I love her so much. We’ve only been together half a year, but i don’t want her to move. She wants to stay, but she can’t financially. I’d let her live here. How do I tell my girlfriend that wants to go back to friends because she is moving out of state with her parents that I want to marry her and want her to live with me?

so i’m pretty sure my dad is having like
a midlife crisis:(
he’s in his late 40s
and he’s dating this woman who’s only 24!
she’s like completely trashy
and it’s sooo obvious that she only wants MONEY
my dad says he wants to to propose soon
i feel like he would be making a huuuuuuge mistake!
should i say something to my dad?
and what should i say without pissing him off or hurting his feelings?

I am really starting to screw this up. Well I still like her even though she is acting a little…paranoid. Girls would understand, but I sure as hell don’t. So we we were talking on the phone and she was stating guys she liked cause I asked her. I was getting a little irritated because it was some list. (about 6) So then she asked me. I told her no one but you and she said yeah right. So after a while of her asking that over and over, I told her the other girl I liked. But I barely liked her. I did a little bit but not very much. She said she didn’t trust me to stay just with her and started going all crazy. And now she won’t talk to me. Is there something I can do to fix this? Is she being overly sensitive or do all you girls out there agree with her? She’s pissed at me. And to top that the whole school found out the next day.

aaight, so im thinkin about breaking up with my girlfriend..
cuz idk, i just dont have the same feelings for her as i did when we started datin.. i mean really the only reason we are still goin out is cuz of sex and stuff..

ok now this is where it gets tricky..
first, she is literally in love with me.. like crazy.
she says she loves me all the time, she been sayin that since like 2 weeks after we started dating(weve been datin 2 1/2 months)
ive only said it to her like 2 times cuz she trapped me. lol

and another thing that isnt gonna make this easy. Her friends are gonna be hawkin me and annoyin the shyt out of me if i break up with her.. and i dont wanna deal with that ish..

so what is the best way to let her down, while not pissin off her friends, and her goin crazy on me..
im 18 and shes 21 btw
Lol did u get that from a movie?

Ok, so I broke up with my ex while I was in jail, she was lonely and I was in there a while and it got hard for her. Now she’s back with her ex boyfriend whom she was with for 3 years prior. About a month ago she approached me saying she wants to be friends…I’m friends w/ her brother so she gets to see me at his house..time went on I went over there her brother told me she still has feelings for me and asks him if I talk about her..so the last few times I was there at his house she was there and she finds excuses to see me using her brother..she contacts me on facebook a few times to hang out and always mentions “we can’t have sex , I can’t cheat”..we go out for coffee one time even invites me over to her her house w/ her brother when her boyfriend is in jail another…so yeah, basically I got the message she wants me back…but I’m not the desperate type…I’ve learned from my mistakes in the past and I know that is a total turn off to females. She is wishy washy and doesn’t know what she wants…her boyfriend is an insecure asshole and treats her like dirt…now this may not have been the best thing for me to do but…..I know she is keeping me for a friend for other reasons and I know she still loves me….I told her I still love her and care about her too..a while after I said this……..I told her I don’t plan on getting back together in the future…she didn’t expect that from me not at all..I explained it to her in a message on facebook..Yesterday she messaged me while I was on there and was really pissed and emotional…jumping to the conclusion that I met someone else, which I haven’t…I told her I just needed to move on and I accepted the breakup a while back..she got all emotional ” fuck everything that was ever right, I want all my memories to go away, i wish them away!” then the conversation ended in “it’s fine live your life move on i’m done caring” well from the way she reacted she either cares or is pissed she lost me as a rebound (if that’s what I am to her) …………………………..My question is…Do you think she’ll just give up or not be able to accept the fact she got rejected? or any other outcome?
ok now she has her and her boyfriend as her display pic on facebook and status as engaged..and that she plans on moving away..lol trying to make me jealous?
I deleted her ass off there after I seen that…. she can pretty much go fuck herself now…that’s the wrong approach even if she’s trying to get back at me.

I love her so much and I just want her to be happy. But she only hates me and doesn’t want to talk to me because somebody made lies about me talking trash about her. I have no idea where this is coming from because I always defended her but now she hates me and doesn’t want to me to talk to her ever again.

I just can’t have her out of life I wish I could make her understand and believe me. Just for any kind of relationship, I would love to just be her friend now. Its just how to I reach out to her, I tried to reason with her but she just got more mad as her words got harsher telling me to leave her alone. I sent a long detailed e-mail yesterday, can’t be sure if shes even read it yet. And my last idea would be send to her a card and flowers to her door.

But what am I suppose to do? The only reason she seems to hate me now because of these lies. I don’t have a bad thing to say with her, our relationship was awesome. Even when we broke up it was not because she didn’t love me. She told me she loved me and cared about me. She just can’t be with me, with everything going on in her life.

I miss her so much, please somebody give me advice or ideas.

Almost every boyfriend I have had said I have a very seductive personality, what ever the hell that means anyway. My current boyfriend says he is getting annoyed at the fact people mistake my kindness for something more than it is. I’m just really friendly, I love to laugh and smile all the time, and I like making people laugh.

The gist of the situation. We’ve been together for over two years and anywhere between a month a four months I make, in my opinion, an honest mistake and screw up the relationship so bad that shes broken up with me at least four times and the other times gotten really mad. Currently we are in a three day long fight over one of these mistakes. What makes things worse is that I think this is just an honest mistake, I have done all the right things and apologized and continue to make an effort to make things better. However, my efforts are rejected as she thinks that I hate her and did this mistake on purpose; this happens during every fight too. I guess I have two questions here.

Is this normal for other people to have their boyfriend or girlfriend make mistakes this frequently?

When in a fight does your boyfriend or girlfriend not believe your side of the situation?

I hope this all made sense.
its really easy to say stop screwing up. but for me to do that it would be like walking on egg shells for the rest of my life trying not to offend her.

start by saying that i am positive of my feelings for her, i feel more for her than i ever have for anyone and i know she feels the same. After meeting eachother for the first time a couple months ago, we could not stand to be apart any longer and plus her life back home sucked so she moved here with me. neither of us have very much money and we both have bills things are so stressful. Of corse we have a plan, and she’s even got a job now, starting this week. But we have both been really edgy, stressed, and we have been arguing alot. Let me end by saying i dont regret anything even when we argue or she questions if she made a mistake coming here which i think she says out of fear.. but i always knew that this was something i had to do.. because of my feelings for her i knew that we had to try to be together or else id always regret it.. always wonder what if… So do you guys think all this stress, arguing and stuff is normall under these circumstances?

The full story is, i could tell things werent the same between us she just didnt seem very happy so i decided to break up with her. when i did she broke down and cried harder than i could of ever imagined.. well we talked for about 2 hours and i realized what i did was the wrong move and she really did care about me.. i asked her to give this weekend a chance and see if things would work out between us she replied “you broke up with me” and every time i said i was sorry and wanted to try it again she would either say “i dont know” or “you broke up with me” i think she still cares about me what should i do.. do i call her? or let her call me? i want her to know i still care but i want her to realize what she is missing if she lets me go.. if i hang out with her this weekend should i act like we are still together or should i act as if we are just friends?