Right, I’m looking for opinions and thoughts so here goes…
About 2 months ago me and my now ex-girlfriend ended our 3 year relationship. It was she who ended it, claiming that she was no longer ‘in love with me’ and had been considering ending the relationship for the past 6 months. I had asked why she never brought the issues up with me if she’d been considering ending the relationship for that long, alias I got no response. This happened on Valentines day after I had cooked a meal and she had accepted my card and gift – as you’d probably imagine I was totally crushed by this event as I was completely unaware and had tried to provide her with everything she had ever wanted, but clearly it wasn’t for her. Because of the way she kept saying she’d been thinking about it and that I should have been aware I got extremely upset and had felt used, compounded by the fact that 2 weeks later she was taking money out of our joint account which was designed for bills to pay for her ‘lifestyle’ I lost it to her down the phone. Since then she has been trying to back date bills and rent in her name when we were still together and I was left struggling to pay for what I was left with (we shared a flat). This was never sorted because I moved out of the flat about a month ago and have taken everything on the chin as it would have had to become legal and being only 21 I don’t have that sort of money. During this time we were both given a warning from the Police after we both exchanged threatening phone calls (I hold my hands up, and I’m not proud of it but I’m only human) and we are not allowed to contact each other, it must go through 3rd parties. After the breakup I felt quite lonely and got myself back into the game as it were, but I feel that because of the way my previous relationship ended I feel a sense of guilt and don’t know if I’m out to find someone to use against her, or if I’m really looking for something to be with. But I soon found people I was interested in and about 3 months I was talking to three girls at one time trying to get a date. One of them works within the same company as me and in the past few weeks we have become quite close but I don’t believe we could have a relationship as I’m not a big fan of dating someone who works for the same company (especially after how my last one ended). Another girl who I’ve been talking to for about a month I’m really interested in, we have such good conversations but she is aware that I’m quite keen to find someone (bad move I know). I confessed to her that I do like her and would like to go out on a date, which she hasn’t responded to although she will randomly text me during the day – does she like me or does she not? And finally I have a date lined up next week with someone who I know very little about, again, I’m unsure of what I want – a relationship or friendship or just company? To compound this, I’m planning on finishing my BA in September and I have been told my ex has applied for the same course as well (we studied the same subject, which was how we met) so I have the prospect of maybe seeing her again in September, which would be the first time since the breakup.
I hope this doesn’t sound too confusing, I’ve tried to explain everything as best as I can without turning this into a 100 page book. Any advice or opinions would be gratefully appreciated.

I have a really cute, popular boyfriend, but he’s really annoying. he always is cracking jokes, that arent that funny, or doing weird things. One time, he called me 5 times ikn one hour!! I think he can be a really nice guy, but i have to break up with him. does anyone have any tips on how to nicely break up with him?
P.S. He laughs like a hyena! its funny at first, but now it’s annoying!

I’m in a long distance relationship but pretty soon (by the end of November) i’m going to be moving in with him. I live in the midwest and he lives on the east coast. We’ve been together for a while, at the beginning we had a roller coaster relationship but since then we’ve worked it all out and I feel that we are a very healthy couple now. I was just wondering, if you’ve ever moved in with someone that you had a long distance relationship with, can you give me some advice? Like, what to know, what to do, what NOT to do etc etc?

i really think he is immature,the way he acts,the way he speaks,and he took drugs.so i broke up with him,the problem is, he’s taking suicide.

I need some help. Every time im in a relationship I always seem to get bored with the girl im dating and end up dumping them and hurting them, anyway ive found a girl that i really like but i don’t know if i should get serious with her because i don’t want to hurt her. Does anyone else do this or does anyone have any advice for me?

I want some tips on how to pick the right girl for getting married with so later in the marriage she dosen’t break my heart. I saw a lot of that in films where later they broke up & filed divorce, that’s my nightmare. My most fear is that she will cheat on me, do all girls cheat on their husband ? I don’t intend to offend you ladies, i’m sorry if i did but just please help me ! I need some advice please !

