Ok to start! I met my girlfriend at a concert that I was working in Aug, of 2006. We hit it off great and we had a lot of fun! I took her to concerts that I was working, Amusement parks, and we even took a trip to Florida for a whole week and had a blast! I really love this woman! Well I had recently got a divorce before I met my girlfriend. I spent 7 long years with my wife that was not at all a good life. In December of 2006 I made the biggest mistake of my life by agreeing to make a video with my ex-wife for her to put up on her sex site profile. Yes this was during the time I was with my girlfriend. I am still beating myself down because of it! Well my girlfriend and I were getting along fine! We even bought a trailer for us! I tried to hide what I had done with my ex and I never told my girlfriend about it! I had even cut off all contact with my ex after that for I wanted to move on and be with my girlfriend. My Girlfriend had asked me if I had cheated on her with my ex and I continued to say no. It was a lie! Well in May of 2007 we had found out that My G/F was pregnant with my son! It was the most Happiest moment in my life! I never thought I would ever have a child. We continued to do things as we normally have done with working concerts and spending time preparing for our child to be born. I felt that things were going great despite I had this dirty secret hanging in the back of my mind that I was hideing. Durring her pregnancy I realized things were starting to slide between us. I had started to tell her stupid lies over issues that I should have really told the truth. I was afraid she would leave me from my past extremely bad experiances with my ex-wife so I would lie about stupid thing but she stood by my side. 2 weeks before my son was born I had asked her to marry me! I was so excited and extremely happy when she said yes! I want to stress to everyone reading this that I love this woman with all my heart! The day my son was born was the most loving day I had ever had in my life! Seeing my son in his mothers arms brought about tears in my eyes because I love both of them so much! January 2008 rolled around and I was so happy that I was a father! But one of those days she was rolling around in the computer in the files and found the Video I had made with my ex-wife. I was caught and found guilty all in the same instant! It devistated her! It devistated me! At that time I had felt that we should go over to my ex-wife’s house and discuss this with her in order for us to work it out. We did and it was it was stated that it was the only time we had done it and that it definatly would never happen again! Well after that we decided to try and keep things together. But once she had seen that I had lied to her about my ex she began to question me about many of the stupid lies I had told her!
I did not know what to do because I did not want to lose her so I continued to lie about them. In May 2008 she chose to call it quits. We still lived together and we continued to do things as if we were together. So our relationship was off and on for awhile. So I wanted to do something to boost keeping us together so I had talked to my parents about getting a house. The trailer we were in was getting cramped up now that we had our son. So my parents in the hope of keeping us together and for their grandson to have more room to run around and have fun had decided to buy us a house. They put a agreement into them buying us this house that the house is only for the 3 of us! If one moved out then they would take back the house and no one would live there on top of they would charge us both half of the cost of the house, repairs that were made, and appliances. We agreed and the house is where we live now. So in hopes of keeping our family together we were given the ultimate gift! Well even with the house things were still rocky as hell! I felt that I could not do anything without making her mad in any way so I fell back on lieing about stupid stuff to keep her with me! Well Febuary, 14th 2009 my son being 14 months old. I have been a great father to my son and I take care of him everyday! But I was really sick! It took me until 6:00pm to break my feaver. At which I walked out to talk to my son’s mother. Now I have given her space to go to concerts to get away from me and Feb 11th, 12th, and 13th she had went to concerts while I stayed at home taking care of my son. Well I wished her a Happy Valentines day. She asked me why am I saying that. I said because I love you and 2 because it is Valentines day! Well she popped out and said I have decided to date this guy at work! Instantly I was extremely angry and I pretty much told her to go to him! She did and stayed there all night! I was crushed beyond anything ever before in my life! I went crazy with thinking about ways to get her back. The next day I had to take our son to the Hospital for High feaver and they admitted him. She showed up at the hospital. I broke into he

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