me and boyfriend broke up 5 months ago because he cheated on me .but i been very depressed ever since the breakup i been a mess i cant 4 get about him even though i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend i still want 2 be with him.but i wish he could of said sorry so i could have some closer wats the best thing 2 do in this situation.

Just broke up with my boyfriend, who was also my best friend. I miss him but he’s just not good for me. HELP.

One of my best friends I’ve known all my life just had a bad breakup with his first serious girlfriend then was fired from his job and had to work at one he hates, all within a few weeks. I have no idea what to say or do to help him feel better and get him to move forward. He’s sort of been a ladies man all his life, almost always having girlfriends, but this was the first one he really cared about and stuck with for over 2 years. Since he’s the kind of guy who’s always with a girl, I’m worried he’s going to get very depressed then start overdoing it on the drugs and booze, sleep with every chick he sets his eyes on which will set him up for serious STDs, or get in a fight for a dumb reason and get seriously injured because he’s always had anger issues when things are going very bad for him. Any tips are very appreciated.

Me and my girlfriend just broke up what is the best way to overcome it? By moving on I know but what would be the best way for me to move on and not look back at my psat but look into the future??

My girlfriend broke up with me last friday. I felt like she was the one, my soul mate.When she broke up with me I was sad. I think i made a mistake calling her that night, crying. I also sent her emails, messages……. I want her back. I am gonna give her space. She might not come back… I was planning on writing her a letter. I was gonna be sincere and honest with my feelings. Try to see what i did wrong to trigger her to do this. Or i could say I agree with this breakup (even though I dont) and move on hoping she calls me or messages me. Lots of guys saying the agreeing to a breakup works, but its usually these paysites to help you get back with your ex. I just think it might be a scam to pay money to join their site. This means a lot to me. I am really hurt, and I feel like she was my one, partner in life, soul mate.
I just want to know the best way to get my girlfriend back from a woman’s perspective??

A friend of mine has become very depressed. At first his girlfriend (a good friend of mine) was concerned, but now it seems as though shes just had enough of the way he is behaving. I think that he shouldn’t be in a relationship where he is unable to keep his girlfriend happy, and should just concentrate on overcoming his depression. He has alot of concerned friends around him to help him but I am worried that his girlfriend may just be making it worse. Should I tell him I think it would best if he broke up with her, at least until he’s back on his feet?

How do you think you could handle a break up? What would ease the blow? How about if someone asked you to move out?
I need helpful tips on a smooth break up. My boyfriend lives with me and over the last couple of years I have been very tolerant but he continues to do things that he knows I don’t approve of in my house. I don’t want him to hate me so I’m asking everyone….how should I go about this? Honest answers only please.

I am in seventh grade. He used to like me a lot. The last time we went out he broke up with me the same day. Monday at school he asks my best friend out. How do i get him back. I really like him.

He ended it and has moved onto other women. He still wants me as a friend and play partner. Part of me would like that too; however, I feel if he ended it I should just drop him altogether so he doesn’t have the best of both worlds. What’s worked for you?

Please no negativity, i’m gonna write my ex a letter to try and persuade her. Any ideas how to make it the perfect letter, and for her to at least talk about giving us another chance? I have tried other routes and they have failed. so this is my last chance, i shall move on after this. Any tips or optimistically, anyone succesfully got an ex back with a letter before lol? i know i’m hopeful, but one can but try!

Yo, im 14 lol. My boyfriend (who before was my best guy friend everrr) and i have been going out for a while (about 3 months) but nothing has been happening….. at all. when you see other couples they are holding hands or talking to each other sweetly or whatever. sometimes we dont even sit next to each other at lunch and we have never held hands or kissed or anything. i told him about it and he said that he thought everything was going fine so i was just said okay. when i picture us holding hands or something its just weird cause we are like bffs. i want to end this awkward relationship but i want to stay friends. its just weird. and at the dance we just went to he doesnt like to dance and i love to so i danced with one other guy barely and he got all jealous. i understand that, but still i didnt just want to be bored. he just stood there the whole time basically. so how do i do it and when?

I’m really sick of being single. I have a lot of guys that I would consider as options. But I really need tips because I don’t like getting rejected. Any tips on flirting and how to get his attention? And what do guys find attractive?

Last week my girlfriend wanted to breakup with me; we are still in love but she needed time to think because we had been fighing a lot recently. She wanted a complete breakup so she could know she can survive on her own without my to be a shoulder.
Anyway, last night…
My ex-GF’s best friend is very attractive, model material, fit and healthy. Not trashing, just really amazingly attractive,,
She came over dressed in this massive coat as it was cold and raining outside. I thoguht she was here to pick something up of my ex-GF’s.
Then she takes off her coat and is wearing seductive clothing underneath, she gets all hot and heavy and rubs against me whispering naughty ideas and thoughts into my ear… telling me my Girlfriend will never know, and that she has always wanted me, telling me she thinks about the two of us to get her excited… Just bizarrely private stuff!
I was reluctant at first; and tried to tell her no and send her home; but she got desperate and says ‘I refuse to go without a good f.u.c.k’ and starts screaming and ripping everything off… and finally I went for it and we did it for almost an hour – just really rough and hard. She stayed the night and wanted to do it again in the morning – so what the heck, went for that too.
And latter that afternoon my ex-GF comes over and I find out it was a set up?? How could her best friend go through something like that, and doing it twice, she seemed to really enjoy it, couldn’t she have stopped just before and that would have been enough proof, whats up with that?? is that crazy??? And now my ex-GF is really pissed and angry because she had hope to get back with me and knows we are both in love?? Is this fair?

My boyfriend and I just broke up. I’m still a little bummed out, especially with Valentine’s Day coming up… any tips you guys have done to get over your now ex-significant other?
Please nothing violent. :]