ok so i told my girlfriend that i don’t trust her 100% that i think she could be cheating on me. then she got angry and said she wants to leave me. and of course she denied the accusation. i somehow calmed her down and got her forgiveness. however my suspicion still lingers. if a girl’s cheating on you would this be the most sensible behavior when confronted?

I get pretty emotional about guys breaking up with me, I don’t know why. Right now i’m going out with this boy named Jake. We just started dating each other maybe like 20 minutes ago.. I scared about breaking up though, or him breaking up with me? Tips? Are you the same way, or is there something wrong with me? :[

Ive been dating this guy for a little more then a month and i can already see that he likes me way more then i like him. Some say that’s a good thing however i just get annoyed by it. he is getting attached way to easily and every time i talk to him he constantly reminds me how much he likes me and how much hes falling for me and how im the best girl and i just dont like it that much. at first i did, but every day? cmon now. i feel that it sounds plain mean but its just how i feel. when he texts me and i dont text back right away he’ll text me 189465 times until i do or call me till i answer. i feel that its too early in the relationship to break up but then again i feel like im lying to myself. please advise me! thank you

if you are not having a relationship for sexual reasons and the conversation never leads to anything like that? I have a relationship with a couple of people and my bf doesn’t know about them he would just think I am cheating cause he is just that way he thinks that internet relationships are all about finding someone to hook up with and says that I can’t have a friendship online cause it is all fake and even if I think we are just friends the other person is always looking for more and internet is a easy way to get “more” if you find the right person.
What do you think?
I think that you guys/gals are right there shouldn’t be any problem if it is innocent and I am true to that (it is innocent) I don’t want to hide this from my boyfriend- and let me clear that up as well… I have been with my bf for 10 years and we bought a home together a few years back, he is my bf in actuality but my husband to me and I, his wife if you ask him we are married, if you ask me I still don’t have a ring and have not gone through with a wedding so be that as it may we plan to be together forever, the relationships that I have are strictly platonic and when the course changes and by that I mean when someone thinks they will have a chance with me I always end the communication because I really truly do not want anything more than just someone to talk and share advice/stories with. I love my boyfriend will all my heart and would do anything for him I just need a little guideance and companionship with someone else that can see from a different perspective.

my boyfriend recently broke up with me and we decided to stay friends. i was afraid he as going to go back to his ex girlfriend, which would be horrible considering she has messed him up, mentally. now i see that they are talking again, only a week after we broke up, should i confront him, as a friend?

well here’s the situation. i had told one of my really close guy friends a problem that i was having and asked him how i should tell my boyfriend. well my boyfriend got jealous assuming that i was cheating on him. so he goes and starts cheating on me just to get back at me. but the thing is we’ve been dating for about a month and a half but he was cheating for a month. now he says that he’s going to try and work things out. but lately he’s been avoiding me i think he’s out seein that broad. how do i handle this?

I am really starting to screw this up. Well I still like her even though she is acting a little…paranoid. Girls would understand, but I sure as hell don’t. So we we were talking on the phone and she was stating guys she liked cause I asked her. I was getting a little irritated because it was some list. (about 6) So then she asked me. I told her no one but you and she said yeah right. So after a while of her asking that over and over, I told her the other girl I liked. But I barely liked her. I did a little bit but not very much. She said she didn’t trust me to stay just with her and started going all crazy. And now she won’t talk to me. Is there something I can do to fix this? Is she being overly sensitive or do all you girls out there agree with her? She’s pissed at me. And to top that the whole school found out the next day.

My husband and I are having problems and he recently met someone online that is having problems too. Now he spends an incredible amount of time talking with both of his new friends (hubby and wife). This has been going on for several months now, but I just found out. I want to re-build our relationship, but how can I if he is looking for help outside instead of trying to speak with me first? It isn’t just a call here and there either…there are several calls within the same day!

OK this is quite long and complicated! This guy that I work with (now for 3 years), we have always been friends, and done friend things. Back in March I started having a bit of a crush on him. He is 19 years older than me. We kissed for the first time in June, and slowly we have entered a dating relationship (he tells people that we are dating, including our boss). He has only dated 2 other women in his lifetime, the rest have been men (yes he is bisexual). We usually hang out on saturdays and tuesdays outside of work. This last saturday I did the dumb girl thing and told him I really liked him. He kinda laughed, and then said that he liked me too, a lot (although in his voice it sounded like he was nervous saying it). The next day we went to breakfast. He brought me 3 roses into the restaurant, he then wanted to show me the house he was buying, then took me to Lowes to help him pick out paint colors. I am really confused about all of this. He seems hot then cold. The intimacy thing is strange.we have tried to be intimate a few times, but he has a difficult time keeping himself ‘up’ (if you get my drift). This makes me think he is not very sexually attracted to women. He compliments me all the time, says I am beautiful, funny, intellegent, and on and on. But I think he is afraid of anything and everything (he says he has never loved anyone before or been in a serious relationship). He is not a player at all (really he is not). He has a bit of low self esteem about himself, but I care about him and accept him just the way he is. I have no clue if I should just take this with a grain of salt, and just try and not let more of my feelings get in the way, or I don’t know! My friends think I’m turning his straight LOL. They also think he likes me quite a bit. He is very much a loner, but I need perspective on what to do! Should I date other people as well? Give him space? Blow him off a few times? I really value him and his friendship, so I don’t want to scare him away. I know if I asked him about it, he would say he is just taking it day to day. But I don’t want to get too deeply involved if it really has no where to go. HELP!

I’ve been in a long distance relationship with the same guy for 3 years and finally this summer he was going to come and see me but now he says he can’t but he will. I love him so much and I talk to him on the phone all the time but I don’t know what to do. Please help me.