A 22 Year Old Male Seeking Relationship Advice….taking A Break!!!?
i have beeen datin this girl for little over 3 months, we are having a baby which she wants but finally admitted was rushed but we are moving in together oct.1. and are engaged, she said we didnt rush either of those things..just the pregnancy…i constantly question her and annoy her by worrying and all with my insecurites, im seeing a phyciatrist to help but i dont seem to get any better, my gf does nothing to show me she will hurt me its just me and it isnt even legitimate, i always complain and she said i always have a problem, she said she isnt pushed away yet but i can tell she already is, she says were fine just let us be but i constantly have a nervous feeling in me, im takin antidepressants for 4 years now idk what to do…..now my girlfriend says we shud take a few days apart she says she doesnt wanna break up, this wont turn into a break up, and we are not broken up but she thinks this is jus whats best right now because i keep annoying her, plus shes annoyed from work.she had a bf off n on for 4 years, broke up had a rebound guy, got back w him, then got with me 2 months after, we have been dating little over 3 months but i told her, maybe from the 4 year on n off relationship that took her all out of her so she cant give me her all..her body needs a rest and needs a break maybe? thats what i thought, she said that wudnt happen but we are not talkin for a few days, i hope she doesnt realize she didnt rush things w/ me and admits im a rebound …i need advice.before i lose this girlfriend to..she said she thinks its a good idea if we take a little break (we r not broken up right now) but what shud i do while this is going on….myonly 3rd real one, the onther 2 i lost by doing the same thing….
SORRY FOR THIS POST BEING SO LONG BUT I NEED HELP!!
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With all the break ups and getting back together are you sure you are the baby’s father. It sounds like you are obsessing. Sometimes your worst fears do come true. But before you move in and make this situation more permanent think about spending some time alone to get your brain back in balance. If it’s love she will be waiting for you and you won’t have all the doubts.
My best advice is to remain single for a while and save your money!
you really need to be talking to a therapist, the medication and all isn’t working, a therapist can help you get thru this if you open up.
Everyone has their insecurities and issues in a relationship. Maybe you should just wavier your pros and cons with your fiancee. You can’t alter the future so what happens will happen.
In some cases a temporary break is a good thing. Especially when a child is involved. There is always a chance that this could be the end but if you don’t let her go how will you know she will stay. Let her have her few days but keep in touch. Not too much though. If this is going to happen it will happen. Have faith in the relationship you have and the way you feel about her. Not all woman are gonna just run away and break your heart. Some of us just need a little space to think when things get to rough. Try to take sometime and understand where she is coming from. Try talking to her and have her explain why she feels this needs to happen and to make sure that you are understanding things right tell her what YOU think SHE is saying. If you are not on the same page ask her to explain it in a little simpler or different way. The only way to make a relationship work is to have faith in the one you love. Only then will you find out where things are going to end up. Also, do not judge her for the things she has done in the past. That will only make the situation worse. When you got into this relationship you accepted her with all of her flaws and mistakes don’t let that change now. Good Luck and have faith. Everything will turn out for the better in the long run.
Dare to be yourself and be happy in life. Take it easy and be responssible for your coming kids. Many make it why can’t you? Just relax and take thing seriously and easy or else you will ended to no where!! Be happy and face it as since both had committed, both should share the joy and sadness. Just be yourself and step out from the dark, no point thinking about the pass and the bad thing. Be more positive and be more torealorance towards your family too. Very important you must cool down yourself before you can think properly. Everything can be resolved as there are no ending to everybody life so as long as you know how to handle it. Walk out and face it. Take care and God blesses you…
i don’t think the baby is your baby, you need to go ahead with the break-up, ask her for DNA sample when the baby is born. chances are your right. bet she runs away real quick. get a lawyer now to protect your rights, as a future father, and the baby. if the baby isn’t yours then she has to pay for the DNA cost that would mean your saved from future child support payments. however if the baby is yours then well is she cheating on you. thing is if your both on board with moving in together then why are you having 2 nd thoughts.?///////