Would You Give My Ex Boyfriend A Second Chance?
Well I’m gonna explain my story. I would like your opinion on what you would say or do if this was you in my shoes.
We’ll I loved him. Completely. All I ever wanted to do was love him at his best and worst. I made sure he knew I loved him. I always went out of my way to help him and make him happy. He was so happy. I don’t know what happened. All the sudden he broke up with me. He threw away months of great memories and love. He did it cruely. I had found bad emails from other girls on his email. He was telling them how beautiful they were and that our relationship was suffering. I confronted him and he said he didn’t feel the same. I asked if he loved me and he said I don’t know. It was a bad breakup. Then less than a week later he started dating a real fake and ditzy red head from my class. She drives everyone ape. As soon as he broke me to pieces she was all over him. He never told me the real reasons for wanting to break up with me. He just said he didn’t feel the same for a week and that I was controling. When in reality he was. I was the only person who ever gave him trust. The whole grade thought horrible things and his ex girlfriends warned me. I wish I had listened. He lied about everything. Even about the new girlfriend. She annoyed the crap out of him and he never had wanted to be around her.
Theirs more to it but that’s enough. The wierd thing was he said he didn’t feel right but then asked could we date again later in school. Why would he ask me that. If your breaking up with someone generally you don’t say that. I said yes but now I think I would most likely say no. Do you think he said that because he wasn’t sure whether he had loved me or not? He said he still had feeling for me after the breakup when I asked him why. Everyone knows he made a big mistake and I’m pretty sure it’ll start bugging him. I want to be ready when and if he trys to come back. If he doesn’t I won’t need to worry but if he does I just want to make sure I’m ready.
Thanks so much for listening to my rambling
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Honey, the guy is a jerk. You probably don’t realize this now but you are better off without him. Believe me. Let him go and find someone who treats you better. You deserve it.
I would give him another chance if he was relly nice to u
i would give her another try
Don’t give him the second chance. You gave him your everything and couldn’t return it at all.
He’s only coming back to you because he wants the attention again or he just wants to have a girlfriend for the sake of having one and not being alone. You’ll only get hurt again if you go back out with him.
Unless you want to keep loving him and more drama, then there it is :/
Honey you deserve so much better than that!!
He is treating you like shit. Let him go. You may have thought you loved him, but how can we really know what “love” is?
SAY NO.
He will come crawling back. If he hurts you like that once, he most likely will do it again.
Good luck!!
-*L
hes a retard,move on!
He sounds selfish and immature. I wouldn’t give him another chance to hurt me, if I were you. sp
that was really harsh for him to break up with you for no apparent reason,I say leave him alone but if you want to get back with him make him work EXTRA hard to prove to you that he’s worth the second chance, and it wont happen again.
Judging from what you’ve said about all the lying he’s done and the way he acted after he broke up with you, he seems like a jerk… one of my friends is going through something similar only he hasn’t broken up with her yet (she’s the problem not him), but my point is that you deserve someone better than that. If he never gave you the real reason for breaking up with you, chances are, he never will… the best thing you can do is to forget about him and find someone who will appreciate you.
Next, if he even follows through with what he said about “dating later”, it wouldn’t be a good idea. If he has so many ex girlfriends who “warned” you, it’s likely that he’ll just repeat the scenario again… He seems to be afraid of commitment and he doesn’t want the same things as you…. You’re really better off finding someone who will appreciate you and has the same goals as you… you’ll be MUCH happier with that person.
Hope this helps.. Good Luck!!
I totally understand where your coming from. I have been there done that.
Three years on/off with the same guy, believe me it gets old. I loved him with everything, and I still do I just don’t like him. I can’t stand to be around him. I don’t want to talk to him.
Don’t keep going back to him, please. Don’t make the same mistake every girl does.
It’s going to be an on and off thing for ever, and then when it finally does come crashing down, its going to hurt worst than it did the first time.
Depending what grade your in, I know there are other guys out there.
It takes time, and it hurts but once you start hanging out with other guys and going on dates, it gets so much easier.
It really helps you realize that you don’t need the other guy.
Just please don’t make the same mistake I did.
Yes, this is coming from someone you don’t even know, but trust me.
I know what it’s like and it’s not fun. Not one bit.
But good luck with everything!
I can’t say anything bad, because I’ve taken back my ex under worse circumstances.
I think he is trying to have his cake and eat it too! He’s keeping you around so that he’ll have someone to fall back on…kind of like a security blanket. I know it hurts to hear, but you really have to think lonnngggg and hard…do you want to be with him? Is he worthy of your love? Is he willing to prove to you that he cares/loves you/wants you back???
Its a tough one – but you have to follow your heart…but use some logic!
good luck
I think that the way he broke up with you was really messed up. If he wanted to be with you but was still unsure about some other things he should have just asked for some space/some time alone. It would have made things a lot easier for both of you. I don’t disagree of you saying yes but I think this time he needs to be able to open up to you and tell you about the way he is feeling. Just be more cautious about each others actions. But other than that you made a good choice.
ok, just from past expierence, this is the simple case of a guy wanting his cake and wanting to eat off of it. i dont think he knows what he wants to be point blank. he had it great with you obivously, but he seems like he doesnt want to be tied down with a girlfriend. with you saying the oter girlfriends warned you obviously he has done that to them. i think your worthy of someone who will treat you the smae way you treated him. a relationship has to be equal in order to work. its a two way street, not a one way. i think you need to pick yourself up even though your broken hearted and find a guy 293 times better than him and dont even rub it in your ex’s face, it will kill him knowing your much happier! i would just gather the support of your friends and family abd try to move on. dont ignore him but dont talk to him. if he tries to talk to you just act busy and make it quick. and please dont run back to him, he will hurt you again…goodluck and do what makes you happy thats what really matters in the end. when one door closes, another door opens…:)