NEED ADVICE! about my best friend and her boyfriend?
ok so i am basically best friends with both my bff and her boyfriend…which is kinda wierd i know
anyway shes been saying she loves him but doesnt wanna go out with him cuz shes in the popular group and hes not…and she basically says shes too good for him.
hes SUCH a nice guy tho, and truth is she doesnt deserve him.
they always fight. hes never ever mean to her tho and has never ever lied to her.
shes BEAUTIFUL but i really think he doesnt like her for her looks though.
so…they need to breakup. shes always trying to make him feel bad and is really really mean to him…she never sees him in person only texts him (and she hardly texts him anymore, but for some reason he still “loves” her….they broke up a few times but get back together within the next few days.
how do i break them up without losing my bff?
by the way the boyfriend is kinda a loser….not to be mean but the only reason my bff started dating him was cuz i used to like him and she gets jealous easy and needs to be the center of attention
all she needed to do was the girly giggle, flip her hair and bat her extrodinarily long eyelashes at him and she got him.
he doesnt know when to move on tho and really thinks hes in “love”
i dont like seeing him always sad cuz of her tho…should i try talkin to him? or is that a bad idea
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Talking to him isn’t a bad idea, but your timing has to be right and you can’t come off as you WANT to break them up. Even if you do.
But after a fight and he is feeling bad how about you go over and talk with him and make him laugh and just talk, then kind of bring up his girlfriend. Ask him if he is really happy in the relationship. I don’t know where it will go from there, but do keep some facts in mind. There are so many other girls out there. She treats him badly, and whatever else you didn’t add. Also let him know that you are just saying this as friends because he is an important friend to you and that you want all of your friends to be happy. You just want what’s best for him.
If he decides to consider breaking up with her, let him know that she may be upset, but that she likes to be the center of attention and she gets jealous easily so in no time she’ll be with someone else. That you aren’t trying to be mean, but that’s the reality. You want to help him. There are many other girls out there and that you are sure there is one out there for him who will love him like he loves this girl. Maybe even better. Give him a little hope.
Make sure you let him know that you just want to help him as a friend. Don’t suggest any one, not even yourself because you WILL cause problems. Just let him know that he has to go ask a couple girls out and he’ll find the girl for him.
Good Luck and I wish the best for you and him!