The woman has 2 kids by 2 different men. They are 5 and 3. She’s in school and works at a courthouse. I still think it’s a bad situation despite this.

You see I was previously married when I met him but going through a divorce. I was still sleeping with my ex when my current boyfriend & I started our relationship. Insecurity or I don’t know why I did it when I had feelings for my current boyfriend and not my ex. Then eventually I broke away from my ex husb but my current boyfriend is having a hard time forgiving me because he thinks this was going all the whole time. He was in Indiana and I was in Colorado. I am now currently in Indiana and have relocated to show and prove to him that I really do love him with my 2 kids. When we met and even after it was like 2 peas in a pod we have everything in common, would talk for hours on the phone I’d fly out to IN or he’d drive up to CO. It was like a perfect match I had always wanted a man like him. No drugs no alcohol just hard working, affectionate and loving. Wonderful man from what he showed me. I know i did wrong but I am truly sorry. I cry everyday and he’s seen me and says look I don’t want to hurt you but I can’t control how I currently feel and what I think.

He’s changed drastically towards me he sometimes says he’s confused on what he feels towards me other times he says he doesn’t feel anything for me anymore that I killed it. This is a man who said he’d die without me that I was everything to him, his life, his world. How can a love that was so strong and big have died overnight in a period of a month? He’s not affectionate at all or complimenting, he’s told me you act like nothing happened you hurt me a lot maybe time will change the way I feel and think but maybe not. He’s told me that I haven’t done anything to change my physical aspect because I am a little overweight and I’d make changes to my body but I’ve fallen into a semi depression but I’m willing to do whatever it takes to show him that I have soleheartedly repented. I have asked God for forgiveness but I don’t know what to do about my boyfriend. Another thing that bothers me is he is so mysterious and protective of his blackberry he won’t let me even touch it and he carries it wherever he goes. He says work is separate from our live when he makes work related calls he has to be outside in the balcony or away to where I won’t hear his conversations. Could he have someone else on his mind? I asked him straightout and he said you shouldn’t be asking me but no I have never cheated on you even now I haven’t. Then why does he act like he’s hiding something.?

I’d appreciate any advice. I just feel so sad and I don’t know what to do anymore. I just got here to Indiana on July 27 and we just moved in together. He said we should’ve waited and given each other space and time to see if he’d miss me and want this as much as I did. But I moved things along because I wanted to SHOW him not tell him how much I love him and how much he means to me. He always tells me had I loved him I would’ve never done this to him but he’s wrong I am human and made a mistake I’m a good person and woman but how can he realize and see it?

Thank you :”””””””’(

I broke up with him, and haven’t moved out yet, neither one of us have the means to live alone yet. But now he is being really nice and i feel like a made a mistake. is that possible? How do i get through this?

I dated my ex boyfriend for 2 years and we have been broken up for about 9 months and so i have a new boyfriend. However the sex with my ex was awesome! and my new boy its not as exciting. so i have been sleeping with my ex when i am drunk around him and i dont feel like i am cheating, but i know it is, i just feel like im using him for sex. how bad is this?

I don’t know if he even can tell I like him… and even after she cheated & left him or he left her idr he still likes her obviously… and I’ve been giving some pretty good signals that I like him… and how he describes what kind of girls he likes I seem to match pretty much all of it… so wtf! What can I do so he could like me too or see that I do?
@ somebody… i said his EX cheated lol

My friend has liked this guy for months now and he’s finally said yes to going out with her, ive never seen her so happy. Problem is he’s known as a cheater and has cheated on his past two girlfriends who happen to be my best mates! So she was over the moon and was planning on seein him today, but yesterday she saw him holding hands with a girl a year younger than him and hugging her, the girl he was hugging has a boyfriend but still.. and she went to say bye to him and he completely ignored her and ran off. Then today he called her a dog and when someone sed she wanted to kiss him he said ewww no as if she’s a dog! I told my mate who was going out with him what he said and she’s heartbroken and crying. Now he claims that he was drunk when he said it? But he wasnt. What should i do? What advice can i give my mate. She really likes him but he’s no good :L

Answer me WHY?? Guys why would you end a relationship with a girl without an explaination/reason and just stop communicating with her anymore and avoiding her calls and e-mails??

I live with my current boyfriend- we’ve been living together for about three months. We’ve been together for just over a year and a half. I felt this awesome connection with him, a really special closeness and comfort and like-mindedness.

Anyways, up until recently I’ve been POSITIVE that I would marry him after college (right now he’s 21 and I’m 20, so we’re still pretty young here) I always joke with him about getting married someday, having babies, that sort of thing.

And up until recently I’ve been really happy. But then I started thinking about my ex-boyfriend, who I dated in high school. We hung out the other night with some friends…. I don’t know if feelings from him are stirring up or if its just me missing days gone by?

I seriously cried myself to sleep last night, because I felt like, all of a sudden, like “Who am I, and what am I doing in this apartment?” I felt like I was cheating on my ex-boyfriend, my first love. But my current live-in boyfriend truly is wonderful. I am just so confused.

I feel awful. I feel guilty about all these doubts, all this confusion. I feel like I’m not sure of anything anymore.

What should I do?