My girlfriend and I broke up about a week ago right. And she said she didn’t feel the same way anymore. We had been going out for 2 months. I have loved her since i first saw her like 2 years ago. Ive broken up with other girlfriends before but this time it just feels different. I can’t stop thinking about her, I dream about her at night. I need help i really want her back what should i do?
Appreciate any opinions.thanks,
Jack

Because you will get many opinions, how do you follow the riight one. Often you can end up confused on what to do since everyone has their say/opinion. Can some things resolve on their own as well?

Hey guys and gals need a little help. I found a nice girl at school and even asked her out on a date. However, the timing was off and we both ended up having projects that caused us to miss our chance to go out and she had to go back to her home state.
My question is how much should I keep in contact with her to show I am still interested, but not needy? Thanks!

i dont want to breakp but she want and i dont know why and if we breakup i want to still friend

I haven’t visited my girlfriend for two days because of school and she has been working and as much as we would like to spend all the time in the world together we understand it is impractical.
Just a few moments ago, I stopped by her home to see her for a brief period of time. I enthusiastically greeted her and playfully threw her onto her bed and showered her with kisses. It was good for a moment until my enthusiasm continued and then she said “could you stop being so childish?”
I was quite taken back by the comment and became quite upset. We had an argument and I ended up leaving.
I am generally criticized for showing too little emotion, and there was no chance that I was hurting her physically.
Although I know is not relationship ending, but I am worried, we have been dating for 2 years and I think some affection has been lost on her end or mine has just increased to a point where it is too much.

my girlfriend broke up with me and other acts have caused me to greatly dislike, even hate her. It has been 2 months since the break up and i still miss her and i cant get over her even though other girls have told me they like me and would like to start a relationship with me.
any good tips on getting over a break up? i also work with her so i have to see her at least once a week :S
please help!

Just curious… My ex girlfriend dumped me, then thinking it would give me the message when I begged her to take me back, she decided to kiss another guy right in front of me! It turned out to be a good thing in the end because she wasnt worth my effort… Anyone have similar stories?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
im a 19 year old guy. three years ago i met this girl who is a year younger in my school, beautiful girl who i fell for first time i saw her she was perfect, her personality was very nice. I began speaking to her and eventually long story short… we went out and had a good relationship. Our relationship lasted around 2 years, we were both in love. But our relationship broke up after people in my school out of jelousy kept on creating rumours about me cheating and about her cheating on me…etc it was really pathetic, so long story short.. the relationship ended. I was at my final year and only had a few weeks left until i had left college, and once i did, there was no communication at all and i didnt hear or see of her for nearly 2 years, i chose not to speak to her again… which i admit i regret as i thought there is no point as our love relationship had ended.
Truthfully i still had feelings for her even after the break up but i thought it was just not meant to work out anymore… but a few months passed on and she began dating one guy… for like 8 months apparently..
He eventually played her, and she dumped him for good.
Its only recently, i had spotted her at one event in my town. I was suprised to see her there and we begun talking, on a friend level. She asked where i had been and why i kept out of contact, to which i could not reply honestly. After a good conversation on how life had been i asked for her number out of interest and she gave me it.
I began to call her every other occasion not so frequent, to see how she is and to catch up with her. Personally i think she thinks believes i am not in love with her no more, and i just see her as a friend.
But to be honest i still have deep feelings for her, even after all these years… I think of her everyday.
Now that i am in contact with her.. i would really like to know what i should do.. if i should say anything? if so how should i?
I really care about her and only wish she knew how i felt.
I would be so greatful for any advice on this.
Thanks in advance.

There’s this boy who we have 2 classes in a row together and we just walk for 4 minutes not saying anything. It’s driving me crazy because I want to talk to him but nothing comes out when I try to talk. He’s blonde, blue eyes, not popular but not a geek, athletic, good personality, nice smile and smart. Any help is great