sooo me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, but i can honestly say she was my first love, and ive had plenty of girlfriends. Shes smart, beautiful, she goes to church, she doesnt drink or smoke, shes a virgin still, just like me:) her ex bf became available not long after and they are on the verge of dating again. The reason they are broke up in the first place is because he left her because she wouldnt have sex with him, so he broke up with her for a girl that would(although during the relationship, she told me that this boy was her first love). Now he wants to come back now that she is single, and shes basically letting him back. the weird thing is, this kid recently got expelled from school for dealing, and he does drugs and drinks and hes just not the right girl for her. her parents dont even like him, and didnt allow them to see each other the first time they dated, and i dont see this fact changing after the expulsion lol.

Me and my ex dont talk to much, i kinda ruined things. when she didnt tell me why she broke up with me, i asked her friends and that made her mad, so i try to keep my space from her. Ive been talking to her recently on AIM tho, and she talks about how shes stressed about the fact that this kid is expelled and since her parents dont like him, she cant really see him at all, and when i asked why shes putting herself through this, even after what he did, and she said that “no matter what he did to me, he was my first love and he deserves a second chance”. I guess i can see why shes saying that, considering she hurt me really badly and id take her back. I just dont know how to go about this and i guess i need some advise. Im seeing this other girl, and shes really great, but i dont feel the same way as i did for my ex, and i no i want my ex back, and i feel like id have a good chance if this boy wasnt in the picture, but he is and i dont know what to do.

Some additional info here, im 18 and shes 16(17 in december), we were really into each other and a great couple, but in the summer, we werent able to see each other that often, and this resulted in our breakup. im a freshman in college now and shes a junior in high school still, which might not be an issue if we were dating, cause my college is close by, but i havent seen her since a few days before we broke up, which was about 3 months ago. i feel like if i saw her, history would repeat itself, and things would go great, cause everytime we spent together was great and eventful, but then again, maybe not lol. Honestly tho, id like to get her back, but if for some reason i cant, then i want whats best for her, and i dont think its this kid. After all, she was my first love:(

-what should i say when we talk about this on IM?
-should i call her?
-if i see her, how should i act?
-is there any way i can get her back?
-Should i even bother lol?

any advice is greatly appreciated, please be as detailed as possible :)

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