Happy? Nervous? Constantly thinkings about him? How do you treat him and why do you think you fell for him in the first place? Did he start off just as friends but later on you developed feeligns for him? Or did you have feelings from the start.

Thx

I ask because I recently found out that my fiance cheated on me 3 years ago in the beginning of our relationship with an ex. We had only been together a few weeks and he was out of town for the summer. It’s really thrown me for a loop. He says he’s sorry, it never happened again, it was a transitional thing between relationships, blah blah blah. I don’t know what to think.

i was in an abusive {horrible} relationship-cheated on -put down ect. now i have a hard working man that does nothing but love me and our new son -he’s a provider, a lover, an honest man. and i catch myself getting so angry at him for the littlest things i feel like i’ve forgot how to be happy and have someone good in my life.i’m used to being hurt and angry.how do i transition from -bad life- to-good life?

my boyfriend and i hardly communicate anymore cause he’s getting more involved with his brothers church which is a good thing, but i rarely get to see him and when i talk to him in person later on that evening through the phone he then accuses me of cheating and that im lying! what should i do?

My girlfriend is in Hawaii. She is coming back tonight at 9. Two nights ago I called her up and we had a 10 minute conversation. I forgot to tell her that I was going to Los Angeles to look at this one college. So I texted her saying that I have to go to this college sorry I forgot to tell you. I before told her that I wasn’t going to Houston because my brother was playing baseball. But I don’t know if I made the mistake of telling her that I wasn’t going anywhere even though I was going to check this one college in LA. I just simply forgot to tell her over the phone. I hope she didn’t take it as I lied to her. Anyway, I told her that I was going to LA to look at the college and said sorry that I forgot to tell you over the phone. I then suggested if you want to go out before I leave. She then replied “Um, I think that it would be better to hang out after school starts.” My psychologist told me from her point of view (how she would take it if she received a message like that) it sounds like a bad sign.

I mean I could try talking to her when school starts and ask her why is she behaving like this. But other than that, if she doesn’t listen, I’m going to probably end it. I don’t know. What do you guys think?
I’m 18 and she is 16.

My boyfriend started talking to his ex-girlfriend on the internet about 2months ago saying Hey and I let it go until the other day when I found out he was talking to her again, should I be worried?

I feel guilty for saying this behind her back because her and i do have a close relationship with her. But she is the type of person where she can be sweet as a piece of cheese cake but when her mom tells her no about things she gets really mad. She has been given a lot of things like a free car granted she did pay for the repairs. her first job was working for my uncle’s family( a secretary) a few days a week and cleaning her grandma’s house and barn. My Auntie does so much for her and she can be controlling but she lets my cousin do a lot of things. my aunt payed for her Piano lessons her horse back riding lesson and gymnastics lessons. i’m sure my cousin thanked her for it but i don’t think it could be a genuine as it could be. My cousin treats her horribly sometimes and she talks back to her and calls her rude things. I know my aunt may not be easy to deal with(my mom is her twin) but she is the parent and obviously she says no for a specificc reason.

My aunt is really generous person(she payed for a college class for me) and she is like that with her kids. They always go on vacations. My uncle is the president of a construction company. They have two boats tons of ski gear for water knee boards things like that.

last week they went away on vacation and she wanted to bring her boyfriend with her. When she asked her mom last minute my aunt said no and she freaked out. My aunt was like i have to say no because you knew if he wanted to come you should have told me two months ago. My cousin went upstairs and went on the computer even though my aunt said that she needed to pay some bills so it would be a few more minutes. She said no again and to get off and my cousin was like “You can’t talk to me like that”!

My cousin was told to go to her room and she did but as she was packing she threatned to leave the house while everyone is sleeping. She gets to do so much and she never really had to work hard at finding a job or anything and she can act like a brat. But why is she doing this i mean she’s 17 so she should be more mature by now. Im not jealous or anything im just mad that she thinks she can treat her family this way. my uncle won’t tell her no and he’ll just be like oh we’ll go and talk about it later. he won’t defend my aunt when my cousin calls her bad names either.

