I was just wondering, My boyfriend and I just broke up, Im in my 20s and he’s in his 30’s. We had been fighting alot lately and because he was so busy with work, (he owns his own company), and I was busy also, and we basically only saw each other when we were sleeping next to each other at night

I was constantly upset that he didnt have time for me, (he really didnt), and he sais that we would be okay, but not together. That he knew he didnt give me the attention that I deserved, and he wasnt being the best boyfriend he possibly could be to me because of time issues. He said that it wasnt that we werent going to be in each other’s lives anymore, but he didnt want to hold me back until work cooled down. He’s older and his lifestyle is working and sleeping, no joke, and thats what he does. He’s set in his ways and he felt like he was holding me back. Is that total BS or could that be true.

We’ve been hanging out since the break-up, kissing, and I’ve been staying with him almost every night, no sex though (i wont have sex with him unless he’s my boyfriend again.) but I was wondering, should I wait for him and see if we fall back into a relationship? Or should I just tell him that I cant be doing this if we are never going to get back together?

i really love him i email him love notes every day.

We were together 3 in half month and broke up bout a month now.We broke up because of distance, we both were going 2 the same college but I just recently found out I wouln’t be able to come back 2 school until the summer of 2009 because I got off track with my grades. I was so devasted, when my boyfriend, ask me if do I think it would be best if we be friends, because of the distance. The college I was going 2 was 45 minute drive from where I live. He always told me he loved me so much, I really truly loved him with all of my heart and still do till this day. I tried dating again, but it’s not working I’m not interested in no one else. He said right now he don’t have a job, he’s looking 4 one.I feel like he didn’t really love me cause if he did he would of found a way to come see me, it’s not that far. He texted him and told him I still love him 2 if the feeling was the same. He said he’s not over me yet and he still think of me sometime, how can I believe him?

I have broken up with my boyfriend of 8 years and now i dont know what to do. What do you tell a person is the best way to move on if i have no friends to talk to, im shy and cant go out on my own since i have bad anxiety, and my family is all pesimistic? I dont know how to move on and seek comfort from others when i have no one to talk to….

very sad

me and my boyfriend just broke up im soooooo mad at him for what he did to me …. i still love him but is not the same there is no way im gonna take him back after i found out he is talking to 5 different girls meeting them taking those girls out… and now he is saying im sorry he got lonely and bored but he didnt f@k them?, yeah he gave me his old phone cause he got a new one and all the text are still in it…2 years of putting up with a lot of crap but this is it i just wanna get over him please HELP!!!

I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I am having a hard time. He was really nice but he just stopped talking to me. (Didn’t even get a call on Valentines Day)

What can I do to get over him???? I am so sad.

The relationship I have with my boyfriend is going nowhere. We’ve been together for eight years and are “shacking up”.

I’m interested in a girl that broke up with her bf a month ago. I asked her out, not knowing about the break up. She said that she wanted to take the summer off guys, which I completely understand. But, she was willing to go as friends. Then she apologized and said she loved talking to me. Should I keep leaning on her shoulder until she is ready? What’s the best way to approach this?

My last girlfriend broke up with me in February 2008. Three days later, I get an awesome job that pays great. I have my own place and I work up to 56 hours a week and most Saturdays. Since I started this job, I haven’t been able to find time to get out and meet girls. I have been single this whole time and I’m getting nowhere with the online dating sites. What is the best way to meet girls in a situation like this?

Keep in mind that even though I don’t have time to get out and meet girls doesn’t mean I don’t have time to spend with a girl. If I can just meet someone, I’ll have alot of time to spend with her. I just can’t find the time to actually get out there for hours at a time trying to meet someone.

Any helpful suggestions will be much appreciated.
I don’t know how to reply to answers so I’ll add details. I work at a steel factory so it’s all guys. Absolutely no girls where I work.

I’ve been really really depressed, and yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. I though he didn’t care about me, but it was just my depression that was fogging up my brain. Now, not only do I feel horrible about possibly losing my best friend but for also breaking his heart. Something doesn’t feel right, how do I know if I made the right decision?

He is my only close friend here at college. I feel very

if you have had any experience in this situation, your advice is much appreciated. Cheers.