Do You Consider Having An Online Relationship, Friendship, Sex Talk Cheating??
Tuesday, August 4th, 2009 at
10:05 am
Sometimes in marriage you may reach a point where you feel you are missing something and you may wander around online until one day you’ve found someone to “play with ” online. You talk, flirt, share problems and solutions. Never with the intention to meet – just online. Then you notice that as a result of some of your needs being met that your relationship with your spouse actually improves. Do you consider this cheating?
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Yes, you are engaging in things with this person that you should be doing with your spouse. Whether it’s online or not, it is cheating. Using the “it is improving my relationship with my spouse” thing is BS. That is just what you say to make yourself feel less guilty because deep down you know what you are doing is wrong. If you don’t think it is wrong, tell your spouse about it. If you are hiding it from them, it is cheating.
It’s emotional cheating.
My parents went through a separation when I was a teenager because my mom’s friend introduced some man on the internet to my mom and they started corresponding since my mom was unhappy in her marriage.
Eventually my parents went to therapy and worked it out, but yes I would think it’s cheating
It’s almost as bad. It’s still lying. It’s still flirting. My husband did this. And it almost ended our relationship. I didn’t let it end the relationship, but it surely is a symptom. And it was another reason for him to remove himself from our marriage. Which is what he always tended to do. Which is what hurt so much, as I’ve always tried to reach out to him. So is it cheating? No. But hurts as bad. And that’s still horribly damaging to any relationship. Is this really what you want?
yes . it is cheating because you end up giving your heart to someone Else even though you never meet. the next thing you know you are messing up your real life relationship for the fling your having on line. it may seem like your relationship is getting better but when that other person finds out your messing around on line its going to get much worse.
yes, I do consider it cheating. Instead of wandering around the internet, I’d do what I could to add what it was that was missing, or seek counceling, where I didn’t have to “play games”. Marriage is a serious job and deserves total respect and extra work.
YES this is cheating. Shame on you for doing this to your spouse. Stop it immediately before someone finds out and gets hurt because of your stupid actions that you think are harmless. Give this attention to your spouse instead . Remember you did take vows with this person, don’t hurt them this way. Good luck you will need it.
Yes, I consider it cheating.
Instead of investing your energy in finding someone to play, you need to invest it in improving your relationship.
Remember your vows…through good times and bad.
It’s called emotional cheating. If you aren’t getting what you want or need from your spouse, it’s obvious that there isn’t good communication. Talk with your spouse.
Yes, it is cheating. You should be putting the effort you put into this other person into your wife.
It’s a boundary issue. Ask first, it’s easier, since no one gets hurt until something goes wrong.
If you mentally connect with that “person” then yes you are cheating
Anything you would not do in front of your spouse is cheating. Sexual or not.
it’s called an emotional affair..so yes u are cheating
Yes I do. You only do that with your spouse
Linda
Yes, i call it cheating, no good can come from it.
no sex is just cheating!
yep thats cheating alright!!
no, just fun.
yea
yes i want that