He has been with his girlfriend 8 months now. Dont think she knows the full extent of his addiction. Want to help him and get bk together. I miss him so much. How do I raise his addiction? Have emailed a few times to see how we both are but thats been it in the past few months

She is always saying how I’m not good enough for them or my girl. She has even yelled at my girlfriend because of this. She thinks I have no future when I’m a A and B student going to a college for medicine. I just want her to stop making our lives miserable.

I always thought my ex was the perfect girl from day one, I have always been head over heels for her. I moved to the US and she tried it out but didn’t work for her…we did the distance thing for a year and she split up with me. It was heartbreaking. We had problems; she had “justified” trust issues with me, my family and her have issues, and she would want me to move out of the US from a good paying job. Plus I’m dating a great girl, but I know I don’t feel as much for her as I did for my ex.
I’m in my thirtys, and not looking to play around. A tough call indeed!

She dumped me because I lied to her about being a virgin. I slept with her ex-boyfriend’s twin sister back when my girlfriend was dating him. And me and her were best friends at the time. She wouldn’t be mad about this, except her boyfriend at the time abused her. Sexually physically and emotionally. And I knew about it. Yet I slept with his sister. We’re both 14. Then things got weird between us when she found out. So she dumped me. But I want to get back together. I still love her. I would bake her her favorite cookies or something, but I can’t cook. Any ideas?
I am in love with her. It’s not like we just met. We’ve been best friends since the first grade. It turned into a crush, to liking her, to love.

What is the best way to show my girlfriend that I do love her and I do want her back without just telling her and without buying her things? I need something deep and romantic to tell her. Can anyone help me out?

Married and Other people.

will making my ex jelous get him back ? as of now he wont even talk to me at all.

My girlfriend of a year and I broke up about a month ago. She was going through some emotional hardships, she lost her grandmother, one of her best friends committed suicide, she got into some legal trouble, alongside dealing with emotional damage due to her relationship before ours that was horrible. She felt distant, like she needed some time to recoup, so she asked for a break to have some time and space to gather herself and to stand on her own two feet. The break up wasn’t bad at all, and I was strong and I’ve been supportive and have been a shoulder for her to cry on or someone to talk to. She has told me that I’m perfect, that I make her so so happy and that were great together. I tell her everyday how proud I am of her and how much I love her. Since we broke up, she calls and texts everyday. And in the past week the conversations are more light hearted, like they were when we first started dating. She tells me that she loves me and misses me all the time. She also tells me specific things that she misses and it’s sweet, but I don’t know what to do. I want us to get back together, I want to marry her, but I don’t want to crowd her or pressure her so I’ve just gone along with it all. I love her more than life and want to be with her, I’ve been supportive towards her life choices but is there anything I can do to win her back? Please help, I can’t let this girl go, she’s my life.

My girlfriend and I just broke up last night, and the original plan was to take a break but somehow we ended up ending things. Her reason was because she has family issues to deal with. ie, Her grandma is sick and such. I didn’t want this to happen. I’m only 17 almost 18 and I can never give myself advice so, I ask you. What do I do to get her back or get over this feeling of depression..

Thank you.
Edit: Well, She is the one that broke up with me..
Edit: Well, She is the one that broke up with me..
Edit: Well, She is the one that broke up with me..

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. The past 6 months i have had no sexual attraction to him at all…and if i do have sex with him i end up getting all upset after and crying. i know sex isnt everything in a relationship but with out intimacy or attraction i feel like we are just friends. he wants to have sex with me but i just cant bring myself to do it. advice for me?

So, my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me out of the blue on New Year’s Day. He couldn’t look me in the eye and he refused to give me a reason why, but did tell me he’d thought about it for a week (!). He said he doesn’t want to talk for 5-6 weeks and I found out that he’s joining the Air Force. After speaking with a counselor, she suggested I send him a message via Facebook and ask him why he broke up with me, in order for me to process it and move on. He said he didn’t want to get into details and that it was still too soon (this was 2 weeks after the breakup).

