I always thought my ex was the perfect girl from day one, I have always been head over heels for her. I moved to the US and she tried it out but didn’t work for her…we did the distance thing for a year and she split up with me. It was heartbreaking. We had problems; she had “justified” trust issues with me, my family and her have issues, and she would want me to move out of the US from a good paying job. Plus I’m dating a great girl, but I know I don’t feel as much for her as I did for my ex.
I’m in my thirtys, and not looking to play around. A tough call indeed!

after a lost relationship of 5 years,after it almost taken up your life.how can one start fixing her life and move on?what will she do to get over the emotions and betrayal?…thanks

Ok well I’m just recently broke or ended a long term relationship with this girl I thought I was going to marry? Of course i’m hurt right now and my mind is running crazy. But on the other hand I don’t want to sit on my butt and cry about it. So where do I go from here do I try to start another relationship or play it safe and stay single for right now seeing that i’m almost throught with college.

well its been a year of my breakup, why is it im .still scared to ask a girl out.

I’m 16 and my boyfriend that I love and still love… we broke it off today… I’m not going into details it hurts to talk about it how do you cope with it?!

I feel we had great relationship, I couldn’t financially get us together and I guess she had enough. I know appearing needy is the absolute worst idea, but do I call, send a letter, text, do nothing? What do some of these I books advise and what do sensible people out there advise? Thanx to all who respond, it has been three days.

me and my fiance just broke up. i’m wondering if it’s a good choice to move away and get a fresh start. i’m thinking utah. have you ever done this, if so what was the result?

I was recently talking to his other ex and she said his penis was defective because he would climax after 30 seconds and would ejaculate very little or none at all when they had sex and she always ended up unsatisfied. I knew this too because I gave him hand jobs and blow jobs but had no experience beforehand and thought it was normal to only last 30 seconds. We both ended up laughing at him but could it be because he’s young (17) or is there something really wrong?

My fiancee and i broke up last week and I’m having a hard time getting myself back together. When we were together, I was very confident,free spirited and happy but right now I’m feeling really sloppy,depressed and insecure. I can’t seem to get back on my feet.My father tries to cheer me up but he’s not doing a good job, he dislikes my ex and he’s happy. My mother tells me that If I spend time alone, I will feel better but that makes me feel better.How can I fix myself up?

broke up 2 weeks ago, miss her a lot, but know we can’t be together. for the last six years whenever i’ve been single, it always feels lonely/dark, it feels like a constant battle. many times i’d jump into a relationship and the bad feelings disappear, but then the relationship ends as i’m probably in it for wrong reasons, after that i feel selfish and dislike myself for hurting another. does anyone else feel this way, how do you deal with it? thank you.

How long does it take you to wipe your mind away from someone you loved (who broke up with you), before y’all can start a new relationship feeling free of past emotions?

If you and your boyfriend (or girlfriend) broke up on what were not amicable terms (I was pissed because he broke up with me on AIM) and he says “I’ll still be here if you need me,” but you decide we’re broken up and I cannot have to need someone more than they need me. But he decides about 5 months later to send me an e-mail saying how much he hated our relationship after about 5 months, and we went out for 11 months. So you respond and he sends you another crappy e-mail, telling you about crap that you never even knew about, and then says that he never wants to talk to you again and that you should never contact him again. Then a month after that he says “I forgive you, I have no more hate for you in my heart.” Should I even dignify him with a response.

telling him i’m pregnant isn’t goning to work because we are far away.