Alright- me and my ex have not not talked for longer than a week since the breakup. And then he gets a new gf- were still talking. Every night to every other night via phone. Then we sort of stop again- but I didn’t try to contact him at all, which sometimes I’ve done to get the conversations started again. Instead- i let him be and begin talking to a new guy- one of his best friends. Well, this new guys tells me that he finds out were talking and he tells him not to date me because I’m obsessive and controlling. So I get angry and tell him that he’s pathetic and needs to grow up and said a few things about his gf, mean. She did talk to me via computer and was a bit rude. And he called me about the message VERY angry and tried to tell me how i was wrong and that I didn’t matter. Well then I start dating his friend, and he is telling my ex about how great I am. The comments coming from my ex seemed like he was hurt. He never gets on his myspace- but was checking his account at least every other day for about a week or so. A few times I tried to message him and apologize for saying anything about his girlfriend, and said I’d like to be friends again. But he never responds.

About a month later I sent him a video like we used to and he never replied. But I posted a bulletin about a funny comment of a mutual friend of ours who confused his name with her ex. He messages me and says quote

”Ok, explain this ******* bulletin. I’m tired of your rancid *** ****. Tell me what the **** is going on with you? What the **** is your problem?”

I called and tried to explina that the bulletin had nothing to do with him really- just a funny comment that wasn’t really about him. And he began to listen and began to say if you’re not doing anything just keep it that way but then got angry again and told me not to call, not to message, not to talk to him ever again (and he was with his gf when this occured)… but he’s just been very angry ever since i told him he was pathetic. And especially when he thought I was badmouthing him over the net. What is he thinking?

I’m confused. I get the don’t talke to me. I can do that- but otherwise, i don’t see why he’s so angry.

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