Will being friends with a girl after sex ruin chances of a relationship?
Wednesday, February 17th, 2010 at
11:36 am
I met a girl, were friends for a month, started sleeping together for a month, then she stopped hooking up with me. We said from start we didn’t want a relationship. I told her I had developed feelings for her, she said she had to but it she didn’t want attachment or relationships now. We still talk and hang out, no hooking up. Will being her friend put me “in the friend zone” forever or if there are feelings there will it keep things open for the future? HELP!
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if she doesnt want a relationship thats her loss
Please return the favor
ANSWER MINE!!!!
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i think once u have sex ur never TOTALLY just a friend….so be friends there is a good chance she could change her mind later!
Every situation is different. Maybe being friends at first will help to spark the relationship. Really get to know her and spend time with her. If it’s really meant to be, something will happen.
yes it always does i still do it anyways tho
i think your good i mean if she is attracted to you enough to sleep with you and likes you for you enough to still be your friend i think its only a matter of time before you get with her good luck
Women have two different ‘friend zones’ The first one is where you are just friends, and will only ever be friends. The second is where you are ‘a friend with potential’. I know, it’s crazy. The only thing I could suggest is that you be nice to her, be dependable, be there for her when she needs you the most. And also tell her all these things too. In time, perhaps something can happen.
I don’t know about forever but she have already told you she don’t want a relationship. So for now you are in the friend zone.
Being friends is a huge waste of time. Kick her out of bed, and tell her to get lost.
most likely
It will change things are never the same after having sex unless shes over it.
ask her to come over for her favorite show. say ” I have to go to the bathroom. I have to go upstairs in my room because the toilets are clogged downstairs.” then stay up there for a long time. sooner or later, she will come up into your room, looking for you, then you can snatch her and be b***** with her
you need to give her a choice to be with you or http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoOy5ytI1urgJUIr_9jgxPnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091208191306AAgxO3znot, if she says no leave it there. answer mine?
why would you want to be friends with a girl after you’ve had sex anyway? obviously she’s a slut. do you want to be friends with a slut? and what’s the point of being friends with a slut who won’t be slutty with you? that’s like an inedible chocolate bar: it’s useless. what was the question again?
You seem to have things in the wrong order. You are supposed to have a relationship FIRST! Then sex. She doesn’t want attachment? So she is a slut then. Go find someone else who does things in the proper order.
I agree with Dotbo.
I agree with sick and tired too. An inedible chocolate bar, lol. What next??
You will be “friends” for awhile, until you start panting, then the next step is your entry into being her slave.
More girls out there, find another
Dude yes if you have perciverance it will happen. It may take a long time but from my experiance if you want somthing bad enough and put tons of work into it, youll almost always achieve your goal. Now from what you said this may just be her testing you to see how you react to this and it will only be a month or two before you hook up. OR she’s not playing any games in this case it will be very hard to get hooked up with her but not impossible. First of all expect this to be very hard and time comsuming second you will want to be her friend but DONT push her into it because thats just pushing her away thirdly be PATIENT finally good luck!