How do I get my ex boyfriend back???!!?Help please?
Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010 at
3:44 am
My ex and I broke up 2 years ago and he is dating someone else I was to afraid to tell him how I felt because we have tried to date eachother again and he moved so I couldnt do the distance. I love him and want him so bad….What do I do??
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Consider why it is you broke up in the first place. Do you really want him back or do you just want him back just because you feel that you can’t have him? Or maybe you just like the idea of having a boyfriend? Were one (or both) of you abusive, controlling, mean, or possessive? Did one (or both) cheat? If any of these things happened, you’ll want to think long and hard about going back to that kind of relationship. Be the person he fell in love with. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile. Always stay positive to feel good about yourself and make friends around you.The first thing that you say to your ex boyfriend is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get your ex boyfriend back. Do not respond to your ex request for a breakup by crying and begging him to come back. This will not work. You are just going to make him feel more irritated and drive him further away. You need to understand that even though he initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that he still harbors good feelings for you. Use the past to your advantage. If he’s ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with him. If you have a chance to meet him, do it at a familiar place you used to hang out together. Listen carefully to his choice of words. If he ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into the conversation again. This subconsciously tells him that he and you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.