Are there any legal documents I can cite regarding the following situation? My girlfriend broke up with me on Christmas day within hours of accepting several hundred dollars in presents from me and my family members. Afterwords, we both agreed to return each others gifts. I followed through but she has still yet to do so. I understand that gifts are hard to argue but if she knew she was going to break up with while taking the presents, could I take her to small claims court to get those particular items back?

my gf brok up with me 5 weeks ago. the last 2 months we were 2gether i neglected her and when she needed me i wasnt there. 2 weeks after the break up i got a phone about her cheating on when we were together, i got really confused and angry. so i went to her house and yelled at her and accused her and then went to look for that guy and i clobbered him really bad. the next morning i found out the rumor was fake and realized my gf made a female enemy b4 we broke up and thisperson knew i wasnt stable and had lot on my mind. since then i called and txt her very often… and it is somewhat pissing her off…she said we need some time and need think things over. i really miss her n i know i made a huge mistake… we were suppose to get marry by the end of this year…
what can i do to repair this?
to make things worst, after the fight that nite, my buddies txt her that i committed suicide and past away. she didnt believed it so she called all my friends and all of them played along. she cried and almost collapsed and was going to go to every hospital to look for me. then one of buddies gf said this is getting out of hand and she called my gf and told her the truth. i didnt know this until later on. too much was going on for her and me and too much third party involved. she is really sad and sick. she just want all these problems to go away and let time tell between us.
i just want things to be normal except with me as an improved person she wanted b4.
i love her dearly and i know i overreacted
what can i do?
well we been together for 3 years, when the nite the fight happened, cheating wasnt even in my mind, it was just too much going on in my mind and i wanted to take it out on someone. the reason the neglection happened was my workload and sometime when she wanted methere i couldnt make it
i loved her, because after all these horrible events i asked myslef do i love her?
there is no excuse for my actions that nite…
she forgived me for that nite but she still mad… i just want her to know i made a huge mistake and im sorry and a second chance because i know we can be better if i put out a little more effort than b4.

I want to go out with my ex-girlfriend again. She wasn’t stolen but I need advice on how to get her back. I didn’t do anything bad or be a douche bag to her or anything like that. She broke up with me because she claimed it just wasn’t there anymore, but I don’t believe her. Please help.

Alright…I am usually really level headed and am good at making sound judgements…But I am not sure what to do here.

So here it goes…Sorry for the length here! My boyfriend (and recently fiance) Dan moved here from California (here being DC) to be with me. We have been living together for a year now, and everything is great and we are having a blast. A few years ago, he was with this girl Jessica for about 2 years. She wanted to marry him but he was not feeling the same way, and I guess she hurt him pretty badly because all he tells me now is that he thinks there is something wrong with her mentally because she just disppeared on him one day and left him to go to Nevada. He is a private guy and hates talking about ex’s for the same reason most people do. And he is a typical guy, hates talking feelings and prefers to leave the past where it is.

About a year ago (2 years after their breakup), she sent him an email saying how sorry she was and how she is a better person now since she goes to church (like that changes a person just because they go, get real). She went on to say how she hopes he can forgive her for how she treated him and just that she wanted to let him know she was sorry. He didnt respond.

He didnt hear from her again, until this past weekend. Out of nowhere, this girl calls him crying and leaves a voicemail thats like, 6-7 minutes long. She is sobbing and carrying on about how she “needs someone to talk to” and he is the “only person who understands her” and she was sorry and loved him. Then, 15 MINUTES LATER she calls back again! She leaves another message, this time a little less dramatically…”I miss you…I just talked to Mike for 2 hours on the phone last night, trust me I really need to talk to you…I miss my best friend, I love you…I will always love you and there will always be a place in my heart for you…So I hear you are living in DC now, really? *giggles* I hope sometime in this millenium you will think about calling me back, I miss you so much. You know the number”

My boyfriend kept her number in his phone because he does not like not knowing who is calling, but I do the same…Even if I cant stand a person, I want to know NOT to answer the phone you know? So when she called, he looked like he had seen a ghost and told me to look at his phone and there was her name…The most aggravating part is she had a 2 hour conversation with HIS best friend Mike the night before and Mike conveniently does not mention to her that yes he lives here in DC, with ME, his FIANCE! Conveniently, that minor detail was left out…And something he said must have given her some courage to call because suddenly she is calling him! I would think that a girl who knows her ex is about to get married is not going to call him and act that pathetic…Then again, people have a funny way of deciding what to hear and what to tune out.

