we were engaged. been together for a year and a half. He used to be so wonderful, but then he changed. He left me and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I try to stay busy but keep crying because the more i do, the more things remind me of him. all i want to do is stay home and cry, but i know i shouldn’t. Any advice? I can’t even THINK about talking to another guy because i feel guilty because i miss him, but that’s what everyone says. I’ve never really had to deal with a breakup this serious and i’ve never been hurt this bad so i don’t know what to do. We were high school sweethearts, so i don’t even know where to meet new guys at! help please!

Is it okay to chat online with the opposite sex when you are married? Can a spouse actively chat online with another person for fun or is that considered cheating. The spouse has no desire for a relationship but wants to chat with the opposite sex for fun and a sense of adventure. Would any of that be considered cheating?

my boyfriend is in florida for 3 weeks. would it be cheating if i wanted to talk dirty to someone online but not start a relationship with them or even know their name?

So I just ended a 3 year relationship with the love of my life, but at this point their is no hope for a relationship. I needed the space…lots of it. So, a close guy friend of mine asked me out after we talked about the break up. We’ve always liked each other so it was no big deal. We went out on a few successful dates and he even made referrence to me meeting his family (that kind of freaked me out). We talk everyday for at least an hour but lately the conversation has stemmed away from discussing how we feel about one another. He has also been talking about his lack of money at the moment and has yet to ask me out on a fifth date. So, any clues or suggestions? I really enjoy his company and the time we spend together. I guess I’m just trying to figure out whether or not this is a change of heart or if the man is just broke.
He does call and texts me or at the end of a conversation he’ll be like “Call me when you get off work” and then we talk for like to more hours. ugghhh, I hate dating. I feel like some angst ridden teenager…blah!

My friend walked in on her boyfriend cheating on her. We want to mess with his car.. we were thinking and we really want to get him bad.. any ideas???
you guys all suck but one you dont got anything amazing for us

So my Ex Boyfriend is like 19 Or whatever and im like a little younger than him. We broke up and now he wants me back. Should i take him back because i really like him but my mother don’t agree with me seeing or talking to him. Should i go with this boy because i want to or stay away.

If he did come back to you after HE was the one who broke up with you, how did he do it? Did he come right out and say it, or did he act a certain way?

Did you take him back?

Hello, my name is Jennifer and I am taking a pyschology class and I am doing a project on the different factors on why people cheat. I made a survey for people to take who have cheated in a past or current relationship. The survey is completely anonymous so please be completely honest. You can click on the following link to get to my survey:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=ut…

Thank you for your time and help.

think that I would ever do that again. I want to be honest but i don’t want him to think I am a cheater. What do I ??
No I did not have an affair with my exhusband. I had an affair with someone who is out of my life while I was married. And I have been faithful to my new boyfriend who i really care about.

My neighbor and i have been best friends since the second grade. We used to hangout everyday after school. As we got older around 4th grade i started to have a crush on him. By the sixth grade i knew he felt the same way too. He was always hugging me and flirting with me. He told me he liked me before he went away for the summer and told me when he got back we’d be together. After summer when he came back i found out from a friend he had a girlfriend. i was crushed. But he continued to flirt with me constantly, and i was falling really hard for him. THere were times when he told me i was always going to be hhis number one. As we continued to get older i liked him more and more. He was my first kiss. Once we got to highschool we hung out less but styaed close.We’ve both gone through realationships and helped eachother with breakups. We’ve hookedup alot too but ive never been his girlfriend. Now we are both single and i really like him. i just dont know what to do to show him im more than a friend and im sick of alwways just being there for him for a hookup when its convient. i know he has something for me i can tell i just dont understand why everytime we hookup thats as far as it goes. any advice?

im going out with this guy named steve (who lives haft way across the world and i dont know how long we will last because hes like 5 years older) and me and my best girlfriend like one of my best guyfriends so idk what to do..should i breakup with steve and take a chance with my guyfriend or breakup with steve and leave my guyfriend for my girl or just stay with steve…and if i do breakup with steve is there anyway that it wont be to bad for him?

i know its long but please answer

My boyfriend and I have broken a decent amount of times and the last time was my fault for no reason. I can’t even go a day without thinking about him. I have told him about how I feel but I’m not sure if he understands or even cares…? I really do miss him, but I’m not sure if he’s moved on or not. How do I tell him that I really love him without making it seem I’m desperate?

Okay so my boyfriend dumped me about a month ago after 11 months of dating. When he broke up with me he didnt really give an excuse he just said that he “fell out of love” with me. The breakup was completely out of the blue to me, we were both so excited for our 1year anniversary (or so I thought). Anyways last week my friend who’s still in high school had her 18th birthday party and invited me to go. My ex and I used to hang out with her when we were together so I figured I’d invite him to see if he’d wanna go cause I wanted to hang out with him outside of the 3 college classes we have BUT mostly to see if he’d actually come to a party I invited him too. He eagerly agreed when I asked him to go and a friend of mine plus him all went to the party together. As soon as he got their my friend *Becky* instantly started asking him “WHY DID YOU DUMP MY BEST FRIEND” and eventually he got in her face and almost hit her screaming at her for no reason. I had to literally drag him out the room and on the way out he punched my friends wall of her house (which is so out of character for him, he’s the really quiet shy type). Outside he’s on the brink of tears and he’s screaming “She means nothing to me, i dont care about what Becky’s saying” and I asked “then why did you react so violently when she was questioning you about dumping me?” and he didn’t give a clear answer. Later he calmed down and everything was going back to normal and we were all talking and I dont recall exactly WHY it happened, but my ex looked at me (in front of everyone) and goes “Why did you invite me here tonight huh? Did you think I’d get back with you? Cuz I’m not, you’ll see in the end. I DONT LIKE YOU” and I was completely embarassed and walked away because of his arrogance. My friends all started yelling at him “why the hell did you go to a HIGH SCHOOL party that your EX-GIRLFRIEND invited you too if you dont like her in some way?” and he goes “I came because she asked me too…” I just need someone’s help and help me understand him because it just seems like his actions are contradicting his words. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!

I’m in a bad relationship and have finally decided to end it. I’m in my 20’s, him late 30’s. He lies to me constantly, has repeatedly gone a week without calling me, shows up at my house usually middle of the night, I never know how long he’ll stay – sometimes the whole weekend or sometimes just a few hours, I have good reason to believe that he’s cheating on me, and recently found out that he is involved in criminal activities.None of this is good for me or my kids who have grown attached to him too.My problem is how do I end it? I haven’t seen him since last Saturday, just spoke to him today, but have no idea when he’s coming over next. I don’t think it’s right to end a relationship on the phone or through a text message, but who knows when he’ll show up. He has keys to my apartment, so if I do it in person I can get those back, over the phone I don’t know if he’ll bring back my keys.But in person, I’m worried I won’t be strong enough and that he’ll talk me out of ending it.Advice?

I’m in a big mess and somehow my best friend’s boyfriend thinks I accused him of cheating. I have to admit I did think there was something going on between him and another girl but i just asked one of my good friends whether they thought the same. Now I have to go to the movies with them tonight and I am unsure about what to say if the ask me about it.