You have no feelings for this person at all, you just wound up drunk and so was she, one thing led to another and bam for six months straight all we have done is get drunk and bone. She is very attractive woman but almost every night it is the same thing sex and alcohol sometimes together. I know it is not healty but thd sex is great, but this is not a person I could see spending my life with. I jus don’t know how to break the cycle

My boyfriend broke up with me because of somethign he heard that wasnt true. someone told him i cheated on him while he was in rehab and id idnt, and he wont believe me so im moving on. It’s his loss. Anyways, its only been 2 weeks and he already has a new girlfriend and he wont even talk to me. I guess i dont try to talk to him either, but he tells everyone he is over me and hates me and is all bitter about me. I just want to end things on a good note.. and i want him to know the truth that i didnt cheat. Is there anything i can do? Should i just give it time and take him his stuff and try to talk to him? Should i write him a closure letter? I just really want to move on and its hard to move on knowing we broke up over a lie and i keep thinking what if he was the one and now its over because of a lie? I know he still has to love me and care, i just dotn get why he is being so bitter? But all i know is that i deserve better than this, but i cant move on until i have closure..

Ive been stuck on my ex for a really long time, its been 7 months since he broke up with me and i still cant get over him, we lost our virginity to eachother and im having a hard time believing that hes completly over me, we still talk but its akward. How do I move on?

He asked her out and they got really serious. He’s sort of a bully and she’s trying to get him to stop, but it’s breaking her heart. She’s bawling her eyes out and asking me for advice over IM as I’m typing this, what do I say. I don’t want to let her down. She’s saying that life is pointless without Kevin. I’m worried about her, I think it could be urgent.

Before this summer me and my ex decided to take a break, her reason: We don’t get to see eachother. Well after that her friend told me it wasn’t a break we were just broken up for good. How do I impress or get my ex back, since I still have feelings for her. All answers are appreciated

Hello
To make a long story short after 2 and a half years of dating and having just talked and agreed on plans to Marry and move in together next year, my Girlfriend said she needs some time to think. She says she is really confused inside and needs to sort out her emotions.
I have 2 years in this and while I know the dreaded “time apart” is usually lethal, are there things I can do to help get her back? I was thinking to try to make her jelous a little bit. As well as leaving her alone and not talking or writing with her. Just cut her off.
She asked if we would remain friends if we broke up. I also asked her, do you want to leave me? and She said she is not sure. I know her friends and they say to give her time alone and that she is not seeing anyone else.

Any advice is helful. Thanks!

I was with my ex for almost three years and we were engaged to be married this month. We were 23/24 when we became engaged and I realized after that it was a huge mistake.

I ended it in December after admitting to myself that I wasn’t in love, despite really wanting to be with this person. Our relationship had dwindled down to next-to-nothing. She was interested in another guy (whos he became intimate with after the breakup) and I was yearning to be single.

I realized that I wasn’t ready to be married, couldn’t deal with her issues anymore and needed to end it before we got married and I would have divorced her in a year or two.

I am a person that typically takes on a lot of guilt when I screw up and this is no exception.

It crushed her (understandably) and it is on my mind almost daily. She was already having issues with depression and all sorts of similar things and I hate that I did this to her.

I started to move on but received texts/phone calls from her recently (afte 5 months) telling me that she still “can’t believe I threw everything away.” I called her back and told her that I was sorry (again) and that I feel terrible and always will. I also told her that I know I could have never married her and that she needs to stop calling me so we can both move on. I’m planning on changing my phone number.

Does anyone have any good advice? This is in the back of my mind every day and it’s draining me.
I also should add that I was constantly walking on eggshells and bending over backwards to make sure that I didn’t upset her.

She made me someone that I wasn’t and I got tired of not being myself.

