Well the story goes: Me and my Ex-girlfriend went out for 1 year and 7 months. She broke it off and things werent the same for me. In about 6 to 8 months or so. She found someone else and I was still in Love with her. My jealousy and feelings of being possesive over her made me mad to the point where I didnt want to be her friend anymore. I told her to not see me as a friend also, even though she said that no matter what, she’ll see me as a friend. But I told her no. A big arguement happen and she finally snapped and said that were not friends anymore and shes not seeling me as a friend back aslo. Months pasts and I finally got over her. We havent spoke for awhile and just thinking on what I did, I was stupid. Now Im not even sure if she will forgive me. Cause I want us to be friends again. Im just not sure if I should just leave this as it is or ask her back to be friends again. Considering that I was her first love & everthing else, should I say im sorry? I still miss her at times

Where am I at in this relationship??
Im confused and i really really dont know where I stand. I have a good friend who i like and I know she also likes me as well although she has a boyfriend. I asked her if she liked me and she said she did before her boyfriend and when i asked what about now she said she didn’t know and was confused but I know she loves the attention I give her and we can talk for ages.

She has been dating this guy for 6 months now and are still just at the kissing stages much like a high school romance and nothing else. She is 19 and he is 27 btw. He hasn’t even met her family yet. Whenever we speak she always seems to tell me that her and her boyfriend had a fight about something. She hasn’t told me but on her myspace/bebo pages she has like headings saying she loves him. But to me it is more like puppy love.

She invites me out places with her all the time and last night I met her bf for the first time and even though he doesn’t know me, i sensed he didn’t like me and if anything I was doing my best not to get close to her at all, like if she danced near me I slowly moved away and there was touching except when we said something to each other and had to whisper in her ear and unfortunately im a funny guy and after saying something she would always laugh lol. Now after a while her, her friends and him left (I assumed they were going for a smoke) but didn’t return so I thought oh well and just kept clubbing. I got home and sent her a text message asking what happened and why didn’t she say goodbye (she normally goes out of her way to) and she replied at 4am mind you saying her and her boyfriend had had a fight and left. I don’t know what is about but I hope it wasn’t about me. So should I ask her next time I see her if the fight was about me and tell her that I didn’t think her bf liked me or should I keep my mouth shut? I don’t want to steal her and respect her relationship but would like to know where I am at. So opinions please? Does she like me? Am I just a good friend? If she does like me is there anything I should say or do that might move things along quicker WITHOUT forcing a breakup…more forcing her to make a decision so to speak… sorry but im just confused :S

He’s my ex as of today and we’re temporarily in a long distance relationship. I let jealousy get the best of me and I let what another girl showed me on myspace make me fly off the roof and get mad to the point where I said some HORRIBLE things. Now he’s done and I just want to get back on good terms with him to show him I’m sorry and I’m the perfect girl for him. HELP.

Well me and my ex are still good friends after the break-up but whenever i talk to my current bf about introducing him to my ex, he immediately changes the question. I always run into my ex when I go out with my bf but he’s never willing to be a freaken man about it.

My boyfriend of a year and 9 months broke up with me and refuses to get back together. Music helps me feel better so I need some good breakup songs. They can be sweet or angry.

Me and my girlfriend recently broke up and i cant stop thinking about her and after talking to her i now know that she cant either. Now im making a CD for her before i go over there and need some more songs that say how much i miss her and want to be with her. Can you guys please help me out on this one? Thanks.

my situation is that i’ve been dumped on a text msg on the anniversary day for no reason,
its been 3 weeks SINCE the breakup… and i’m still depressed and hurt,
i liked this guy so much, we were an amazing couple and the breakup was so unexpected.
i gave up trying to get back with him, everything was a fail :/
but seriously, good ways to get over the best boyfriend u had so far in life?

I broke up with a guy who is amazing, however, first I don’t want a exclusive relationship, and I second I see us as more being friends…. He sent me a music video and I want to send one back. What’s a good song to show him I care but I don’t want anyone right now and that I don’t want to be with him with him?

OK heres the story and im sorry if its long.. summer of 07 i met a guy i really liked him we talked for about a week or 2, then he asked me to be his girlfriend and i accepted because i liked him so much.. Well about a month later his best friend broke us up (its a long story) or thats the way it appeared! Now 1 year later my good friend met him and fell for him, the guy is a total player and very crazy…. But still a nice boy i guess… Anyways my good friend and i were not really close till we found out that we knew the same guy then we became interested in eachother as friends and started to become close as she told me everything that happened with my ex and her current crush…She then told me something she knew would hurt me she said that he had used me on a bet and that he never liked me as a girlfriend and he led me on to believe i was so loved by him and that he couldnt live without me.. I cried without her knowing and i said thank you so much for telling me cuz now im glad to know the real truth about our breakup… Still he puts this magical spell on girls to still like him, i dont like him as a bf anymore but im still hurt by him and he is CRAZY about my good friend in fact he was gonna kill himself then he met her and he had something to live for….I act like im happy for her and i REALLY am but im still SO hurt…Why is it? I dont get it at all! She knows it bothers me and she says shes sorry and half of her would like to get us to be friends.. But he said that he doesnt want anything to do with me… Yet im so hurt? I dont know what to do…. I just want a boyfriend SO bad and stop having crushes a real guy who loves me. Has ANYONE been through this?

