He ‘text message’ broke up with me a few days ago and now he curses and yells at me! We have lots of the same friends and before we were dating, we were like best friends. I made the mistake of trying to talk to him to tell him that we might be able to be friends again…later. But before I could tell him that he went “Get the f*ck over it!” “Leave me the f*ck alone” and all that. How do I deal with him when I see him every day on campus?

i just found out my boyfriend of 2 months cheated on me. obiviously i broke up with him. im really hurting right now. i need to find a way to get over him, i cant stop thinking about him
whats the best solution…
any good movies or songs? those always help

I’m just curious.
Since I’m dealing with mine, I would like to know some things that you guys on Y!A did.

Any advice, and tips would be wonderful.

And stories are always interesting to read as well.

Thank you for your time.

me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years and we just broke up a few days ago. but it seems like he wont accept the fact we’re not together anymore and still calls me baby, etc. even though i tell him not to because he’s making it harder on us.and yes we still talk on the phone,but i just want us to be friends but he’s determined that i’m still his one and only and will always be his “girl”

We’ve been together for almost a year. He’s so over the top sensitive, always needs validation that I love him, won’t cheat on him… I don’t want to hurt him, but it feels like I’m starting to hate him in a way. I feel like he’s weighing on me and making me depressed. I don’t know if I should dump him, because I don’t want to make a mistake of losing somebody I know loves me. I have no idea what to do!!

When I was 15, my boyfriend broke up with me and I lied and said I was pregnant and then pretended to have an abortion. I know it was bad to do, I was just really upset and didn’t actually know what I was doing until it was too late. I’m 21 now and would never do that because I’m more mature and like being a good person. Everybody does stupid things when they are teenagers, how do I move on and forgive myself? Does this make me a bad person forever?

A couple of nights ago, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, saying “we’re too different”. I don’t totally believe this, because I had just told him I didn’t feel comfortable having sex with him so often (every time I came around) – his response was “well what else do we do then?”
I’m 23, and have never had anyone at all before, in the relationship sense. He was my first kiss, first love, first sexual experience. And now he’s begging me to stay friends – he sent a text yesterday wanting to know how I was. He practically begged me to come over last night too, even though he had just gotten through saying how we never do anything. I didn’t go of course, telling him to call me instead (of course he didn’t, why call when you can text?). Only problem being, I have uni classes and tutoring with him all year, and will probably find it really hard to avoid him, seeing as I was his only friend in our course.Hence I feel a little bit used – I have a car and a job and he has neither.
He also told me that he was molested as a child, which got him down whenever we got intimate. I knew our relationship was not going to last, but how do I make it hurt less, especially as I can’t go on avoiding him forever?
He also once told me that his housemate/friend would be a good rebound if we ever broke up, but that is probably not the best idea for obvious reasons.
I just don’t know what to do. I want to stay friends, but how is that possible when we were so close? I’ll never get to kiss/cuddle him again, and I am missing that like hell! What if he changes his mind and wants a friendship with benefits? I don’t want the friendship to end either, but everyone says I should, including my family. I know they know best, and I do agree with them, I just feel like a bitch in not contacting him.

Typically there are several ways to deal with your relationship when it comes to cheating. 1.Break up with the guy; 2.Talk to him try to save the relationship; 3. Ignore it find another guy to cheat him too.
I have been living together with my bf for 3 months now. Right now I have caught my bf more than once that he was flirting with some girls online. He posted online that he was looking for sb.”just for fun”. He messaged some girl that they would meet for sex. I never actually catch him doing that, so I don’t know if he has really put it into action. My first reaction was to break up with him, but then I think I would lose him to other girls. I hate him, but I have this motivation to win him back…maybe it just doesn’t work between us…So has any of you done one of the options I listed above? How was the result?

Any tips?

So it has been a couple of months since I’ve talked to him, and I’ve admittedly checked his myspace for updates. He’s actually the one who refuses to talk to me, go figure. It turns out he’s still crying over the girl he dumped me for since she found someone immediately after he broke up with me. Now his page is full of songs like, “On my way down she betrayed me
Now my vision is no longer hazy
She’s not the one coming back for you

and

Now I think
about you
all day long
‘Cause you’ve been
with another man
Here you are
and here I am.”

YET he doesn’t feel sorry for what he did to me, and never apologized. This really hurts me, and it’s difficult to accept that he never cared. It’s such a punch to the face, and it makes me want to cry all the time. How can he dare talk about her when she didn’t even want him, and I did and gave him everything!?!?