I want to comfort my best friend, but im not the best person to comfort someone, they been going out for ages almost 2 years and it came out of the blue that they broke up, any ideas, suggestions or tips how to be a good friend?? x

First off, I know that it was a stupid, stupid, stupid thing to do and I would take it back if I could, but I obviously can’t. So, please do not reply if all you’re going to say is that it was a asinine thing to do, I am aware of the fact and don’t need reminders of it.

Anyhow, I’ve been best friends with him since I was eight. We’ve been through everything with each other (btw we’re both 22 now). He’s been the only real constant in my life.

I just went through a really bad break up of a three year relationship while he just found out about his parents’ divorce. We were both having a really hard time, especially since this all happened around Christmas, and decided to go get plastered. The next thing I know he’s kissing me and I didn’t stop it and we ended up together. Later the next day, he tells me that he is in love with me and has been for awhile.

I just don’t know how to deal with this. He’s my best friend and I love him in that way, but the truth is that I’m still in love with my ex-boyfriend. I just don’t know what to do. I’m not naive, I know that there’s no way that both of us get out of this not hurt. I just need some advise and I’ve gotten desperate enough to sink to this level. Please.
Note: we never really talked about anything together. The next morning, we woke up didn’t say much and were awkward and ate eggs.
Later he comes to my house tells me that he loves me, kisses me and then runs out of the house like a bat outta he11. I then sat on the sofa not doing naything for three hours and then started crying. We haven’t talked since. This was two days ago.

Well me and her aren’t so close, but i’m probably one of the only people she’s told about it. They went out for about 3 years, and they broke up last week. She seemed pretty strong, but last night she texted me and told me it’s hurting her now, and it’s finally hitting her. I’ve never dealt with a breakup before and I don’t know them that well and what went on btwn them.
What do I say to her? Besides telling her that it’s going to be okay and time heals…?

thanks in advance.

I want to become a woman and she wants to become a man…!

We’ve been best friends for the last 2 years, and have joked about a relationship and sex changes together for a while… now we want to!

Is there anything weird with her wanting to become the man and me the woman in this relationship?

We’d could have a bunch of Tranny babies and have one big happy Tranny family!?

She is very willing to get out of abusive relationship. But if she leaves she has no where to go. She cant stay with me cause she stay right beside me. but she really fears that he will kill her if she leaves. I want her to get away as far a possible. What can i do to help her?

I went out with this guy for about a month, then we broke up, he turned out to be a real jerk. He wasn’t even a good boyfriend, he would act like I wasn’t even around when we were together, and the only way he would communicate with me was texting pretty much.

It has been, about 3 months since we have broke up, and I knew she liked him, she told me after the breakup. It’s summer now, though and her, nor I will even see him at all. I thought she got over him, but I guess not. They hadn’t even communicated in a month.

I don’t know why, but he asked her out today, she said yes. They won’t see eachother at all though, and I know she is too shy to do phone calls. They will only text. (We are 8th graders by the way.) He is really immature, and no offence, but, ugly. I really don’t know why she likes him, but I know she really does.

Also, he rushes everything. I bet he already said “I love you” to her! I know they are not right for eachother in any way.

But what should I do? Nothing? Should i let them be and ignore it? Or should I say something to her? And then what should I say? Please Help.

My friend made a big mistake for dumping him and wants him back but hes already dateing another gurl and i wanna help her what should she do? and me what should i do to help her out? shes really depressed and sad without him and i need something to get him to brake up with his GF??

new friend that he now hangs out with. Im a really good nice person. Ive learned you can not control people but now feel so a lone. Do others feel this way?, its become such an “all about me world”

I am in a relationship. I love my boyfriend, but I started talking to an old friend again, and i realized I really like him. I need a song to explain it. Help? No country please.

So my best friend got me and my girlfriend together a couple months ago. Girlfriend went away to camp and told me she liked another guy, so i break up with her when she gets back. Later she told me she still wanted to get back together and tells all her friends that. She had very strong feelings for me, and i thought i did for her too while she was away. It’s not technically cheating but she did break my heart and I thought it was. She tells me she did nothing with the other guy though and I sometimes find that hard to believe. She destroyed me completely when she told me she liked someone else, so i broke up with her, I guess she was a little immature too. She still tells me she loves me but I can never look at her the same way again. The problem comes in here. My best friend helped me through all of this and she is wonderful! I love her more than any other friend I’ve ever had and she is absolutely amazing. I have hung out with her almost everyday this summer and we have been getting really close. We started developing feelings for each other and made out and fingered her after I broke up with my girlfriend. I confused if what I did was wrong. Technically, it shouldn’t be wrong because we are broken up and I no longer have any strong feelings with my ex and I’m falling in love with my best friend. Can someone help me? Should I ask my best friend out? I am just afraid that my ex will throw a tantrum and stop being friends with my best friend if I go out with her, I don’t want any of that to happen. So what should I do, should I just keep secretly hanging out with my best friend? By the way, my best friend told me she’s falling in love with me too, so it’s not just a one sided thing…. any opinions welcomed! I just need help…