Venomous jokes only please. I intend to inflict maximum damage. Thanks.
Help me crush her. Help her know that someone sees her for who she really is. Come on, where are the jokes? Should I resort to Google?
I’m the one who got rid of her. She still disgusts me though and I’d like to continue crushing her and pounding her into the ground like a pancake.

When you have someone do the same thing to you more than once, come talk to me about being vengeful.

I feel like I should get her something for Christmas and that’s the only thing I can really think of?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. I just found out he had cheated on me many times with many different girls. Any good songs? I can’t think of any. I just want some good ‘forget you I hate you” songs to listen to =)
I loveee rock, screamo, hardcore stuff, but I’ll listen to any music.

I am looking for some opinions on my situation, hopefully from some with experience in this kind of situation.

A very long story…somewhat short: My ex-girlfriend and I were good friends for many years before we dated. We had feelings for each other off and on, but never began dating until almost a year ago. She had been in a relationship right before ours for about 2 years, and was not very happy with the guy she was with. She finally broke up with him but it took a long time since she didn’t want to hurt him.

It was the summer before she was going away to college, (only an hour away) and she wasn’t exactly sure if she wanted to date again because of school, but she said she liked me a lot. I ended up waiting for her to decide whether or not she wanted to commit, and yes I know that this should have been a flag. If she isn’t sure about a relationship I should have let it go, and I KNEW that but was selfish because of how much I cared for her.

For the summer everything was great, but of course as you may predict, when she got to school that Fall, things fell apart. She ended up breaking up with me because she “did not feel the same anymore”. She said I did nothing wrong, but she couldn’t see herself marrying me, and wanted to see what else was out there.

I took the news like a champ. I was really hurt for awhile but tried to act maturely about the whole situation. I told her I wanted her to do whatever made her happy, and remain best friends. I asked her several times if there was someone else that made her break up with me, or something I did wrong, or something she did that she didn’t want to tell me..because she had lied to her ex-boyfriend in an effort to not hurt him. (Naturally I thought she might do the same to me) She assured be she was telling me everything, and I believed her.

Well it wasn’t a true separation. We fell right back into the same routine we were in when we had been dating, but we just weren’t officially “dating”. We tried to stop a few times but kept settling back into old habits. She admitted she still cared about me a lot, but I think it was just the fact that she had no one else to be with.

So about five months after the breakup, she started seeing someone else. When she told me, it was like revisiting the break-up all over again, and maybe even worse. Again, I took the news very well and didn’t even get upset while she was still there.(She expected me to cry) I told her that it was good she was moving along, and the sooner she starts dating other people the sooner she will discover there is no one else out there like me. Once she left it hit me hard

Well the next two weeks were hell for me, I had been in the wrong mindset for the entire time we had been broken up, and it was just hitting me that things were really going to be different. She became a little distant, didn’t talk as much and when we did it wasn’t the same. All of this really upset me and brought back my doubts of her telling the truth about our whole break up. It was the week of her 21st birthday, and I was not invited to come down for her party or anything. So when she finally came home from school I sat down with her and talked it all out again. I wanted to make sure once and for all the story was straight, and that she wasn’t leaving anything out that she thought might hurt me or our relationship as friends. She once again assured me that she told me everything and that she was a lot happier now with this other guy.

So I was relieved, at first. I have no more doubts about how things happened, or how she had been acting the past two weeks.

This still does not make it any easier to get over her. I still care about her as much as I ever have. What hurts the most is she pretty much just “stopped feeling the same way”….out of no where. She said I was a great boyfriend and had not done anything to cause the break up, and yet she was no longer interested in being in a relationship with me. Also because she is so much happier with the new guy she is seeing. We both want to stay good friends and hang out…but this week I told her I needed some time without contact or seeing each other.

How can I deal with this? I feel like if I keep seeing her and hanging out it will never stop hurting, but there is no way I want to stop seeing her period. It’s only been three days and I as soon as I think I am going to be fine, something reminds me about how much I care about her, and how I have no idea what to do..

yeah, I got a bit of a crush, please help though, I really like her alot and I have a small feeling she likes me. But I need a way that will sound like “me” and not weird. Thanks

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