Hmm, what are you doing this weekend?” She replies “I have to go home this weekend to see my family” …I try not to appear bummed, and she quickly starts rambling off her schedule and says “But I’m free Tuesday. Wanna do something?” I say yes, and then she gets out of the car and before she shuts my door she says “Okay, I’ll text you! Go to class!” in a flirty tone of voice.
Ten minutes later she texts me “Thanks again for the ride and for talking to me the whole class. I know I can’t be THAT interesting.” I text her back “You’re very welcome, and I *guess* I find you pretty interesting ”
Her: “Lol well im glad to hear it ”
I don’t text her back for about 2 hours, but then I do and say “Hey I just woke up from a nap. This weather seriously puts me into a coma…the good kind lol. I was meaning to ask you, do you like coffee?”
Her: “I used to work at starbucks actually, i love love love coffee drinks, but actual black coffee is nasty. Lol but yes, i do why?”
Me: “Hah, right on! My dad raised me to drink my coffee black though…he promised it’d make a man out of me lmao…anyway, I’d like to take you out for coffee Tuesday. Would you like that?”
Her: “fah sho! hahaha yeah, that would be fun.”
Me: “Awesome, we’re going to have a lot of fun i’ve got some studying to do now, so I will chat with you later!”
Her: “Lol sounds good, have fun! Haha”
Alright, first of all…thank you for reading all of that. I just have two questions:
1. Is she using me for rides to class, or does she really like me?”
2. Did she ask me “Hey, so you never told me what you wanted in return…” because she wanted me to ask her out on a date? Or…is she only doing all of this because she feels like she OWES me a date?
Best answer:
Answer by Nobody in particular
I’ll answer your essay with a question : Does she bring you sandwiches and have sex with you?
The answer to that question, and your question, are the same.
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Question by : how do you deal with a broken up bad relationship after you have dealt with bashing.?
I was in a relationship that i loved my ex so much, spent 16yrs with him had exellent times together, but all got destroyed when he dicided to start bash me, but i still love him and know that i cant go back too him. suffered so much. what do do
Best answer:
Answer by Alfred Augustin
Go back to him . That is the only way to heal your wounds.
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