hello everyone.can someone offer me a good advice on dating??basically,i have a broken heart…?
i used to go out with a gal whom i knew since we were 2 years old.just before our engagement took place i found out that she was sleeping with someone.from the shock,i became paralyzed for 2 days and nights and since then(we’re talking 7 years,yes,it has been THAT long)i didn’t have the guts to settle down with anyone because i fear betrayal.can someone please help and advise me about how to find a loyal and understanding woman??i know myself and i know that i could never betray anyone.there are many times when gals(even really pretty ones)approach me and show interest only to politely rejected by me,its just that the first that comes to my mind is “she’s going to betray you later on”.sorry for the many details.thank you all…
i asked this question before but i didn’t get any useful feedback(at least in my opinion).hope that someone will have a good advise about how to find a loyal spouse…
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forget the girl
date someone else
i f u like one show her ur specialities
have a good sense of humor
joke a bit about urself
I’d go look at church maybe, or on e-harmony, I have some friends who that has worked out real well with. At the end of the day though there are no guarentees. Date for at least 2 years, get a pre-nup, and hope for the best. Also in dating don’t lie to yourself. If you find evidence of cheating, check up on it, don’t just ignore it.
Also don’t call them gals, my grandparents used to say that!
It is unfortunate that she betrayed you. I’m sorry for your loss as well. But the reason why you were in so much shock is that you trusted the girl with your life since you knew her for basically your entire life. But don’t let that scar you permanently. Just because something like that happened doesn’t mean that all girls are like that. But if you don’t want to fall as hard, then take things cooly and casually. If you put your whole heart into every relationship, if it doesn’t go well, then you’re going to have a harder time. So my advice to you is to be more accepting and try going out with other girls. Your mind may change.
all u need to do is take dating on a bit lighter note, u r too serious with the dating business, one should date some1 to have fun & enjoy life & while enjoying ur relation if u feel she’s the 1 4 u & she is a long term meterial then purpose her
i think you have answered your own question my friend because you know why your acting this way,time to stop listening to your head and follow your heart,start taking chances and see where it leads,it isn’t difficult to work out who is sincere and who isn’t so give life and love another chance,its too short to do otherwise.
you mean for 7 good years you have almost been like a walking corpse because of one betrayal? this should be in the guinness book of records. sorry, but I just cant believe you refused to live, refused to move forward because of one relationship gone sour? Well, I beg to differ, but there is no human being on earth, dead or alive that is worth loosing so much for. Anyway, thank God you have decided to be human again. First, there is no such thing as a perfect person, including you though cheating on a relationship may not be your own weakness. So back to business, you will never get any loyal and/or understanding woman unless you give them a chance in your life without the cobwebs of yesterday. Treat each as they come without any bias or judgement from you past. Goodluck.