We’re both 23, this was both of our first serious relationship. He graduated from college in Fall ‘07 and has had no luck finding a job. Our relationship was long-distance (we’re both from WI, but I attend college in MN), but we’ve never had a problem with that, we made frequent trips to see each other. He did break up with me for a week last year, but we worked it out and just view it as a big fight. Things were better than ever after that. We made it through. He has difficulty voicing his problems and concerns, and I fear this is what lead to the break up. He keeps it all to himself.

I’m baffled. I don’t know why he broke up with me. Our relationship was wonderful, we had an incredible holiday, and our relationship didn’t have any glaring problems. We’ve known each other for 8 years and we’ve always been very great friends. Am I wrong to feel like I deserve an explanation? Is it possible for it to work out in the end?

(Sorry it’s kinda long) My girlfriend cheated on me with my brother on thanksgiving. She kissed him, I walked in on it happening and blah blah blah. (For more info click here http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AneWcu8_y9sKOyjmTWk.HiPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091127055833AAPxeYZ)

I walk in on them kissing and Ask”What the hell is going on?”
My brother say “Let her do what she wants”
Annie, my girlfriend say “Logan, I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”
I call her a “S.l.u.t!” And leave downstairs to sit with my family.,
A few days later she asks me back. Three times! One was through Email.
Second we ran into each other at the store. The third she knocked at my door and begged for me back. When I said no she started crying, and I hate it when a cute girl cries. It gets to my soft side.

I love her, when I asked her out she was happy and ran into my arms. It was lovely to see her happy. I gave her a hard hug. Do you think I was dumb for taking her back. Before you answer please read this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AneWcu8_y9sKOyjmTWk.HiPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091127055833AAPxeYZ

My girlfriend recently broke up with me. She has been showing dissatisfaction towards me for a while now although still asking me to come over and to see her everyday. She is very short tempered and never affectionate anymore. And I don’t mean just sex, which i never pushed her for and i respected her unwillingness. But even a hug or a kiss were nearly nonexistent. In the 10 months we were together, I did everything in my power to make her happy. I would get out of work early. I religiously surprised her at work with an iced coffee or just a snack if I knew she didn’t have enough cash for lunch. But I was NEVER clingy, just wanted her to have a better day because of me. She was treated like dirt in all previous relationships and she said I was the only one who was nice to her. She said she wasn’t used to someone treating her well. She said I was TOO sweet I wasn’t perfect, but I treated her the best i knew how to treat anyone. I cared more for her well-being than my own in hopes she would too. But it never happened. She constantly brought up our differences, even though our similarities were more prevalent. At times she was not only the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, but also the sweetest. With her it was either hot or cold. Recently she met up with her ex who is the complete opposite of me, an ass. I didn’t have a problem with them seeing each other because I trusted her and it was only for a few minutes to pick up her old dog That night when we hung out, she brought up more differences and I left because she mentioned her uncertainties. I love this girl to death, but i don’t want to be with someone who isn’t sure about me and the person i am. She texts me saying she is sad and obv. so am I. But she hasn’t asked to get back with me. She said she needs space and that is what I have given her. What is too much space, what isn’t enough? I love yous and gifts won’t work and i refuse to beg. What do I do?

I keep on telling her how ill change and that i realized exactly what not to do in a relationship, i love you etc etc….Everyone says not to call. But i want her to think i care. Ive sent flowers, sobbed to her, ignored her and evreything… but she still says she doent know if she wans to be with me…and shes confused. Yet theres another guy in the picture now who is her best friends, boyfriends best friend, and they all dont really like me. And shes telling everyone were done, but me she says were on a break and that she just doesnt know cause she feels there nothing left for her to give anymore, because of stuff thats happened in the past.. I bought her a trip to mexico for her bday before we broke up that were suppost to leave on in 2 weeks, and she said she has no money etc.But i said getting away would maybe help us work stuff out, but if she doesnt go shouldi pretty much know its done? and what should i say to her etc. I want her back so bad… HELP

I feel we had great relationship, I couldn’t financially get us together and I guess she had enough. I know appearing needy is the absolute worst idea, but do I call, send a letter, text, do nothing? What do some of these I books advise and what do sensible people out there advise? Thanx to all who respond, it has been three days.