I feel yes and no…..depends on the individuals what do you think?

My girlfriend and I dated for two years. After I graduated we were planning on taking some time apart, but I was having a rough time so I wanted to stay together. She was back at college for her junior year, I was far away, and about three months in she broke up with me. She needed to not be so affected by someone who was no longer around when she was trying to establish her own identity at school (she had lived with me the prior year). In truth, our break-up was more about the change in circumstances and what she needed (we had originally thought we needed some time for ourselves) than about us suddenly not being right for each other or something. We were very in love.
It’s now been almost a year since we broke-up, and I have made a lot of necessary changes (more secure, don’t worry about things, etc.) For awhile she continued to tell me she loved me, but for the last few months we’ve hardly spoken. I’m seeing her for the first time next week, and I want to get her back. How?

i just broke up with my lost distance gf of 1 year because i met someone that i think is “the one”. we both like each other but she seems really hesitant b/c i just got out of relationship. should i just chill for awhile?

He has a girlfriend that he broke up with and got back together with. After they got back together thier love was stonger than ever, but recently he kissed another girl and she told her after getting mad at him about something. Now, under the influence of her fake friends who are only there for her when she’s having a boy problem, she broke up with him and is being somewhat over dramatic and over taken by her anger while he still expresses how he feels and gave this poetic, from the heart, speech he spilled without even having to put it all together and yet, she gies signs of still loving him, but it’s like a rollercaoster ride of emotions with her. What should he do?

My girlfriend of seven months just asked for some space and broke up with me this past weekend. I am totally devistated and trying to respect her wish for space. She had moved in with me unplanned for a month and I had a hard time the first weeks and acted out a little. I know this turned her off. She is now in her own place. She said she loves me and cares about me and I totally in love with her. I have not spoken to her in a few days and I want her back. I just need some advice on the best approach without looking to desperate or ruining my chances…I need help- I can’t live my life without this girl…

I’ve been so depressed for the past week. Crying, upset,moody, i feel like i will never be happy again….. I just dont know how to deal with it

Me and my now ex-girlfriend were together for about 7 months. Last weekend i made the terrible decision of cheating on her with her best friend. They are no longer best friends, but she says she is willing to work it out with me. She says she wants me to show that i truly do still love her, which I do, however i don’t know how to show love the way she wants me to. I know its a very hypocritical thing of me to say that i love her, after i cheated on her, but that remains the same. This type of love can’t be tangible, it has to be through my actions and showing it, but i have been trying and it just hasn’t worked. She says she is still willing to work it out but doesn’t know how long she can wait for me to make her fall back in love. Any help is appreciated.

My boyfriend cheated on me after 3 years of relationship. He now wants to regain my trust and according to him he is trying hard because he is constantly telling me where he is at and who with. I feel that it isn’t enough for me. I feel that there is more that he needs to do but I can’t seem to be able to pint it out to him. I asked him for access to his cellphone bill online and he said that because it was a company phone, he has no access to it and can’t get it because it is a corporate account. Is that true? What would you say he needs to do to show me that he loves me and wouldn’t mess up again?

It seems that a lot of people do this, especially if they’ve been dumped. I’m curious if the short term physical satisfaction really helps or if it would just make you feel worse in the long run.

What do you think based on your experience?

Its been a while i told her i want to cut off all contact form her and i did. She made a new e-mail and added me. I haven’t spoken to her yet cause she’s offline. Why do u think she did this. Ladies advice please. Thank you

And he’s married to someone for three years and eight months. What does this mean?

My bf broke up with me and its not even been a week and I feel like my world has been turned up side down my boss hates me and shows it now, I am on the Verge of losing my second job and I just wanna end it all I cannot keep going like this I loved him I just dont know any more! What would you do?

My boyfriend broke up with me claiming that he’s so busy and he’s not going to have time for me and its not fair to me and that in a year if its meant to be he’ll come back. i didn’t believe him and i thought thats it that was the end of it but Everyweek he calls me at least once and texts me throughout the week. Is he doint this to make sure im still single and im still there waiting? Why won’t he just leave me alone?