Advice…anyone…boyfriend? Help?
SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER….advice…?
I love my boyfriend with all of my heart…
He is wanting to get married when we turn 18 or at least be engaged..He’s very serious with me and we’ve been together 7 months..he’s broken up with me twice…..but now he tells me he now knows what he wants and thats me…he wants kids…everything….
He’s so protective…jealous…unpredictable at times
he gets mad over stupid things
I know I’m young but I feel as if he is the one …but I’m not sure…
I want him…I dont want anyone else to have him
ALSO…sex is great t00
hes 8 inches and 6 inches around
it hurts…whats something i could do to keep it from hurting so much….
sorry if this seems inappropriate
i just want advice
i’m 17 hes also 17….
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I’m 17 also my boyfriend is 19, and Ive been with him for almost two years. He has given me a promise ring a couple months ago. We communicate and talk about everything and I made it very clear I dont want to get engaged or married and hold off everything till Im out of college and have a steady life. He understands and will wait.
Never rush ANYTHING. And if he cant wait, then well, you deserve better.
7 months and thinking about marriage? It seems to young, I want to get married young to but come on. And if he has broken up with you twice in that short time then what makes you think he wont do it again and if you have kids and a marriage it wont be as easy finacialy or mentally. Just think it through, My advice is no but if you have a gut feeling about him then go for it, you only know what is the best for yourdelf.
about the sex,, iddddkkk
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is abusive and if sex hurts, then something is wrong. Try lube, but seriously, sometimes it just hurts; there is such a thing as a sexual match. You just might not be the right sexual match for one another. Either way, this guy sounds very abusive and you might want to distance yourself from him.
he doesnt seem like a very good guy to me, he broke up with you twice, and he gets mad over stupid things, Ive been with my GF for 14 months, never broke up with her, and could never bring myself to be mad at her, because I love her and all her flaws too, and life isn’t about sex…
wow me and you are like seriously in the same situation..his name isnt cody is it?
lol im 17 too.
and his penis is about the same it’s 8 and a half…
but anyway…ahem… we use lubracant the warming kinds really good.
it helps also when he goes slower first & then speeds up.
also if he dosnt, it helps when they go down on you first…
hes probably overprotective bc hes skared of losing u… try to talk to him about it… umm about the sex situation use a lubricant… u will get used 2 him after a while
u measured his around, thats crazy, your crazy,
Ask him to ease up in bed, he’ll probably not only do it but go bragging to all he’s friends.
try ky jelly
lubrication it might help
u wear a lubricated condom it goes in maddd smoothly
I was with a guy for 2 years and thats how i was, Do u know why he broke up with you twice?? maybe for another girl, you dont know, 7 months isnt that long id wait for atleast a year and a half to get engaged, dont go rushing things because it may not work. Getting married isnt everything and it dont really mean anything it just makes you sound old. 18 is too young to have kids and all that but its really up to you… i dont know you and i dont know how you really feel about this guy but by the sounds of it either do you. i hope i have helped
good luck
I was in the same situation as you except I was with this guy for 2.5 years…
I think 7 months is a bit too short to tell. You want to spend more time getting to know him before moving into something as big as marriage. Like you said, within this short span of 7 months you’ve broken up with him 2 times already… that sounds pretty unstable to me. It could easily happen again. Give yourselves some more time to get to know each other… you still have plenty of years ahead of you to have fun and explore with each other, and you don’t neccesarily have to be married to have that kind of fun. Besides… I don’t think your parents would be very happy to hear about your engagement lol. You guys are still young and haven’t fully discovered yourselves yet, or even have a stable career to take care of each other… give it some time. People change, especially at this time of age… you never know what to expect… plus, if he loves you like he says he does.. then he should be able to understand and respect your decision.
ok for your relationship i say you need more time to decide if he is in fact the one for you. you are still young and he seems pretty immature if he is jealous and gets mad for stupid things. He also doesnt sound very committed to the relationship since he has broken up twice in 7 months. I know this is cheesy but its so true, his actions speak louder than his words my dear. i say take some time and see where it goes. if hes the one he will stick around for you, if not then your better off.
as for the sex…. im glad its great but the only way i can think to make it stop hurting is to stop having sex. i just hope you dont regret stretching yourself out like that later in life.
good luck!
i know what you mean . i was in your place at one time and trust me if you don’t think your ready the don’t do it you don’t want to feel like if your trap it sucks and i think u should wait on kids i got married when i turn 18 and my son 5 and threw everything i been cheated on and been treated like **** some times he leaves me and gets back with me and where so young so all he want to do is party so i say if your not ready don’t do it chill hang out if he cant wait for you in till your ready then hes not the person for you
“He’s so protective…jealous…unpredi… at times
he gets mad over stupid things…”
He’s also immature if this is how he acts towards you.
Your best bet is to wait. Get through college. If you 2 are meant to be, it will survive college. A high school diploma will offer very few opportunities financially and if you want kids you need the finances.
Plus he’ll be able to mature.
Women who settle down at a young age don’t grow emotionally like women who mature on their own. You risk losing yourself and the ability to think for yourself if you settle down early.
And next time, don’t give details in inches….too much info. You could’ve said he’s very big or well endowed. Use a lube like KY or Astroglide.
hey, as a girl who has seen this kind of thing i want to tell you in all honesty that this relationship your in is based on infatuation. you may think you really love him but you dont. not if your questioning it. infatuation is normal and you can enjoy it but do NOT let it confuse you. i would suggest having fun and letting it go. you dont want to marry this guy. think about your perfect husband, does this guy match all your requirements?? and if he already let go of you twice what tells you he wont do it again? just think it ALL through and do whats best for you, he will get over it. marry the guy you want, who WILL be the perfect husband. even if it means waiting for him, your only 17 after all, have fun while you can.