I’m interested in a girl that broke up with her bf a month ago. I asked her out, not knowing about the break up. She said that she wanted to take the summer off guys, which I completely understand. But, she was willing to go as friends. Then she apologized and said she loved talking to me. Should I keep leaning on her shoulder until she is ready? What’s the best way to approach this?

Me and this girl both like each other a lot. She says she doesn’t really understand exactly how she is feeling, like making sure it isn’t lust. Is there anything i can do to help her say yes to a relationship?

This girl is a very proud controlling type. Due to this we had a fight 5 days ago and never spoke since then. Today I wrote a message to her telling her its over. But no reply, nothing. Last time I wanted to break up she was nearly crying so I gave her a second chance…but what does this mean? She ain’t replying….

I have been talking to this girl for about a month now and she recently had a Birthday party. I went and surprised her and things were going great. However as the night progressed and my good judgment became more and more impaired; I ended making out with another girl. I talked to her about it the next day and she said she is fine about it; but knowing her history with ex girlfriend that cheated on her I’m worried that I messed up big time…

Last night I had a dream that my soon to be husband is cheating on me with his ex. In the dream he has been lieing to me about her through our whole relationship.
The dream’s time frame was over about a year it was like he never stopped loving her, at one point he wouldn’t even come and eat dinner with me because he wanted to eat with her and her parents.
I am beyond confused please help!

We have been going out since last valentines day. We have kissed twice, she is uncomfortable around any guy, and I am her 1st real boyfriend, and I’ve gone on 3 dates. Anytime I try to advance our relationship to the extent of going out a week (ex: holding hands, or even being close) she shoots me out.

How should I break it to her that we are just being friends right now, not actually together, and I don’t want to be her boyfriend.

Also, whether I should do it in the morning before school, in the middle, or at the end? I really don’t want her to go through the day crying if she does.
I’m not ready for her?

She isn’t ready for anything.

Here I will list some things we have done

kiss:2 times
held hands: once
held together:0
Been to eachothers house: 3

It is a situation where you know a female friend has a boyfriend and I do liker her right!
She likes her boyfriend of course and she does not know he is sleeping with other girls during senior year.

I mean how would I tell her as a guy who likes her that her BF is doing that and she will be hurt.
I do wonder if it none of my business or rather a matter I should care about.

Any advice on what you would do!

I’m a 13 year old boy hoping to improve a relationship with one of my best friends.
She told me recently that she currently has no boyfriend but wants to have one. She is a real tomboy but i’ve only known her closely for a year.
Also 2 of my other best friends have a crush on her too. So please help.

We were together over 3 yrs and split up 2 months ago, I dated on the rebound for a few weeks and now realize what a huge mistake i have made and broke it off.

Im that sorry i considered suicide – (no get help for that comments, im not going to do it, i love her too much to hurt her and my family by doing it etc).

We started talking the other day and i ended up begging for a chance, i don’t know how i can regain trust and respect, we had all our firsts together and that was important to us. i never cheated neither did she, we broke up as i thought we needed to break up with a chance of getting back together when we realised who we were again and could build on our relationship for one with less stress and fighting etc as we had begun to fight too much and repeated attempts to sort it failed, but i feel neither of us tried hard enough.

Apart from messing it up with this other girl, i dont know what went wrong with us. I know now more than ever how much we are meant to be together – the saying you dont know what you’ve got untill it’s gone.

We both still love each other and i know she wants to give me a chance but i dont know what to do to try to show her i can be trusted and that we can make it work. Im prepared to do anything but am terrified that it will end like this and us go our seperate ways, and that i wont get the chance to rebuild our relationship with her.

Ive made the biggest mistake of my life and changed the rest of my life completely in the last 2 months. I have been completely honest with her and i just dont know what she is going to do, if i get a chance i dont know what I can do to make up for it.
im going to see a psyciatrist friend, and have suggested relationship councelling but i’m not sure if she will.
Im 20 she’s a bit older, I know im going to have to work at this and im prepared to, i just dont know why ive odne such a retarded thing and what i can do to move us forward. Im hoping councelling will happen and be helpful. I’ve lost my soulmate right now

My girlfriend was recently in an abusive relationship that she came out of about 4 months ago. She hides her emotions (which was caused by her abuser), and I am not sure what to do about it. She says she does not want to talk about it cause it makes her cry, but I can’t help but say something whenever I see some of her scars or when I can tell she is not feeling good emotionally.