My Relationships Suck!! Any Advice?
Thursday, August 6th, 2009 at
3:49 pm
Well whenever i go out with someone the relationship lasts for a short time, my longest relationship was 3 months and i was surprised…i dont know why but ever since i like this boy for so long and we went out for a long while, and we had to break up because he went somewhere..my relationships have never lasted long…is it me? i dont know why but im starting to think they dont last because of me? any ADVICE?
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have you ever tried working out the problem in your relationship or do you just give up easily? could be that you give up easily and don’t want to deal with the stress and hardship of a relationship that your relationships don’t last long.
or you’re not ready for commitment. one or the other.
I was having the same prob and I went to a therapist for some help. He told me that it wasn’t me but the guys whom I chose to date. Maybe that’s your prob too. You need to be with someone who you can connect with mentally not just physically. I always go for the cute dumb type that hate a woman who can read and likes it, so that’s my bad habit. Now you have to find out what’s yours and upgrade from your usual standards. There’s a mister right for everyone but most of us settle for the mister right now instead. Don’t think that a man completes you either because he doesn’t. Do some real soul searching within yourself first and then you can find out why you are picking the wrong men.
Don’t wonder too much, otherwise you’ll go crazy and your confidence will go down the bottom. Just think that they were probably not meant to be, and I know that sounds cheesy, but hey, it’s true! If you can’t find exactly what you did wrong, then there’s nothing to worry about. I would say you should be worried if you did something wrong and you were aware of, like cheating, but I don’t think that’s the case (hope not)…but if you can’t remember doing anything wrong, don tangle up, just tango on and carry on with life, ok?
You’ll be ok, I promise.
Maybe it is you. When was another time that you were dumped? What do you think you did wrong before you were dumped? You know, guys leave girls because they don’t put out. If that is the case, then you don’t have to worry about anything because it means you are not a hoe.
It could also be that you two are not compatible, which is OK. How old are you anyways? Age really matters. If you are a teenager than you might just be not dating the right type of guy. If you are older than you might not be what the guy is looking for exactly.
Don’t stress it though. Your time will come when you will find the right guy to spend a much longer time with.
Good luck!
Im going through the same thing and have no idea what do . I’m terrified of dating now and really see no point to me dating since it lasts so short most of the time now after my long relationship with another girl. Im trying to work on it tho by being friends with the girl i lasted with a long time and see what we did to last so long and try to do it again for another girl but trying to make the ending different.
contact me or soemthing.id like to know what u did.maybe it would help me.
Did you pray to find the right boy? Just pray and see the result!
look for a guy u went get bored of watch movie go place have fun have sex w,e rock ur boat have realtion romanic n fun