Sorry its so long
thanks shannon

the guy was my first love, he wanted to pop in and out my life and I was not cool with that so I had to let him go, and also he wanted me to leave him alone! but it hurts so much should I rebound!

PLEASE HELP ME gain some insight and advise me so I can find the reasoning behind this in order to make a decision on what to do.

I am a mother of 2 young children and am in my late 20’s. Three years ago I found out my husband was cheating on me and I was 7 months pregnant with our second child. I decided to move to the west because I had not family where I was living. Since then, I have picked up the pieces, am going to school working on my Master’s degree and taking care of my children. I have not dated or slept with another man since I left my husband. At the time, he really didn’t want a divorce because he kept putting it off…when I told him to file if that is what he wanted to do.

(My husband and I have been separated for almost 3 years now. Last year, he started calling again supposedly wanting to be a family. He called and acted like everything was supposed to be all good. I guess word got around that me and the kids were doing well financially without him. We live in separate states. But it was mainly because he needed help financially (his vehicle got repossessed), and the other woman who he cheated on me with was not helping for whatever reason. Deep in my heart I knew he was not being for real, but I was just so happy he called. Well in a short amount of time, I could tell he was still playing around and not being serious. I found out he still was messing with that other woman.

In this time of separation, he has never willfully called for our children or even helped by providing for them. He has never tried to visit them nor has seen our youngest child in person. Sometimes I wonder if he even cares whether they are still alive or not. One time after a big argument (because I found out he was lying about the other woman), he told me to take him off child support since I am supposedly doing so well. I was furious! So about 1 week after that, he filed for a divorce. I was able to get an attorney, but he couldn’t. He lied to the courts saying he didn’t make enough money, was unemployed, and got the court filing fees waived. Well, it has almost been 1 year and neither of us has followed through with it. I told him since he is the one that filed, then he should finish it.

I’ve already filed for child support AND child custody before he filed for a divorce and was granted both. I was granted sole custody and I haven’t seen a child support check since June of last year. We have nothing to divide and have no community property together.

Another thing that is bugging me is what does he see in that other woman? She is the opposite of how I am, except she is only 6 years younger than me. He told me once, that men in his family respect him because once he breaks off a relationship with someone, he doesn’t fool with them anymore…so why is the other woman not in that category?

Sometimes I feel like he is stringing me along for as long as he can so when HE gets ready to come back, he will. But I am almost 30 and don’t want to be one of those people who is separated for 10 years. I still have my whole life ahead of me. My husband is almost 20 years older than me.

So why is he not trying to finish it? Is he just being lazy, is he using me as a reason not to fully commit to the other woman, or what?

I feel like im falling in love with this guy but im too young. And im in middle school so yeahh im too young. But i dont care. I mean i know this guy for a year already. He kinda mean but i dont know.
Ughh i hate him too. I feel a bipolar thing for him. But he doesnt feel the same. WHAT DO I DO?

my wife and i have been married for over a year now and we recently had a set back in our relationship. she cheated on me and is now pregnant by this guy. she said that it was a mistake and wishes that i was the father. she also wants me to act like everything is ok and raise this child as my own. on top of all that everyone that i know has found out and it has just made everything even worse. i just don’t know what to do. should i stay with someone that could do this to me?

And has anybody ever cheated on their wife and husband, and nobody ever found out, and you continue to have a good relationship with your wife/husband?

Does anybody still cheat on their wife/husband every once in a while, but still have a good relationship with their partner?

Other than the obvious.

Hunns, my boyfriend told me that even though he was doing really well on his diet, yesterday he cheated and ate a gumdrop. He wasn’t supposed to have any sugar and now I’m worried that he will gain all the weight back. Plus, I dated another guy that cheated before and that really broke my heart, especially when he left me for the other woman. I really love my boyfriend but I don’t think that I can date a cheater. What should I do hunns?