How many days/months into a adult (30 years old) relationship until couples start to have sex?
Saturday, March 13th, 2010 at
9:39 am
I’m young but I’m curious about relationships around 30 years old. I’m looking for average number of months or days until they start having sex, or how much from your encounters.
What about meeting in clubs? What about after the formal dating process? What about if it just happened casually?
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theres a big problem if youre in an adult relationship and youre waiting MONTHS to have sex.
It really depends on the person and the nature of the relationship. If it’s a deeper relationship (i.e. long-term potential) then the physical stuff happens slower. And some people will go for a one-night stand, although that is just a bad idea. The ideal is to wait long enough to have a pretty decent feel of who that person is and what their character is like. No one wants to be stuck with the psycho-ex (but then again, I think everyone learns that lesson the hard way).
This is probably the longest non-answer answer I’ve ever given….hope it still helps.
I normally wait around 3 months. it takes that long to get to know someone and see if they are a smuck or not. And I’m not into casual sex. Sex is a special thing, not just because someone at the bar is good looking and i’m drunk, sort of thing….
depends – how much you feel for each other.
could be right then when you meet now or much later
I do not think that you are going to be able to pin this down to an average number. All people are different and each relationship is different. Some people are totally against casual sex and for others that is what they are looking for. So your answers will change depending on each couple/ each relationship!
At clubs – usually sex comes before the relationship if there is a relationship at all.
Formal Dating – what like friends first? Probably just until they are alone or until they become attracted to each other.
Usually not long though, bud
If your wanting a REAL relationship then I would say that you wait around 6 months to about a year so that way you will get to know the person you have sex with and it is more enjoyable!
You could do a one night stand but it isn’t as good as a real relationship…