I was dating this girl who’s a few years younger than I am. She’s 15 and I just recently turned 18. This is not about the age thing. Anyway, we talked for almost 4 months before we officially started dating, and I really started to love her a lot. She told me she loved me and that she never wanted to be with anyone else. We had a lot of fun chatting and talking on the phone and all that. In October, we finally got together. We spent a few weeks going out on weekends with friends, with her brother and his girlfriend, etc. I realized that I didn’t want to hold anyone else or be with anyone else again. And don’t say first love stuff or young love, because I’ve been with other girls and I’ve loved them too. But this was different. We really clicked. Eventually we became rather serious, and I realized I was in love with her. Things changed though, and she eventually broke up with me, saying that I wasn’t a very good boyfriend. I’m not really sure what this means since its a very per girl idea of the perfect boyfriend. I always treated her very well and we had a lot of fun. I helped her with things I could help with, and I always wanted to go have a good time. She seemed happy most of the time. Anyway, she told me last night that a lot of what happened between us probably meant more to me than it did to her. That really hurt considering all that we’ve shared together in these past 8 months. She also said that I was too much like her dad, if anyone can figure out what that means. She said she wants to still be best friends like we’ve become, just without the relationship part. What makes it hard for me is that she’s talking to this other guy just a week after we broke up. I’m still pretty sore about all this. She doesn’t seem to be… If anyone has any ideas on ways I might be able to get her back or if you think she’d ever take me back, let me know.

I dated a guy for almost four years, from the end of high school until almost the end of college. We went to different universities, so much of our relationship was long-distance. We had a decent breakup and I understand that we don’t feel ready for the next step: marriage. However, it has been really tough on me. We broke up almost 9 months ago and I don’t feel like I have moved on much. Is this normal? He was my first serious relationship and love, and parts of me felt that he was the one I’d marry. Last weekend our mutual friend was married and seeing my ex at the wedding was really tough.

I don’t really know what I’m asking – maybe just looking for advice. I want to deal with this in a mature way, because I already found that trying to date other guys (no matter how attractive! ha) doesn’t help – if anything, it just makes it worse.

He was such an ass hole to me, with how he always insulted to me, never appreciated anything for him, and so on and so on. I dislike him so much and I’m aware of that these thoughts are unhealthy and I should really just move on. Do you have any encouraging words that would help me move on with my life?

Me and my girlfriend of almost two years (we are both 15) recently broke up and im really trying to win her back. so far ive really opened up to her and now she says the reason were not back together is because she says she is not ready for a relationship yet. She still loves me, but she has some feelings for this other guy and keeps hanging out with him. I know for a fact I can be a better boyfriend than he can be. I tried just leaving her alone and giving her space but it seems to not work. she told me today “I still want to be close with you and if u stop talking to me and leaving me alone I’ll stop liking you. just being honest” I asked her if she still has feelings for meand she said “of course but honestly not as much” Someody, please tell me, what are some ways i can get her to have strong feelings for me again? and what are some ways i can flirt with her?

Needless to say I feel pretty bad. I have never been good with breakups. I am not crying or anything…but this annoying depressing feeling won’t go away and is constantly looming over me. D; Advice?

Recently me and my Ex girlfriend broke up. long story short after 1 year and 3 months the last two weeks of it she didnt tell me she felt that she loved me as a best friend and not a boyfriend. and wants to remain close best friends. after talking she said we didnt feel like a couple because we didnt get close like a lot more kissing and hugging and stuff like that. i told her if i could get a second chance i could make that happen but right now she just wants to be friends and she just doesnt feel that way. how long should i wait before i try getting her back?

im having a really hard time dealing with this. My ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 1/2 months ago, and i really loved her. shes 17 and im 18, and im a freshman in a nearby college, and shes in high school still. well anyways, where both seeing other people, but i still want my ex. The guy shes seeing is no good, at all. he drinks, smokes, is expelled from school, he has scrubby long hair, and is her ex from a year ago. he originally broke up with her because she wasnt putting out, so he broke up with her for someone who would shortly after (almost like cheating to me lol) Her parents dont even like him, so she doesnt let her see him. Ive expressed the fact that i still like her, but she insists she likes this guy more, even tho she cant see him. Shes not even that type of girl either, she has so much in common with me, she doesnnt drink, smoke, shes a virgin, i just dont see why shes wants this in her life, shes setting herself up to be hurt again. I dont know how to deal with this. I want her back soo bad.

I love this girl alot, and i never told her, and i just want to hold her and tell her that:( Is there any way i can get her back? How do i get on the right track when talking to her, and show her that im better then this guy? and i really want her back, so any good advise you could give is really appreciated:)