for a while now, i am having trouble reaching an orgasm by masturbating, which is frustrating me. now my friend suggests to be my “friends with benefits”. The problem is i always regret about it and feeling scare of pregnancy until the next period. i am planning to get a dido to help me reach an orgasm than get a friend to do it for me. by the way, my friend is not someone who i am physically attracted so it is harder for me to turn on. what should i do?

I love her so much. We’ve only been together half a year, but i don’t want her to move. She wants to stay, but she can’t financially. I’d let her live here. How do I tell my girlfriend that wants to go back to friends because she is moving out of state with her parents that I want to marry her and want her to live with me?

Okay, trust me I know how pathetic it is to come here to whine about my petty problems. But give me a break….I don’t want to make my friends want to rip there ears out so I figure if someone is bored enough on here they can write me back.

I have a bf. He cheated before and we finally broke up for about 4 months, then got back together. I’m still always suspicious and have my guard up for if he screws up again, and I tend to always start fights when I get flashbacks about what happened to us in the past. Today I saw on his stupid facebook page some girl wrote him and he said he met her while we broke up and they’re just friends. but she’s one of those girls who’s like half naked in her profile pic, so i’m sure they didn’t become friends because he thought she had a “nice personality”. Anyways I know I’m a spazz but I wanted other opinions as far as if I should be okay with him being friends with girls he was meeting while we were broken up….if they’re genuinely a friend then okay thats fine…but then we all have those “friends” who we call friends only because we just didn’t quite get “there”. I know I’ll get a lot of answers saying if I don’t trust him to just leave him, but anyone who truely loves someone knows its just not that easy. I’m rambling so I guess I’ll stop soon. My bottom line is, is that I KNOW i’m always paranoid (with good cause since I did catch him cheating before), but I need to know in most relationships where the boundaries are. Do most people find it okay for their significant other to continue seeking out friendships with people of the other gender. Coming across someone of the other gender and you make friends with is fine….but is it okay on the stupid networking sites to continue to talk and meet girls and justify it by saying they’re just friends? He claims he doesn’t talk to her on the phone they just chat during the online poker…do I need to just suck it up and be okay with this? Wow I sound pathetic. To anyone that responds with some sound advice and not a jack@sz comment I’d like to say Thank you in advance.

these are my friends. but i have started to drift apart fro two of them ( out of 5) bc they just have changed alot in their personality, their opinions after they got boyfriends. this one friend just has become the opposite of me and i dont like it. i am in my last year of high school, college apps are in and i just want a good time during winter break. all my friends have late curfews except for me. i have delt with being left out for a very very long time and it sucks. i go to therapy about the relationship with my parents and i want them to come with me this week so i can ask about my curfew being pushed back later. they also still call my friends houses when i want to sleep over, meaning nobody asks me to sleep over anymore. my mother is refusing to come to therapy to talk about it. all i want is to repair my friendships and have a good time even though all of my friends have boyfriends and i dont. i just want a good senior year! what should i do? please help me

My boyfriend of a little over a year broke up with me over the weekend stating that he felt as though we were more like friends and that he’s felt this way for a while. He told me that I was perfect for him and that he didn’t know why his head was telling him to do this. We celebrated our anniversary a month ago and he said at that time he didn’t even love me. I knew that something was wrong for the past month and asked him about it often but kept being told that everything was fine, that he was just stressed out with work and his health.

I love him so much and miss him a lot and can’t understand what it is that I did wrong to make his feelings for me change. He says I didn’t do anything but I must have as people don’t just decide they don’t love one another anymore for no reason. He says that he feels like he lost his best friend and that he’d like for us to be friends if and when I’m able to do that.

What do I do? I love him with my everything and want him in my life but I know that I’d never be able to handle hearing about a new love interest, a new relationship or see him with someone else.

How do I get over this? I can’t remember who I was without him. I just want to stop crying all the time. I don’t know how much longer I can do this for.

I’m in middle school and am somewhat shy/kinda a lonerish and have had difficulty finding friends. Two of my ‘best friends’ started picking on me since the second half of last school year. I admit I picked on one of them but stopped over a year ago. I hope he can’t hold a grudge that long. My other friend recently came back from his suspension. While he was suspended me and the first friend I made fun of a long time ago became pretty good friends. But now that the other one is back they started picking on me. They started out fine the first week but began to make fun of me the next week. I have corrected all I could that they made fun of me and tried ignoring them when they made fun of me but it didn’t really work. It worked to some extent but did not stop it. They started calling me names that really could be used against anyone even them. I can tell they have run out of things to make fun of and resulted to making fun of what I did over a year ago. They almost never make fun of me without each other in fact I talked to one of them when the other was absent and he talked to me in a friendly manner.

I started hanging out with a different group of more aquantinces than friends at lunch and it just feels awkward. They recently told me to leave them alone and now I have no idea who to sit with when I try to talk to them. I’d like some friend making advice too. When I asked sorta like the the ‘leader’ of the group if I could sit with them he seemed hesitant and said no but it was okay if I sat nearby. I ended up saying very little and felt very excluded. I don’t have many friends and don’t ussually do stuff with friends, as I have very little, like going to friends houses or going to the mall but would definatly like to start.
I also like a girl but am to afraid to ask because I’m kinda nerdy (only with my grades tho and glasses which I hate) I have talked to her but very minimally and think I’m pretty ugly to be honest. I’d like to be her boyfriend but don’t know if she will like me or not.

Oh and as a side note for my first statement I would like to be friends with the two kids though but I’m not sure it will be possible with all this drama of random hate and constant making fun of me and not making fun of me phases.

So concider this a three and a half part question

1. How do I make them stop making fun of me?

2. I would like advice on getting friends

2 1/2. Who should I sit next to at lunch?!?!?!?!?!?

3. How when and should I ask this girl out

3 1/2. How and will I be able to repair my relationships with those friends and be friends again?
Oh and the two kids keep ruining my chances of possible friends

married and not only once various times and his answers were no everytime. Does he love her or is he just playing with her heart what should she do

I was hanging out with my ex’s current boyfriend and found out he is cheating on her. I need to tell her because if she finds out the hard way i know she’ll be devastated
I really need help!!!
Just so you know I do have 100% proof. I saw them make out from two feet away, and she is already suspicious of something but I don’t want her to get hurt

Yesterday, a girl who is in same grade as me (by the way, she is just a friend) told me that she likes one of my best friend. I would really like to help her, however that best friend is friend of her, but he doesn’t want to start actual relationship with her. Also, both of them doesn’t want to ruin the friendship between them. Is there any way to solve this problem?
Actually, she asked me for help, I asked him to does he like her or not, and I told about that to her. Now, she seems she doesn’t care about starting relationship…

I have two great friends, and we hang out with each other a lot. Recently I picked up of the girl telling the other boy things, and wanting to hang out with him more (I live 30 minute bus ride away.) She told me that she likes him, and now I am in even more fear that I will slowly be excluded. I need help D: These two are my best friends