Sorry for the length, I just wanted to get the entire story on here.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, living together for 3. I am 20 and he is 21. We seemed to have a great relationship until about a month ago. I was looking at his cell phone and saw alot of messages from a girl he’s known for a long time, I didn’t think anything of it until I saw what the messages said. They had been talking for months I guess and she was saying things like “we should meet up and cuddle” and “I want you, xoxo” calling him babe and things like that. After seeing that I got suspicious and looked in his outbox and saw that he had been talking to her like that also…saying things like “you know I want you but I just can’t have you” and a couple messages actually made it seem as if they were about to arrange a time to hook up. When I confronted him about this he claimed that he didn’t want her and he didn’t know why he said those things, and that he only wanted me, etc, etc. He erased her off his Facebook and his cell phone and as far as I know they haven’t talked since and he swears up and down that nothing ever happened with her. I don’t understand why he would do that, he is totally not the cheating type, and this is an attatched girl with 3 kids who is not attractive in any way. He told our roomates about all this for some reason and now our girl roomate (Angie) keeps emailing this other girl and telling her not to comment on her fiances pictures on facebook and whatnot. Angie also told her to leave me and my boyfriend alone. Then the other girl sent Angie an email back saying that her and my boyfriend kissed and that he was trying to get her to go to a hotel room and that she didn’t feel right about it. She also said to tell him to stop sending her emails and just text if he wants to talk dirty. She also said he gave her our address. When I asked him he got very upset and said that none of it was true and that there had been a rumour going around about the two of them but none of it was true. I really don’t see how it could be true because we when we go to our parents(where this supposidly happened) we are always together, because it’s like a mini vacation for us. So I don’t know if she was just lying because she was mad that our roomate said something to her or if she is really telling the truth. I just feel very confused now, like maybe the reason he hasn’t proposed like we have always talked about, is because he is looking for something better or he isn’t truly happy in the relationship. I have talked to him about this as well and he says he does want to marry me and that he is happy but he can’t afford a ring. Is he just making up excuses? What do you guys think about this? Is he likely to actually cheat in the future?
Also, I’m not saying that I still want a ring from him, I just meant that I wonder if this is the reason he hasn’t propsed before all of this even though we seemed to be going in that direction.
Do you think he cheated or will cheat in the future? If I decide to forgive him how can we work together to overcome this? Any advice, similar stories, or anything is appreciated.
Thanks!
Also, he isn’t stupid enough to give her our address because there is always(no exceptions) someone here because we have 5 roomates and if anyone caught her here I would know about it.
Also, the email the girl sent to our roomate was very immature calling her “fatty” and saying weird things like “nice dogs” and “Im not scared of you” and just really stupid stuff like she was trying to make our roomate mad. This is why I felt that she may have been lying. I dunno

She is always saying how I’m not good enough for them or my girl. She has even yelled at my girlfriend because of this. She thinks I have no future when I’m a A and B student going to a college for medicine. I just want her to stop making our lives miserable.

Being home alone is hard, weekends are tough too. What about you?

He said he loved me 2 weeks after we were dating, broke up and now he’s always around me asking for hugs and flirting? So weird.:P

My boyfriend broke up with me because of somethign he heard that wasnt true. someone told him i cheated on him while he was in rehab and id idnt, and he wont believe me so im moving on. It’s his loss. Anyways, its only been 2 weeks and he already has a new girlfriend and he wont even talk to me. I guess i dont try to talk to him either, but he tells everyone he is over me and hates me and is all bitter about me. I just want to end things on a good note.. and i want him to know the truth that i didnt cheat. Is there anything i can do? Should i just give it time and take him his stuff and try to talk to him? Should i write him a closure letter? I just really want to move on and its hard to move on knowing we broke up over a lie and i keep thinking what if he was the one and now its over because of a lie? I know he still has to love me and care, i just dotn get why he is being so bitter? But all i know is that i deserve better than this, but i cant move on until i have closure..

What would you change?

Hi.

My ex split with me a week ago and I have now learnt that she is bitching about me to her friends. i.e. telling them things of a private nature.

Should I call and tell her to stop it or rise above it?

Thanks.

