I have been with my fiance for 9 years and been engaged to him 4yrs, im 26 and he is 29 and a firefighter. I love him to death but i come from a huge dysfunctional family of alcoholics whose marriages have ended & some of them have been married many times, they are mostly cops and FDNY, i never wanted my fiance and i to be like them. I was a rebellious teen and done everything i could to rebel as no one would ever stop me, i started drinking at 11yrs old and got addicted to that for 6yrs as it was a normal thing to me I got sober by myself and got an amazing career in the city and fell in love & moved in with my fiance who was always there for me, i suffered a miscarriage a year ago and felt i let my fiance down as he always said how we wanted to be a father and i feel like my life is in the dumps. My fiance and i seem to have lost our communication and seem to fight over anything or get on each others nerves a lot. My fiance and his firefighter crew are friends with my older brothers crew and him and their friend owns a bar and they hang out there a lot and my fiance wanted me to go more with him as we haven’t been out together with friends in a long time although he doesn’t really drink. I started hanging with my family and friends & drinking, i was always a very out going person. My fiance always tells me he loves me and cannot imagine living his life without me in it but in my family we cant seem to go anywhere but we make some sort of scene, trouble tends to follow us & if its not to us its to the people around us, who we are about. A lot of guys hit on me and i always tell them im engaged and then my fiance comes over, snaps and turns on me then my brothers & friends will turn on the guy who hit on me. I am close friends with a guy on my brothers crew and he is friends with my fiance also, i’ve known him years and i seem to open up to him more than my fiance as we get defensive, my friend keeps telling me to not give up on my fiance as it would kill him. Although we fight he will never leave without telling me he loves me and will do anything for me. I know im no good for my fiance and i love him to pieces but i am hurting him and see now that i always have, he would be better off without me, i know i have problems i always have and its killing me but i am damaged and know i should set him free. Advice?

when your ex has moved on without you and left you behind

like what are some songs similar to your not sorry by taylor swift
because like i need songs about like moving on after a breakup or after you get your hear broken

Me and my ex broke up almost two months ago now and I’m really falling for this new guy.
Is it too soon to start dating again?

I really like this guy and we talked on the phone for like an hour last night, but there were a lot of ackward silences. Anybody have any convo starters? I know he likes me and we are just friends right now…but he just went through a break up. Any tips?

I’ve broke up with my ex because he cheated on me with a co worker last May and I haven’t spoken to him since. I just left him alone. Well he text me out of the blue 2 weeks ago to apologize because he felt terrible and guilty. Then every few days after that he either calls me or text me to say hi and tells me he misses and love me. I absolutely never want to get back with him ever again. I could never trust him. Or maybe because things didn’t work out with the girl that he cheated on me with didn’t work out so he wants me again? I don’t know if being friends with him is a good idea. What are the pros of being friends with a cheating ex? Will I in anyway boast his ego if I decide to be friends with him?

Answers from men are really helpful.

I would REALLY suggest reading this question. I would REALLY apreciate it cause you would have a better understanding of what is going on and what has happened between my ex and I and get kind of an idea of what kind of guy I am, so you can help me out better. PLEASE

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100116131109AAa7F09

Anyways, there’s this girl that I’ve had a crush on since junior high(lets call her Bree) and now were juniors in high school. I would like to go out with her, but its kinda hard. Its bad enough that I have no clue if she likes me or not, but my ex and her are friends. Luckily Bree is one of my friends that thinks my ex is being really mean. Lately, a lot of people think my ex being a jerk (to say it in a nice way). A week ago, my ex totally flipped out on one of Bree’s best friends, even the guy my ex wants thinks that was really out of line. So, cause of all this, I don’t really think that I have to worry about the girl code between my ex and Bree, but idk it’s a small school. I’d like to ask one of Bree’s best friends if Bree might like me, but I don’t think its a really good idea right now because that might cause my ex to totally flip out on me or flip out on Bree. I’m not to worried about her doing that to me cause I can take it and that would really make my ex look like a total jerk, but I don’t really want Bree to have to go through all that crap, she doesn’t need it. I’d like to find out if Bree likes me or not, but I not sure if I should until my ex gets over this. Btw its been 3 months since the breakup. Bree is really a sweet girl and I think she may be kinda shy because she hasn’t had a boyfriend before.

Thanks a lot, especially to those who read all of that. Sorry it was so long, but this is the best way for you to get to know that’s going on. I know, its really complicated and full of drama lol

Okay, so I made my friend *who, unfortunately isn’t into all the metal and hard rock that I like* a CD of 18 sad songs to help her deal with her breakup. Yes, I know, most of them aren’t about breakups, but they’re still songs that are good to cry your heart out to. The songs are:

-Golden Slumbers- The Beatles
-Yesterday- The Beatles
-The River- Bruce Springsteen
-Lost Cause- Beck
-No Surprises- Radiohead
-Anyone who had a heart- Dionne Warwick
-Everybody hurts- R.E.M
-I know it’s over- The Smiths
-Paper Angel- Jimmy Wayne
-You’ll think of me- Keith Urban
-What hurts the most- Rascal Flatts
-Gloomy sunday- Billie Holiday
-Alone again (naturally)- Gilbert O’Sullivan
-Bleeding Love- Leona Lewis
-Fix you- Coldplay
-I’m lost without you- Blink 182
-How to save a life- The Fray
-Under the Bridge- RHCP

She likes country and all that modern crap, but I did get her into old blues and Baudelaire poems??
WHOOPS haha, the question. Are these good sad songs? Should I change anything, add anything or take anything off?

I would REALLY suggest reading this question. I would REALLY apreciate it cause you would have a better understanding of what is going on and what has happened between my ex and I and get kind of an idea of what kind of guy I am, so you can help me out better. PLEASE

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Avz_bdK_CvRxi838_mn0UvPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100116110500AAXTuMX

Anyways, there’s this girl that I’ve had a crush on since junior high(lets call her Bree) and now were juniors in high school. I would like to go out with her, but its kinda hard. Its bad enough that I have no clue if she likes me or not, but my ex and her are friends. Luckily Bree is one of my friends that thinks my ex is being really mean. Lately, a lot of people think my ex being a jerk (to say it in a nice way). A week ago, my ex totally flipped out on one of Bree’s best friends, even the guy my ex wants thinks that was really out of line. So, cause of all this, I don’t really think that I have to worry about the girl code between my ex and Bree, but idk it’s a small school. I’d like to ask one of Bree’s best friends if Bree might like me, but I don’t think its a really good idea right now because that might cause my ex to totally flip out on me or flip out on Bree. I’m not to worried about her doing that to me cause I can take it and that would really make my ex look like a total jerk, but I don’t really want Bree to have to go through all that crap, she doesn’t need it. I’d like to find out if Bree likes me or not, but I not sure if I should until my ex gets over this. Btw its been 3 months since the breakup. Bree is really a sweet girl and I think she may be kinda shy because she hasn’t had a boyfriend before.

Thanks a lot, especially to those who read all of that. Sorry it was so long, but this is the best way for you to get to know that’s going on. I know, its really complicated and full of drama lol

I’m so worried that me and my boyfriend aren’t going to work, or even if we don’t, I’m going to die alone and never have a good relationship ever again.
If you’ve cheated, did your relationship work out after or did you have a good relationship ever again after that?

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