If you were deeply in love for someone who you have been with for years, but you found out that they love someone else and are only with you instead because your local and not distant….what would you do?

I feel like a fool. I think of all I did, I gave my all for him and he made no effort and then cheated on me. I did my very best to make our relationship work, even though he is dependant on drugs and was often distant and cold to me. I sat for hours in a manky flat full of stoners just so I could see him, and in return he cheats on me. I feel humiliated and completely and utterly heartbroken because I truly did love him and he was my first love. This hurts so much and I feel like my heart is literally breaking into pieces, I can’t bear to think il never be close or kiss him again, and yet im angry and hurt. Could people who’ve experienced this please give me advice on how to cope?? x

I can’t get married to her because of my foes and i cant discuss this with her…. She say alot of promise to me and i also replied her… Now im looking for excuse to let her go ……

Im sure we both know its like a joke, and it wont work. But how do I say im over it? But still be online friends? What do I type?

i have a friend and we are pretty close. everytime she is around her pmsing time she seems to get even closer. like she would do things as if i was her boyfriend like hold hands and kiss and be flirtier than usual.

So another question is does she actually like me?

ok, my boyfriend lives in montana an i live in washington so its a little hard to know if he is cheating on me, or if he even loves me, but about 2 days ago my boyfriend went to a party an he told me that he made out with another girl, but he said he loves me an then he made a huge mistake an that he really loves me and he is really sorry, should i trust him? an we are having weird feelings bout each other, what do these feelings mean? please help me out!

A while ago, I had a boyfriend…but people at my school started telling him that I was cheating on him when I wasn’t. I told him that over and over, but he JUST NOW figured it out. I don’t know if I should try and get him back or not, because if he didn’t believe me then…I don’t think that he’s worth it now. I need some opinions though.

I had lost my virginity to some guy and I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal. But now my boyfriend has made me realized how I could lose something so precious. We’re both Christians so in a way it’s a pretty big deal. I don’t know how to save our relationship. He wants me to help him shake that factor off, but I don’t know what to do. PLEASE HELP

have passed without a proposal ?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. My friend told him that i loved him (which i didn’t say) but he said i love her too. So I was under the impression he really did love me. I didn’t think I loved him but I soon began to feel i did. After being together for 6 months we had sex, we were both virgins. Last night, he told me that he didn’t love me, and he was afraid to tell me this before. I’m so completely heart broken! I don’t know what to do! I was speechless when he told me. He then told me we needed to take a break to test our relationship, to see if he could be without me. I really feel so stupid, I am so hurt that i can’t even sleep! I wish he would have told me a long time ago, he waited too long. I believe before we had sex, that was his opportunity to say he really didn’t love me, but instead he told me he did love me. It’s killing me inside, this whole relationship was a lie. I don’t know what to do. I honestly do love him and I’m crying as i write this because he’s my first, he’s everything i could ask for. Or at least i thought he was.

Just broke up with a guy who claimed to want a relationship and then uses the excuse of not knowing whether to have more kids etc… yet never even gave us a chance. I know he is making excuses, but why lead someone on for so long and with so much hope and lie about why he doesnt want to be with me…. e.g. cos of relig/cultural reasons yet maintained it never mattered throughout our dating??

What do I do, why was he like this?

I have been dating this guy for 2 years now and he is sweet and kind, but he just isn`t the right guy for me. I really do care for him, but I don`t love him. I was hoping someone could help me to come up with a way to break it off with him without hurting him too much. I know its not likely we will still be friends after such a long term relationship ends, but I want to at least enable us to be civil. Thanks

So my problem is, I’ve been sort of dating this guy for a while, and he’s completely part of my life. But I don’t really see him as ‘boyfriend’ anymore, he’s more like a brother to me than anything. But the problem is I’ve broken it off with him once before…and I feel like if I do it again, I’ll loose him forever, and I don’t want him gone, I just want to be friends. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated thanks.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7.5 months. I just recently found out that she cheated on my while I was on 4th of july vacation. When I first got back, I had sex with her. We broke up a couple days later for reasons not invo$ving cheating because I didn’t know she cheated yet. I found out a day or two later what happened. She came back from florida today after almost a week and after I haven’t spoken to her cause I’m so ashamed that she did that, I agreed to see her and we ended up making out. She cried so hard after that. And I hope she feels ashamed. Then we had sex. But now I feel like shit because I just had sex with her when I shouldn’t have. I just had sex with my ex of 7.5 months after she cheated on me. What should I do? Is it okay to still have sex with her? Or should I just not talk to her. I’m leaving in 3 weeks for the marines. And I kinda don’t wanna regret anything.
One more thing. I don’t wanna be with her as long as I live. Were done and done.