If He Moved On So Fast After Our Breakup, Does That Mean He Never Really Cared And Will Forget Me?
I know I will never go out with him again. We tried twice. We dated for 2 months at first…had a “not sure if we want to be together again break” that was like 4 months and got back together for like 1 month (He never changed). After 3 weeks of broken up, he found a new girl (who has always flirted with him since we were together and since she was with her ex bf). I dating this guy but the sparks are not the same as my ex. If my ex has moved on that fast…did he not care and will he forget me? I found out about his new gf when I comment him on his myspace and I saw her leave a comment. She was like, “Hi sweetheart…i love you…” (Who does that, saying i love you in less than 1 month?) I commented him because he texted me last wednesday asking what I will be doing that night. I didnt respond but just commented on his myspace, making an excuse that I dont have text anymore. We ended in good terms, we know were not right for each other, were better of as friends bcuz we are so alike. I admit I still ahve feelings for him but these feelings will fade away.
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It’s most likely that he wants to forget about you right away. Better for you to do the same. Why waste your time on someone who plans to forget about you by hooking up after breaking if off you?
when you both know that you were not right for each other and ended up peacefully.. then it is possible that he finds a girl of his type.. i mean.. it is you who still thinks of me but he is moved on..
you should nt think about past and concentrate at your present partner…
Maybe he’s like me, and when he broke up with you… He just lost the feelings? He just didn’t see you two as the same as the start or something of the such
He is playing you like a cat plays a mouse. You need better so get out there and start looking. That ship has sailed its over.
could mean that, or it could be that you meant so much to him, he’ll do anything to get you out of his head because its all he can think about.
I think you should move on and not look back. This guy sounds like a major tool who plays women! Maybe he cared maybe not. I get a feeling NOT.
i think he thinks he got u where he wants u ….play it smart and let time fix things …cause if he is messing around on his new girl then he will mess around on u … he’s not ready yet…
noo it dosnt nessesarily mean that…he can be with her to be getting over you.
From the sounds of it Girl . . who cares? He doesn’t deserve you!
he is probaly on the rbound or he just wanted to go out with her to give it a shot
yeah sorry boo boo…he don’t care, never did, never will. just forget about him and move on with your life.
It’s always two things.
1) You mean so much to him that in order to get over you he must try to move on quickly even if he doesn’t like the female. **
2) He was just not that into you. Sorry but number 2 is likely as well.
The bottom line is don’t chase him. If you really care about this dude and he cares for you he would try to get back with you. Friendships do occur with ex’s but it has to be both people trying to make it work.
yeh its abit clingy to be so ‘in love’ so soon but if hes reciprocating those feelings to the new girl aswell maybe he really does love her and theyre both hooked
either way if he really did want u etc etc he wud be with u so i suppose you really either (if u still like him) make it clear to him but except some mess in the process or just play it smart, maintain ur friendship and move on coz theres PLENTYYYYYYYY more guys out there!!!
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If he’s asking you what you’re doing and actually seems like he cares esp after you guys broke up than he obviously did have feelings for you.. Did he respond to the other girl by saying he loved her back? It’s always easier to date someone right after a break-up because it makes you feel attracted and wanted… the break-up has affected him since you guys have been on this roller coaster for awhile… I think she’s just a rebound.. just think.. anyone whose dating someone else and their happy wouldn’t care about what their ex was up to.. she’s a rebound..
it might mean that he didn’t care, or it might mean that he did care but is just one of those guys who moves on so fast. trust me i have multiple friends who have gone through similar experiences and i have also. it could mean anything. guys think we’re hard to read? they are harder to read in my opinion. my friend’s ex sort of cared but didnt really. (he was a d-word anyway) my ex a couple years ago dated someone three days after we broke up, but then broke up with that girl and a year later told me that he never stopped caring about me, and now we’re dating again. point is, it could be either way. but no matter what he feels, you do what you think is best for you and your healing process and your life.
i hope that everything goes well for you =)
Probably not sweetheart. I think he moved on so fast because he will always remember you. He wants to try anything he can to get you off of his skin or his mind. I did that once. He knows that you will be the best he’s got and he needs some physical/emotional comfort to feel complete by others.
Either that or he really has been messing with you. Sorry dear, it’s just the truth. Keep your head up as always. Good Luck
He is what we call a serial dater. He dates one girl and after they break up he dates another. It’s probably just because he misses that intimate feeling you get when you’re dating so he rushes into another relationship so he can get that feeling again. That won’t get him anywhere. He needs to take time to really get over girls and dates when he really likes someone not just because they’re hot and he doesn’t have a girlfriend at the time.
Moving on quickly can either be a sign that hes had eyes on that girl for awhile (doesn’t mean he wasn’t into you, just that he had lust for her as well), or that hes aiming for the rebound relationship, taking the first easy thing that he could find to help him forget.
Either way you need to stop caring about what he does, what she does and what it means. End of the day its not important and won’t change anything, move on and you’ll both forget each other soon enough.
hes trying to move on..
he doesnt want to think about the idea of you two getting back
together and you both just getting hurt again even if you dont
show it as much…no matter how wrong to people are for eachother
when you care about someone you care about someonee. he prob
just wants you to know that its okay for you to move on too.
no hard feelings…no bad words thrown around. he wants you to be happy. just as he wants to be happy. and it would be awesome if you could be happy for eachother youu knoww. but yeahh i love you in one month…thats not a good sign lol.
He could just be hiding his feelings for you. Most guys do that. But I think that he probably did like you and have feelings for you, just not too much. Some guys take advantage of girls and don’t even care about them. I don’t think he’ll forget you though, because he still talks to you. If I were you I wouldn’t even talk to him anymore. I’d go for a girls night out ((but like a bunch of nights instead of that one…lol)) It might help you realize that you did need to get away from him…