What makes men so paranoid of their girlfriend cheating?
Wednesday, January 20th, 2010 at
8:19 am
My ex was always suspicious of me and I was completly faithful. We eventually split because he accused me of being untrustworthy with no real proof. Why?
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because he was cheating on you
lol.
well social networks like Myspace or Facebook usually spark things up…
thats how my last one ended because of comments and people on the space.
if you want him back just explain to him everything
POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS:
He had low self esteem
He had been cheated on repeately in the past
He was just completely nuts
He was actually cheating
He was either cheating, or one of those insane control freaks.
he was cheating
Either it’s because he’s cheating, so he thinks you’re doing the same..
Or he’s insecure and knowing that guys throw themselves at you doesn’t help. It’s not so much you he doesn’t trust, but the jerks out there. He’s afraid one of them will creep his way into your heart without you even realizing it.
Like what my friend is doing to this one girl who already has a boyfriend
he was cheating but made it your fault !
we dont ant to cach herpies just because she got drunk 1 night
as Men we are insecure. We think more of you then of us. Your beauty outweighs any of our looks and therefore we don’t trust other guys. It is interpreted wrong it really isn’t that we don’t trust you but we do not Trust other guys who would steal you or take you from us in a minute.
he wanted out of the relationship and that’s how he found the loop hole to get out
Because women are well known to justify their actions any which way they like.
“I did not cheat on him. We broke up. (over the weekend because I called his mother ugly and stupid).”
“My hooking up with the other guy the same night as the fight was a coincidence.”
Enough of us guys have been the other guy to know how faithful women can be.
What Tanya said…..
I wouldn’t agree so strongly if it hadn’t happenned to me…….Eventually his controlling behavior (my ex) caused me to become so unhappy — I eventually DID cheat. Then, years later — found out that he had been cheating on ME the entire time —- and had a guilty conscience…..
Its easier to point out someone elses’ faults than look at your own.
Men do not feel that way as they exhibit confidence in themselves and trust in their wives.
However immature and juvenile males who refer to themselves as men but couldn’t even hold a real man’s jock strap have no self confidence in their abilities as husbands let alone enough belief in their own manhood. So there fore lacking the balls to have faith in themselves they automatically look for someone weaker they can channel their insecurities towards, rather than address their own insecurities.
Its painfully obvious. Of course the woman doesn’t help her situation any by failing to make her displeasure known but instead posts nonsense like “Why does he do this” on open forums.
You reap what you sow.
The possibility of cuckoldry and paternity uncertainty.
It’s an evolutionary psychology mechanism that developed over hundreds of thousands of years, as it makes no biological sense for a man to invest time and resources raising a child who does not share his genes.
because he was cheating on you “so, of course you *must* have been cheating on him.” (sarcasm light flashing)
burn this into your memory banks: when your partner is constantly accusing you of cheating and you know that you aren’t, then they are the ones who are actually cheating.
why do they do it? guilt, accuse you to make themselves feel justified in cheating on you. distraction, put you on the defensive so you’re too busy to notice what is off about them.
if you review your relationship w/ him I’m sure you’ll see the tell tale signs that he was cheating while you were together.
if you have this problem again in the future: end the relationship ASAP. They don’t trust you and they have given themselves away and shown you that they are not trustworthy.
It’s called immaturity and insecurity. I am not paranoid at all and have zero suspicion about my wife. She is super hot and guys hit on her all the time. She has numbers in her phone I have no idea who it is. I’m just not a jealous person like that (even though i used to be). I learned to stop worrying about the “what if’s” in life and focus more on the things that have already happened and deal with those first.
because you just cant trust a woman ! when a woman gets a little attention from a man they love it
i hate cheaters