So what should I do? I am by no means jealous, I know that he would rather jump off of a blimp than talk to her or deal with her nonetheless leave me for her…And she has not called since…But something about this entire little situation bothers me, its like she wont give up and since she may not know I exist, she is sort of storming in on m “territory” so to speak. I want her to know I exist so she stops or at least gets the hint that he is not interested since he refuses to speak to her. After 2 years she breaks her silence with an email, then again a year later with those voicemails…Who is to say she wont do this again every now and again until she is satisfied? Its annoying!

I dont want to cause waves with my fiance, who will undoubtedly tell me to let it go since he could care less….But its a matter of comfort here. Most of my guy friends (and I have a lot, Im not a girl kind of chick) said they would be uncomfortable with this if it was the reverse, and my fiance’s friend Dave went so far as to say that if his ex was doing this crap he would just hand the phone to his GF and let her deliver the bad news that he cant come to the phone…Should I call this girl? Text her? Email her? I dont want to be nasty, but I want her to know that we are not comfortable with her calling and that she needs to leave him alone, as if ignoring her emails and calls for years was not an indicator of that alone. I want her to know that I exist and that she is being inappropriate and invasive, because clearly she has no clue that I exist and he wont talk to her. Is that a good idea? My better judgement tells me no, because then she may start calling and getting nuts with him if I do that…Or, she could go away…I also dont want him to be miffed that I decided to do that since she has not called again…Im just a little conflicted here. I dont want to fuel the fire, but this is really obnoxious and I just cant put my finger on why it makes me so ticked off. It just does not seems so disrespectful. Any advice?

Plz help i love her so much. She said she liked it better when we were friends. But i liked it better when we were going out. What can i do to get her back. PLZ HELP ME!!!!!

My friend had a girlfriend. but they broke up. he is trying to get her back. she is coming over tomorrow to pick up her dog. Wat is something small he should do.. to try to win her back.?? or some advice. how to get girlfriend back.

So here is my sad story, I was dating this girl for about 2 years, it was very serious and I loved her very much. I wasn’t the best boyfriend at the time and did some things that I regret. I have since learned from my mistakes and have changed for the better. Well we broke up out of the blue a little more than a year ago. I never did get a full reason why, it just ended. And it was a very upsetting and sad thing for me. I’m a very deep and sensitive person, and I have taken it pretty hard this past year. Even to this day, more than a year latter I think about her everyday. I have been quietly falling apart this whole time. And I feel I haven’t made enough forward progress to get over her. But it’s not for a lack of trying. I have met a bunch of girls since the break up, been on 10+ dates in the past year. But nothing ever seems to work out. None of them! And I don’t know what to think, I starting to think because I’m not over my ex is why I can’t make it work with someone new. This is not a problem with my ex however, in the year since our break up she has met someone new and they have got in engaged. They plan to get married this summer. I know this from people telling me, I have not seen, or spoke to my ex since our breakup. Not a single time! I haven’t called her or emailed her, I haven’t seen her out and about, not at all. Zero Contract on my side. She however, has sent me a text once and an IM once. It was around Christmas time, and it said something along the lines of “Merry Christmas, and im sorry for any pain I might have caused you.” I never responded to the text at the time. I do feel a little proud of myself for not contacting her this whole time. Even through I wanted to. I know she is getting married and she has moved on. I’m not trying to get back with her or try to win her over at all. I mean we never even said goodbye. We ended things on such bad terms, that all I want is a chance to sit down and talk, and tell her goodbye. I think if I had that, I could move on. I have no way to know if that would or could ever happen. And im afraid I will continue to be sad about all of this. And never really move on. I was a little worried about posting this, I only decided too after looking at all my contract on my phone, and seeing I had no one else to ask. So please if someone has any advice for me. I would like to hear it.

My ex-girlfriend’s friends wants to hang out with me and that’s cool with me. But I think my ex will be there. I don’t want to make her feel jealous or anything. I just want her to think “damn maybe i was wrong for leaving him”. Any advice on how to make that happen?

I still love my ex-girlfriend, but I want her to be at least comfortable hanging out with me as friends first and hopefully I can win her heart again sometime later. I was thinking we could go to the library and study – as friends, not a date. What should I say when I call her?