Myspace & Relationships: Anyone Believe In Online/emotional Cheating?
Everyone seems to have myspace including the guy I’ve been dating for a few months. I use myspace too and tried to add him as a friend (before we became exclusive and he wouldn’t accept the request (never gave a reason). He also didn’t change his status to being “in a relationship” (his response is he’s never changed it for any relationship before and it still says he’s looking for all of the above (friends, dating, relationships…) and to top it off the few chicks he has as myspace friends (esp. 1 chick) post all these cutesy comments about “miss you” “love endures all” with nicknames…yeah and I forgot to add, he’s finally okay with me posting pics, but doesn’t want his name associated with the pics (he doesn’t want his name to be online) breaking it down this seems absurd to give a damn, but you gotta admit it does seem suspect…any thoughts?
Oh yeah and I’ve never met his friends or even mentions who they are but twistedly I’ve met his family a few times and we spend most of the week together and talk daily.
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Sounds like he’s having his cake and eating it too. He’s got you around when he wants you around, but he also has a seperate, private internet life.
This is secretive and disrespectful to you. My ex became completely obsessed with a girl on the internet in Brazil and that was one of the reasons we broke up.
Sounds like he is playing with you, and playing the field. It seems like with what you said that he isn’t even really into having a relationship with anyone, and just wants play time with his toys. He sounds like a player. Kick his *** to the curb, with all the rest of the trash, while you have a chance.
I hate myspace.
He’s waving the big red flags all around for you to see.
He’s embarrased of you. Find someone else.
MySpace is a relationship killer! I dated a guy for almost 5 years, we both have myspace, and neither of us has ever been “friends” on myspace. I used to snoop through his stuff on it all the time, but I’d never find anything “real” out, just a bunch of things to be suspicious of. I also had met a couple friends and family members, so I considered us to be fairly serious. But MySpace caused countless arguments between us and all because he wouldn’t add me as his friend. Sounds silly right? Because it is…
What it all boils down too is people flirt on MySpace its become kind of what the websites all about. So I wouldn’t worry at all about who is sending him comments and what they are about. Its just unnecessary stress. I’m sure you have a few things on your page that would make him question you as well. Its just MySpace, its not real life.
get rid of this guy. he obviously is still looking for someone who he classes as ‘better’ and is keeping you until they come along. ask him what is wrong – doesnt he like being in a relationship with you? is he not proud to be with you? if he answers that he loves you w.e then ask him to change his status. say you dont like it that he hasnt changed it and that all these galss r saynn this stuff. o yh make sure he’s not cheating behind ur bk with this gal n thts y his m8s ent involved bcz theyll give the game away. ohh also you could get guys to post things like tht to u if he dnt agree – see how he feels. and post pics of you n other guy m8s n hopefully he’ll realise how he makes you feel about it. ———-i hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!! =D
He is cheating on you, and does not want anything serious from you. He is not ready to commit to anybody, which is evident from his insensitive actions and unwillingness to admit that he’s in a relationship.
Pretending to be single online and chatting up women is not any different from going out in public and doing the same face-to-face with women. It’s cheating.
It’s a simple as that. He doesn’t respect you, and he couldn’t give a damn about your feelings or needs. What are you waiting for? If you’re looking for more than a casual fling, you need to find somebody else.