I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I am having a hard time. He was really nice but he just stopped talking to me. (Didn’t even get a call on Valentines Day)

What can I do to get over him???? I am so sad.

Almost a year ago, my boyfriend and I split. No matter what I do, I can’t let it go. I have spent countless hours crying myself to sleep every night. I always could see me and him being together for a long time. I’m not quite sure why we got along so well. He was outgoing, funny, and always very upbeat, while I’m very quiet/shy, serious, and not very social. I loved it because I could always trust that he was giving his honest opinion to me whenever I asked him something. He always told me the truth even if it wasn’t what I wanted to hear. Most of all what I loved about him was that he always respected me and acted like a gentleman. Never once did he do anything (if you know what i mean) that I didn’t want to do. He always supported me and my interests (going to my volleyball and basketball games, track meets, band concerts) I loved how he always found a way to make me laugh no matter what we were doing. Being shy, I don’t generally have boys flocking around my house or fighting to date me( like that’ll ever happen) but he always told me how beautiful he thought I was. I felt like with him I could talk to him about anything and not have to be embarrassed. I need advice on what to do. We both have said that we still have strong feelings for each other, but I’m not sure what to do. I always feel depressed and I’m always sad. It was truly like loosing my best friend.

The relationship I have with my boyfriend is going nowhere. We’ve been together for eight years and are “shacking up”.

I’m interested in a girl that broke up with her bf a month ago. I asked her out, not knowing about the break up. She said that she wanted to take the summer off guys, which I completely understand. But, she was willing to go as friends. Then she apologized and said she loved talking to me. Should I keep leaning on her shoulder until she is ready? What’s the best way to approach this?

my girlfriend is absolutely amazing.i love her dearly,and want whats best for her,even if it affects me negativly.she is bi,i feel stuck in the middle of her wnting a grlfriend,and her not wanting to ‘hurt me’ cuz she would be loving me and sombody else.i admit,i dont like the idea,i cant stand the fact that she could love sombody else like she does me,male or female.i try my very hardest to understand,and i do in some ways but to me its wrong.im just old fashioned like that.i know that we are meant to be together,with her i have found true love.i know she cant help being bi,but to me,that shouldnt be an excuse to love sombody else.she broke up with her grlfriend because of me,i know she liked and aparantly still does like this girl.i cant help but feel bad for causing their breakup,i caved in under the pressure.should i feel bad for all this?should i accept her loving someone else?should i let her have a grlfriend?i feel hurt either way.please help!

My last girlfriend broke up with me in February 2008. Three days later, I get an awesome job that pays great. I have my own place and I work up to 56 hours a week and most Saturdays. Since I started this job, I haven’t been able to find time to get out and meet girls. I have been single this whole time and I’m getting nowhere with the online dating sites. What is the best way to meet girls in a situation like this?

Keep in mind that even though I don’t have time to get out and meet girls doesn’t mean I don’t have time to spend with a girl. If I can just meet someone, I’ll have alot of time to spend with her. I just can’t find the time to actually get out there for hours at a time trying to meet someone.

Any helpful suggestions will be much appreciated.
I don’t know how to reply to answers so I’ll add details. I work at a steel factory so it’s all guys. Absolutely no girls where I work.

i have been dating this really hot girl for about 2 months and we have had a great relationship. i honestly think she is the best looking girl i have ever seen, she even used to be a model, any way the other day we were talking and out of nowhere she lets loose a massive fart! i was shocked, she laughed to play it off, but i just found it disgusting! since then i have kept my distance from her and i am undecieded weather or not to break up with her. i don’t think i will ever look at her the same way after that “incident”. please help, what should i do?

I get pretty emotional about guys breaking up with me, I don’t know why. Right now i’m going out with this boy named Jake. We just started dating each other maybe like 20 minutes ago.. I scared about breaking up though, or him breaking up with me? Tips? Are you the same way, or is there something wrong with me? :[

ok guys, my friend told me awhile ago that he’s gonna break up with his gf already, long story short, they havent seen each other, they just chatted online on yahoo messenger, texts, phone calls, but he hasnt even seen her on cam or what. just her pics..

and the girl keeps saying that she’ll come to his country but shes a no show she told him that shes gonna come on feb 23 but she didnt show up, next she said shes gonna come for a school interview on sept 5 but shes also a no show, now shes telling him that shes gonna come on sept 21

..long story short..too many lies has been going on already..and his parents doesnt like the girl so..he’s asking me on how to break up properly..and he has no choice but to break up on the phone (i know thats a pretty lame thing to do but still) im not really good with these situations..got any tips guys? theyre on long distance relationship btw..thats also one problem..theyve been together for 9 months btw..

im starting to like this other girl now and i have a girlfriend..i wanna break up with her and go out with the girl i like and she likes me to..but also my girlfriend is in love with me and attached to me or something..like i can hurt her easily in a simple way almost..so i dont wanna like destroy her inside,break her heart badly, keep her crying depressedly when i break up with her..i dont know what to do and i been thinking what to do for 2days, still abit confused what should i do give me tips advice or anything please and thank you =[