so my girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago. she never told me all the reasons, but she did tell me that she felt like i wasn’t there for her when her mom was going through a divorce and stuff. and i heard from other people that she didn’ t like all the girls always hanging around me (which i cannot help, it’s not like i was flirting), and she told one of my friends that she felt like i didn’t like her anymore. i really do love her, and i want to know how i can fix things and make them better? there’s also this girl in school who i kind of like, and she might like me but she’s talking to a guy who she says she doesn’t like. idk if i should date her or try to get back with my ex, because i miss her so much. any ideas on what to do or how to get my ex back?? thank you!!!

Me and my new girlfriend of 2 weeks have a language barrier as I speak English and she speaks only in Spanish. I am Hispanic and she is Mexicana. I have to use the internet and little Spanish that i know to communicate with her. Should I continue our long distant relationship that is so complicated or break up because of our language barrier?

I am a 9th class student and I proposed my girlfriend about a month ago and i really liked her.But now i have found out that she is really boring and i cannot go on with her. She is a bit sensitive and want to break-up with her(not giving her much pain). Please guys help me!

I N E E D to break up with her. What is a good way to tell her ? She is kinda sensitive so I can’t say anything any remotely close to “I don’t love you anymore.” Also, I don’t want to say anything like
“It’s not you, it’s me.” Any ideas ? Thanks !

Im 16 and 1 1/2 years ago me and my girlfriend broke up and i never really lost feeling for her, she now has a boyfriend they havebeen dating for a couple months now, is there any way i can get her back?

so i was in this relationship with this really amazing guy, but we broke up because i thought i didnt love him anymore, but i did, and i still do. But i dont kno if he wants me back, so ive been looking him up on facebook and myspace and his profile says this:
Who I’d like to meet:
Well you see, the thing is I’ve already met her She defines the words amazing, precious, gorgeous, sweet, nice, smart, cute, adorable, and beautiful. <33

and when we were going out he would call me those things, but now that were not going out i dont know if hes talking about me or another girl. how do i find out?

My girlfriend is going away to boarding school and i will only be able to see her once every other weekend(maximum) for the next four years. We both love eachother very much, but I think that it would be best for both of us if we broke up. What should I do?

My girlfriend and I are having troubles. I heard from a mutual friend of mine that she now wants to end things. There was no specific thing that I did to make her feel this way. It just seems like she doesnt feel that way anymore. I just need a way to get her to give me a second chance to show that we still have that connection. what do i do to prevent us from breaking up?

Okay, I know this is completely wrong on my part but I just feel guilty. Last summer I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years (4 if your counting being best friends) but she always got so upset with me for little things and I was hurt and I just decided to end it because neither one of us was happy with the relationship. So I broke up with her (I admit worst decision I have ever made in my life) and she was upset and depressed, and I felt relieved because I never had to worry about her being mad at me 24/7. Well after 2 months of hanging out with my guy friends and getting over it, I was notified that she was sleeping around with this one dude she has only known for 2 months! It took me 4 years to get to that point with her! So we are now almost back together and I just feel hurt about this and it always comes into my mind when we are getting intimate. And I totally understand why she did it but I just feel depressed. Am I a bad person for blowing this out of proportion? I love h
Wow, thanks for all the answers! I mean I was kinda jealous and such but I honestly understand what happened. I can honestly be a big jerk about this but I guess it’s just me. Everyone is right, I’ll have to get over it..and it was my fault in the beginning to leave her. I’m honestly sorry, and I want to make things work out better this time around. Thank you, for all the input makes me feel a little bit better that I’m not a complete jerk.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for about six months. well he broke up with me twice because he didn’t know what he wanted. Well he likes to go to the bar with me and alone. He likes to go to the bar a lot he owns his own business and is stressed out a lot. Well one time when he did go to the bar he ran into his ex girlfriend and she called me from his phone and told me to leave because i had spent the night he was drunk and didn’t know she grabbed his cell. She told him and told me he was sorry. he didn’t even want to be with her and told her not to bother him. We talked and he wanted me to help him out and he would pay me to watch his kids. We got back together. He bought me a ring. Not an engagment just a ring that says he wants me around. he tells me that he is happy and I am not going anywhere. he has told me that before and when i tell him that I am worried he says not to talk like that. he has two kids and eight year old and a two year old from two different moms. I always think the worst. he says that he has grown up a lot since we have been datng like us staying together. This is the weirdest realtionship i have been in. Any advice? What does evryone think

Ok, so, my friend Joseph has a girlfriend. She lives in Ohio and he lives in Virginia, which would be a very long distance relationship. He is 17 and she is his “fiance”. Also, everyday she always gets mad at him for no apperant reason and then never talks to him. So he tells us constantly to text her and see if she texts back. She is a terrible girlfriend, and he refuses to break up with her. Soo, should Joseph break up with Veronica?

Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. She has severe problems with borderline personality disorder. It was never my intention to break up, i merely stated one week ago that i needed a little independence and part of my week to myself. I didnt have the time to spend with her all the time because of school and work, and couldnt afford the commute of staying with her every day, after school days. anyway she had a severe panic/attack breakdown when i told her this and had a horrible break up experience and i feel guilty about it. im worried she would try to harm herself, she told me she wouldnt in an email but im still worried, should i try and contact her to check up on her or would that be bad and should i let her be if i dont intend on getting back with her?

Me and my girlfriend are both in the military and back in august she left for south korea. We decided to stay together and try to make it work. I love her with all of my heart and soul, we’ve talked about getting married if we make it through Korea and I want that more than anything in the world. So I just want to know is there anything that anybody might know about or advise that could help us keep our relationship alive and strong. Because the last thing i want is for us to break up because of the distance. Thanks.

We have been broken up for about two weeks.

She was suppose to be my guest at the wedding, was named on the invitation, and has a dinner reserved for her.

I haven’t spoken with her since the breakup, as part of the problem was that she was confused and didn’t know what she wanted, save some time and space.

I am still deeply in love with her, and realize opening communications with her again could be bad for my emotional health.

That said, we were suppose to go to the wedding together, and it could be a good opportunity to hang out as friends, and/or see if there are still any romantic feelings involved.

What do you think?
There is no other guy in the equation.

Me and my girlfriend had an mutual breakup 2 days ago. And I have a feeling she really hates me now. Is it normal?