Please someone help me, no one else is?
Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex over the christmas holidays,
I was drunk and really can’t remember this. I know I’m stupid.
Then later realised the next that that my pill wouldn’t work as I’m on anti-biotics.
I was due my period either yesterday or today and it’s not came.
And I havn’t had stomach craps, and that weird crappy feeling you get before your period.
And I’ve been getting bad headaches and needing to urinate more which are early signs.
I told my boyfriend about this as I felt that he should know and I’ve freaked him out.
Which is totaly understandable. So he never answered my text when I told him.
I also told him about it earlier in the night and he looked scared. Which again is totaly
understandable. He has told me in the past he would if he ever accidently did but
to be honest it could all be bullshit. I trust him though. :\
But I’m worried about if I am pregnant he wont stick arround. I couldn’t abort.
As much as I’d love to, if I am, I couldn’t.
Also I’ve only just turned 18 and failing college so there’s no way I could support it.
And I couldn’t put it up for adoption it would break my heart.
Plus I’ve only just turned 18 and can see me getting kickeed out if my family finds out.
Please even just some opinions or advice would help.
Negative or positive.
Thanks for reading.
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i read this. Well i don’t know what to say. I just went through this (but i’m not pregnant)
Just tell the daddy. If he doesn’t stay you could keep it or put it up for adoption. Just remember that adoption will let that baby and a loving family love and care.
I would put him up for adoption nomater what because even though it hurts to give away your baby even if that guy stays with you having a baby at 18 will screw your whole life
sometimes these accidents happen. try not to get too worried just yet ! sometimes unprotected sex can irregulate your period and it can be off by a few days. if you do not get your period within the next week or two take an at home pregnancy test. if you are positive see a doctor immediately and get testing done there to know for sure. As for the boyfriend. you need to sit down and tell him that your scared about this. try not to overwhlem him but make sure he is aware of the sitaution and if your test comes out positive. be sure to try and sit down with him and reveal it to him the best way possible. no need to stress you both out. if he cares about you he will help you through it. guys are assholes yes. he might be one of those but you never know. you need to try and explain to him your feelings and ask if he is willing to help you. and if not. then you will have friends and family to help support you and get you thru this. try not to bomb him with information that your not positive of yet.
first see a doctor to make sure your actually pregnant
i agree with staci about the adoption god didn’t send a baby here to be killed if you couldnt keep it give it to a family who would love to have a child but are not able to