I want to move on from this breakup, but it’s so hard. I really want to stop thinking about him. Help me guys!
Hey guys, I’m getting over a breakup and it’s really hard for me right now. I was with this guy for almost 6 months, would’ve been 6 months today actually =( But I broke up with him 2 days ago because while he was sleeping, I decided to take a look at his phone and on his phone I saw 4 video clips of this girl whom he was telling to take off her clothes. At that time, I couldn’t believe I saw it because I never thought he would do something like this behind my back. He would always tell me that he loves me so much, would never hurt me, would never replace me for any girls because he ALWAYS told me I was the best, beautiful inside and out. I’m not bragging about anything, but he always told me that and I believed him. It’s funny because now that we’re broken up I’m always thinking of him and I admit, I still love him so much. I just want to get over him. Was it the right thing I broke up with him? Because he still wants me back and says he’s deeply sorry and will change. Should I believe him or just move on? Because it’s funny also, he doesn’t want me looking through his computer and iphone. Thanks for the advice guys, I appreciate it.
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Any guy who would have that on his phone while he has a girlfriend and if its a different girl should probably not be trusted cause most likely later on theyll cheat.. but thats just my opinion good luck.
ditch the loser…he isnt worth it…he doesnt care about you the way you think if he doesnt let you look at his things…you cant trust him
its just a guy. get a life outside of them. live for yourself, if someone comes along great! i lived with a guy six months, he cheated on me, made me develop my eating disorder, controlled my life and every move, blahblahblah. the first guy i ever loved, through hell and back. and come to find out, he had another girl pregnant who hes been in love with for months. im over it? it hurt like hell, but its just another guy!
move on it will be hard but once a cheater always a cheater if he loved you he wouldnt have done that. hes not sorry he is sorry for getting caught. tell him it hurt you and your not going to take it delete his number and forget him. good luck.
yes it was the right thing to break up with him because he lied to you. In a relationship there shouldn’t be lies, I’m in the same situation as you, we broke up about a wk ago and we were together for 2 1/2 years. I just didn’t trust him enough, he was always to suspicious and/or to quiet about everything. It still hurts, it comes and goes, you just need sometime with friends, meeting new people, going out, just keep yourself busy at all times so you wont think of him. You deserve better and you have to keep saying that. Look, once he lies now, what makes you think he’s not going to lie to you again or even do something worse. If he says he will change then have him prove it, but sometimes the change only last 2 wks or even a month and their back to where they started. Well i hope this helps and good luck with ur relationship
I would say even though it might be hard you should give it a test run and see if it happens again. Of course you will always have a suspiscion of him cheating on you but you will also always be thinking about what could have happened if you forgave him and things worked out and he never did anything like that again. With that said, you should still make it very hard for him to win you back. Don’t just go running back to him. Play hard to get. That way he knows he can’t walk all over you.