How fast can I make a move if a girl says she is recovering from break-up?
I have been seeing this girl who is recovering from a recent break-up. She says she broke up 2 months ago but was still seeing her ex as friends because she felt guilty for him until a couple of weeks ago.
She and I have a lot in common, and We have met twise so far and have been texting and email quite often. She does mention often during our meeting though that some of her friends say its not really good to move into a relatiooship quickly after a breakup. Is she implying I not make any moves on her. So far we have exchanged friendly hugs and I have kissed her on the cheek. But I am being a little cautious because she herself feels a little unsure, although there seems to be great chemistry between us.
So how much time do girls normally need to recover after a break-up? and should I make any further moves or not, or should I give her some time and just be friends for now? I am just worried that If I don’t make any moves she might put me into a ‘lets just be friends’ box
The relationship she had was long distance for 3 years, and they met only once or twise a year during that time! After that they moved into gather for 3 months and she realized it was not working, and broke up 2 more months later.
Give her time… You wouldn’t want any girl on the rebound.
That never works out either….Don’t rush it. If you get too pushy, she won’t like that either. She needs time to breathe.
And besides, you should be friends first before anything serious should take place…Any relationship should start out as friends….
Just be there for her by listening if she needs to unload.
Don’t be too kissy, kissy. Hugs are great. We all need them.
It will happen if it is meant to over time….. Take things slow.
good luck…!
i would just tell her or you may live to regret it and you don’t want to do that goodluck.