I haven’t seen her in three months, but I still think about her every day. Is this normal?

Ive talked to him over the internet and on the phone for almost 2 years now.. We are great friends and talk almost every night; he plans on comming to visit me this spring break.. ill be with a friend to keep me safe.. but what should i do.. should i start a relationship.. ???

yea my girl in coming home just wanna show her good night(hopefully get lucky if u get wat i mean ) but just wanna know some good ideas that i should do or take her… can someone help me out?

How long does it take you to wipe your mind away from someone you loved (who broke up with you), before y’all can start a new relationship feeling free of past emotions?

Hi all, Im 24 yo gay male. I meet a guy who i don’t know he has a bf before and got my feeling involved. i felt in love, and when he brought me to his house i saw a male picture, i asked him then he told me “He’s my bf, we’ve been together for about 12 years” I got mad at that time, i wouldn’t come into his life if he had bf. Then my love was tremendously uncontrollable.. and started to love him the way he is. I had been in relationship with this older guy (37) for about 2.5 years. He told me he has HIV + from his bf (unsafe sex). No further thought I did a huge warm hug. And I said “I love you the way you are” I really love him, and want to try to overcome my fears. Then they broke up. Since the day he told me. I always have fight between my head and heart. Both say different things. I got tested, and had NEGATIVE result. Also I am worried about his health. I have read that the new HIV medicines significantly reduce the viral load, but are extremely toxic. I know that no one has a crystal ball to look into the future. I am just not sure if I want to knowingly put myself in painful potentially dangerous situation. I think it is so difficult, because I have been so conservative in my sex life, and have only slept with one person. This makes the situation so scary. On the other hand, he is truly amazing. It is so difficult to find someone in life that you really connect with. One day I made a choice and we broke up and now I have to let he goes with his new boyfriend (that he told me he won’t tell all of this to his new lover). I can’t stand my jealousy, the fact that i still love him. What I’m supposed to do? PLEASE any advice to erase my mind or if anyone else who has been in a relationship like this, that can give me WISE and GOOD advice. Your advice will be highly appreciated! Thank you so much!!!

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sorry typo in first line. It should written “Hi all, Im 24 yo gay male. I MET a guy who i don’t know he has..”

and now my bf left me with new bf he met.. and he said he had enough with me and wont back in my arms again.. I do love him.. am i that bad? that selfish?

I was in a long distance relationship with my current GF for over a year now, we are stronger then ever and it’s not some average thing, we share true love and I know we’ll marry some day =)

What advice do you have to do when she gets here? how should I take it all? fast, should I take it slow?? she’s moving into an apartment near me so we can be together and live together when I turn 18.

Guys/girls, do you think that a relationship must start from friendship first ? Is it possible to have a good relationship without being friends first ?

What are your thoughts on this ?

I’m really shocked cuz my ex said hi to me on msn. It may seem like no big deal, I I guess it isn’t but I haven’t heard from him in almost ONE year, even I have gone on msn before he never really would say hi. Me and him dated for a 2 months, almost 2 years ago. It was a really sweet and innocent relationship, no sex , just kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24 and I was 20 when we dated. He’s now 27 & I’m 22. He was the one to end the realtionship. Even though HE had ended it, he would still sometimes contact me on msn but that soon stopped. A year after the breakup he called me asing to hangout. I went buty it didn’t go well. I told him I never wanna see him after that. Then now, 2 years since the break-up and 1 year since I”ve seen him, he said hi to me on msn today. He asked me what was new, then he told me that he bought a condo, ( he was living w/ his parents before). and he said that he moves in July and that I should “come visit him once he moves in”.
What should I make of this??? What are his intentions? Could he just be hoping that for sex? Should I go visit him?????

I’ve been out with this girl 5 times. I’ve dumped her 4 of the times and she dumped me once. We just barely got back together because we thought it might work out this time and we realize that its hard for us to see each other with someone else. Should I end it now before something bad happens or keep it goin?

I’m moving out in two weeks but he is trying to move my things out now. He’s violent and has a bad history of domestic violence. I just want to protect myself and my property.

we fight because his best friend speak with him about me,and i don’t know what he say,and he call me and say i don’t want to be whit you together more.And i don’t know where is my mistake.I don’t want too lose him because is everything for me and i love him

a week ago i break up with this guy, i was with this guy for 5 years ( on and off),the main reason was because of my mom’s disaproval, well sometimes he does some mistakes (who doesn’t)..it feels like neither me or him wanted this relationship to end. finally when i talked to him and tell him i’m afraid if we’re taking this relationship more seriously, we both will get waysss more broken heart..that was the saddest day of my life, we cried together and grief together for that last time..seems like i’m too weak, too sensitive and too fragile.. how do i deal with this when i know i can’t go back to him?

just curious about people’s stories before i make a decision.