How can i get back with my girlfriend?
Friday, November 20th, 2009 at
5:47 am
So my girlfriend broke up with me last night and said the she couldn’t enjoy a relationship now and had problems at home. She said that she couldn’t devote enough time to me and i told her that it was okay and that i could help her. She did this before and came back but it was different. Now i think she’s not coming back and i really like her and want her back. Please don’t be assholes and give me suggestions. Thank you.
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ha ha ha sucks for you!
If you don’t want suggestions, then why did you ask this question?
If I were you, I’d give her space. She obviously wouldn’t have broken up with you if it wasn’t the right thing for her to do.
You can’t control whether or not she wants to be with you right now so getting her back would be a matter of manipulation. That would be a terrible thing to do to her.
All you can do is try to be her friend and be supportive, if she looks to you for that at all.
Leave her alone. When/if she comes back, tell her that u have feelings and she can’t keep playing with them like this. Either she wants you or she don’t. Meanwhile its hurting you that she can pick up at a moments notice and leave and come waltzing back when she pleases. Shows she thinks u have nothing better to do than wait around for her.
If she is having problems at home, then she just needs a little bit of space. check up on her every now and then, and when it seems that the problem is gone, then you can get back together with her. Just remember to give her some space while showing that you care.
You have to tell her how you feel in a really deep way.
I was going to say “stalking is fun” but then i read the part about not being an asshole.
You could always offer to help her with whatever needs to be done. That way the time that normally would be spent away from each other could be done together.
just give her space. if u two are meant to be it will happen. since this is the second time i would think that she needs to be alone right now and you need to respect that. be supportive but let her come to you.
you just need to give her space.
if you press the issue and bug her by asking for her back you could possibly smother her or annoy her = not good.
you know the saying: If you love someone let them go. If they come back, they’re yours. If they don’t.. they never really were.
tell her shes the only girl you ever got to know well and have a relationship with and would like to get back into one… btw how old are you 17
first of all how long have u guys been together? and second if you really want her back tell her how much she means to you and that she makes your world go round and that u cant imagine how your day will keep going with out knowing u have her to talk to at the end of the day.
well give her abit of time to reflect and after a few days maybe send a text and just let her know that you love her. I hope u get back together dude
She very well might have been offering you excuses meant to ease your pain, since she might very well WANT to be out of the relationship. In that case, there is essentially nothing YOU can do.
it’s not to late. call her or go to her bring her flowers and just tell her stright up, you really like her you wanna help her and you don’t care if she can’t devote enough time as long as you’re with her. girls fall for this stuff trust me.
well not trying to be an ass but maybe if it hasnt worked out in the past then it wont this time but one good thing is to giver her a couple days and let her realize what she has done. Maybe becoming friends with her will be the best thing she will realize tht she wants u back hopefully and come back but dnt jst be like yess if shr does want to get back with u because she is the one tht dumped u remember soo play hard to get kinda but best thing to do is giver her sometime
You can’t. Let me translate that “couldn’t enjoy a relationship” crapola from Girl-ese into English for ya: “This ain’t working out, and either I found somebody else or I got my eye on somebody else.”
Move on.
She probably just need time alone. when someone has problems at home they just really need a friend. Someone who they can run to when things get rough, someone they can talk to and just vent or someone just to console them. Let her know you love her (if you do) and that you’re there for her.
If shes having problems at home, the best thing you can do is try and be there for her without expecting anything to happen. If she told you she doesn’t want you back, chances are you won’t get back together. I know this isn’t what someone wants to hear but when someone wants out, they usually have their way. You can’t still try being friends with her if you don’t want to lose her completely.
I know my answer is probably what you didn’t want to hear, and I’m sorry. But sometimes you have to let someone go. Just remember that time heals everything, and you will soon find someone else. Or she might come back to you after she’s figured all her stuff out.
dude omg she doesnt want to be with you is it albout you these days gosh leave people alone if you said that to her you would want your space yeah so leave her alone she will come back if she really truely loves you
Try to help her with stuff going on at home. If she likes and enjoys your help she’ll slowly come back to you. Just try not to be too much of a pain to her to get back together because that can make her change her mind.
and if shes already done this twice, are you sure you want to go back out with her. Because she’ll probably keep doing it many more times…
First of all, it is very selfish to think about whats best for you, “you want” her back and “you really like her” you should really think about what’s best for her, your gf might need a break from the relationship, best thing you can do is to let her be and give her a “break”. This might sound really cliché but if you really like her then you should allow her to do whats best for her and let her “breathe”..
I can tell that u like her a lot but if she broke up with u b4 do u think that is a good relationship???? sounds to me like ” u got it bad. what u need is to get it bad 4 some one else???” u don’t need to stay w/ a person that ur on and off??? u know!!!!
give her the time she needs to figure shit out
dont call dont text/ she will call you
improve you health your job and anything else that was lacking in the relationship
There is nothing you can do…… Try and learn something from the mistakes that you most likely have made and become a better man from this. Be proactive with your life and situation. If she is moving on with her life and dealing with her issues and she does not want you in her life then move forward…..cant you see this is what she wants to do. If she thought you were man enough to be there for her and help her out she would have kept you near her and the two of you could have grown together…..I don’t know exactly why she left you but more then likely she felt you weren’t a real man or a grown up, you probably acted like a child and weren’t mature enough for her and she left you for a real man that can take care of things. This is the perfect opportunity for you to become a real man that can take care of things! So get off your ass, stop crying over past girlfriends and seize the day!
If you want someone to take you seriously change your dumb yahoo name, but i will answer your question cause i know how you feel.
i did all of this
1. Make her remember what she liked about you, make her miss you.
2. Send her, her favorite flowers with a teddy bear
3. Write her a letter, 100 things you like about her
4.Make her a “I miss you” CD with Your song to her on it
This worked for me and give it a shot. Good luck i know how you feel. Go get your girlfriend back.
I totally understand where your coming from.. I would honestly let her go and if she comes back it was meant to be! Believe me. I have been there. Give it some time. She will come back to you if that’s who she realizes she want to be with or she is interested in someone else, which is good for you because that’s the universe telling you that there is someone out there even better that you will be even happier with. Best of luck!
-Raquelle
Dude, it’s all window dressing. She dumped you. Let it go and find a new girl.
As soon as she finds out you are seeing some else she will be all pissed because you got over her so easily. Really, if you find a new girl before she starts dating another guy it will really burn her.
HTFU and find someone else. Chances are you wouldn’t be with her the rest of your life anyway. Just enjoy life.