He ended because i didn’t trust him but he said he still care about me and going to miss me?

ok so…

a guy liked me.
i couldnt say no so i said yes.

we go out but im not really interested.
hes REALLY shy and he didnt really do anything. but i know that he tried his best to overcome his shyness by like hugging me and stuff, but i just kept not doing anything… we were REALLY akward.
i was also pretty shy in making moves and stuff, and i even told him that he should jsut break up with me cause im just not good enough.

while we were “going out” we barely talked…lol. some relationship huh?
hes only kissed me once. on the cheek (being heavily pressured by my&his friends)

we went out for like a year…but it didnt really even seem like we were going out.
i finally break up with him. people said he was really sad but i dunno.

when people ask him if hes still interested in me, he goes i dont know.
people also say that we should just go out again cause we act exactly alike and people even believe that we seriously belong together.

after the break up, i start liking him..i asked him to sadies last year, as my last resort to possibly get back together with him, but he had to go to a funeral. he seemed upset he couldnt go…

afterwards, we havent really spoken an actual convo. we had a few talks here and there but nothing really … conversational.
i go to the same church with him, and i see him every week.

i’ve had two boyfriends after the breakup, and he knows about them. but STILL, im regretting breakin up with him and wishing i can start all over again.

we still barely talk… i dont know if he likes me anymore.
my friend asked me once that if i can get back together with him, would i? i said yes. because i know now how to be in a relationship, i know how to actually be a girlfriend and i wish i knew all this before.

**BTW. we were both in our first relationship. this is like…8th grade. but now im in highschool. not a fresh.lol.

so whats a song that suits this situation, about a girl STILL liking her ex after being in multiple relationship and shes not sure if he likes her back. and they havent talked in a LONG time. and she feels as if she wants to start all over again, but i dont want the song isnt very confident and straightfoward.

because i see lyrics like “i want to start all over. i miss you.” and it seems really head on…im still unsure about my feelings so something thats a little unsure and less straightfoward would be nice.

maybe some lyrics like “i still dont know how i feel” “its been a long time since we talked” “why am i like this? its been over a year…” “we dont even talk. so why?” “i want to be able to talk to you comfortably again”

try to make it RnB only please.hahaha please include sample lyrics
sorry for the freakin long description…LOL. didnt notice how long it was.
were still VERY AKWARD. i havent really conversed with him in a year..

My girlfriend recently sent me a text that was mean’t for her friend’s upcoming bday that said essentially…

>>>>>happy 21st bday! can’t wait for the male stripper friday! Call u tomorrow!

So I got that text accidentally and I called back and laughed and said hey have fun at the party and just laughed at her mistaken texting. Since it was a funny mistake. Then she texted back…

>>>>>oopsie about the text but why were you chuckling weirdo? would you care about me giving lapdances?

I texted back:

>>>>I laughed because it was the funny the mistaken texting it’s like a sitcom. Anyway ttyl

Then she replied (I sensed some anger in this)

>>>yeah I really need to fix my texting. At least I didn’t say the wrong name during sex. Goodnight.
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Anyway so that last one suggested that she was a bit upset. But I don’t see what the problem is. I’ve called over strippers for my best friend’s bachelor parties (and for a bunch of other parties too). So have a good time it’s all in good fun. I’ve been in open relationships in the past and stuff and for the most part I’m pretty easy going as long as certain rules aren’t broken. I’m a bit older and more experienced so I can keep this sort of thing in perspective (25 vs 23). Just so you know she’s NOT the type who would cheat anyway and I’m like her second bf in life probably but I still think it’s not a good reason to get upset.

What do you think?

I want to move on with my life. We dated for two years and six months ago we broke up. One months later she got a new boyfriend I still think about her all the time. I just want to move on. She still calls me I never call her because she broke up with me and I’m still pissed she got into a relationship so fast after we broke up from such a long relationship. I felt like she is always thinking about herself and never my feelings. She wants to be “friends” but why do I want to be friends with someone I loved and broke my heart. What should I do?

I am currently dating a wonderful woman, yet sometimes I have some urges inside myself. We already agreed that both of will not have sex unless we both are married in the future and fully support it. Sometimes, when we make out, its like I wanted to go further. She only allows me to touch and fuddle her breast and nothing more. I really do love her, I just want to get rid of this urges out of my mind.
I just dont want to be consumed by lust and ask for it.

I have been dating this wonderful man for the past year, I’m 23 he’s 28. Things have been going well, except that he has not told his family that I have a child. Let me give you some background. I had a child when I was 16 out of wedlock. Since then I have graduated high school (on time), earned my bachelor’s degree in Biology and now I’m in my Master’s program. My son is now 7, and my boyfriend, my son and myself spend a lot of time together. But there are some differences between my boyfriend and I, for example, he’s a very private person and I am very out going. I’m white and he’s first generation Filipino. I have met his family twice since we began dating, but they know nothing about my son. He has told me that he’s going to tell them about my son for at least the past 6 months, however, it still has not came to pass. He says that he’s scared that they will hate me, even though they got along fine with me when I met them before. I am willing to deal with the differences in cultures; in fact I find them fascinating. I am also willing to deal with the fact that they may not accept me at first, I understand why they might not. But I am very secure with myself and how I have dealt with having a child so young. However, I’m growing increasingly frustrated in the fact that he will not tell them. Am I not worth it to him? What do I do?

But if the two couple make the most of the time they have together? Or is it tragic?