we’ve been dating for only a week, but i cant be mean or his best friend will kick my ass..literally shes really mean

We have been going out since last valentines day. We have kissed twice, she is uncomfortable around any guy, and I am her 1st real boyfriend, and I’ve gone on 3 dates. Anytime I try to advance our relationship to the extent of going out a week (ex: holding hands, or even being close) she shoots me out.

How should I break it to her that we are just being friends right now, not actually together, and I don’t want to be her boyfriend.

Also, whether I should do it in the morning before school, in the middle, or at the end? I really don’t want her to go through the day crying if she does.
I’m not ready for her?

She isn’t ready for anything.

Here I will list some things we have done

kiss:2 times
held hands: once
held together:0
Been to eachothers house: 3

My boyfriend and I have been together for 17months. I am so in love with him. He lives in NJ, and I live in TX. (Yes, we do see each other!) He doesn’t have time for me anymore. According to him, “He never breaks his promises and keeps his word.” He never keeps them to me, and he always breaks the promises he makes me. But, he doesn’t break the promises or words he says to his friends. For example, on our one year anne. He forgot and went to his stupid friend’s house because he told his friend HE’D BE THERE. But, when he has days off from work.. He can’t even spend atleast an hour on the phone with me. Taking consideration that we live MILES AWAY. He’s a mommy’s man. Yeah, HE’S 22. His mom is nice, but he’s always putting EVERYONE IN FRONT OF ME. Although, noone cares or loves him as much as I do. He’s just pathetic. I gave him something special a month ago, that I shouldn’t have. He changed so much.. He used to tell me that he wanted to be with me forever…. He “works over time”..
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Everytime he says he’d come out at 10:00pm instead of 12:30am
He keeps me waiting all day, so excited to speak with him..then he calls me to say he’s going to hang out with his friends and he can’t talk to me.
What the fuck!! He confuses me so much! For example, today.. I was supposed to “shoot” an independent film with my friends, but I said that I want to shoot it Friday instead because I want to talk to my bf.. He told me he had today off and he could talk to me.. Then he comes out with stuff saying “My mom wants to go to the mall.” What the hell? I’m like “She can go by herself.” “No, I’d never let her go by herself. My mom comes first. You come second” This is so fucked up.
They don’t even celebrate Christmas…
Anyways, I’m sick of getting depressed and feeling so left out ALL THE TIME! As much as it hurts to say it.. I want to break up with him. I do love him so much. We had a talk about remaining bestfriends if we ever do break up. There’s so much that we know about each other, he claims to be in love with me.. but from what he does to me IT DOESN’T SEEM LIKE IT. I am so scared and I want to say the right words.. I don’t know what to say…….. HELP. Sorry for writing this whollllee thing.. I just wanted you to know that this relationship has been the best ever, not just any relationship that you could just say “IT’S OVER” the end.
Well, it used to be the best.. Now it’s rocky.
Well, his mom has always put him down. I have never put him down. I am not just a “Long distance phone friend” We do see each other!

i had a break up today.itz just coz of caste probs..no misunderstnding no fights .. just a caste prob.she told that itz better to break up rather than crying at the last moment since there is a numerous chance that we both wont get married.she told that she wil always love me and she cant live without me.she loves me a lot.but its necessary to spilt up.she told this… we both are staying near to each others house and i m studyin in a far place.i m comin next month to my home.i didnt expect this.if i see her after i come bak?if i happen to see her anywhere?how can i live wothout her? pls help wat to do ?and iif thres no othr choice , pls suggest some tips on how to encounter this !!pls pls pls pls pls pls pls help

i need a break up for a reason and its not his fault he hasnt done anything wrong but its just that i want to concentrate on my studies first okay give me some tips or ideas.

i always try to tell him im busy wen he calls me or wen he tells me he wants to meet up i tell him i say a reason….

HELP NEED TIPS AND IDEAS the worst part is my skool is right next to his schoollll
sometimes i cant help it because he really loves me and he would do anything to see me like when we got same recess he would come up to my school….

This is not for me but a friend. She is pregnant and has cheated on her boyfriend with another man. She wants to keep the baby and have her boyfriend take care of it (But its a very good chance its not his!) I feel that i should tell him because she was messed up from the beginning, but i don’t want to beak my friendship, What should i do???

I don’t nessacarily know what that means, does it mean he or she needs time to think about the relationship? OR what? Help me.

So lately I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not 100% happy with my boyfriend. He has a 2 year old little girl, and there is SO much drama in his family it’s so exhausting. He will always have to be there for his baby and the mom, so when I have children he most likely won’t be able to be 100% there for ‘our’ child if we were to ever get married. I just can’t see myself being happily married in that sort of situation.

I care for him and really don’t want to break his heart. I know he loves me dearly and his little girl is starting to get more attached to me who I will miss. I wish it was just him that had the little one and none of this shared custody…

I know I need to do this sooner than later as the little girl will continue to get attached to me and I want this to be as painless as possible.

I’m unhappy with my relationship because I can see conflict in the future that I’m not sure I’m really willing to accept anymore. Things have ended up being more complicated and dramatic than what I had initially thought, and he is still living in his parents basement at 25 years old.

How should I do it without breaking his heart and saying it’s because he has a child? It is in a part due to the fact that he has a child and it won’t be ideal. This sounds so mean and cold blooded I know, but I really can’t see myself being happy in this situation down the road so I need to end it sooner than later.

Suggestions? Can I still be friends with him and his baby? We were friends for years, dating when we were younger, and then got back together. History, but settling.

Thanks for any advice on how to go about ending this in a respectful, kind, and honest way to both daddy and baby.

me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years and we just broke up a few days ago. but it seems like he wont accept the fact we’re not together anymore and still calls me baby, etc. even though i tell him not to because he’s making it harder on us.and yes we still talk on the phone,but i just want us to be friends but he’s determined that i’m still his one and only and will always be his “girl”