I recently asked for help from you guys about broken heart. Thanks to everyone that replied with great advice. I have a question that been eating me up. The reason my ex broke off with me was that I was starting to show anger about things going wrong in my life. Lost job and fell into a depression. Which I was picking fights with her for no reason. Not physical fight of course. When my ex broke up with me she said she understands what I’m going through, she was in a situation before in her life. But that she’s in a good place in her life now, she can’t go through it with me. This from a girl 4 days earlier was so in love with me. I called her 6 weeks after the break up to see if she wanted to give me another chance. She said that she didn’t feel the same way for me no more and that she has worked for three years to be where she is in her life. What did she mean by those comments? Was she saying that I was going to just bring her down? I thought when two people really love each other they stick by each other especially when I got sick with my depression? This girl I mean loved me so much, How can she say that she once in a while still thinks of me but is over me. Please respond.

My Husband of 30 years has turned into a different person. He wants to be gone most of the time. Won’t do any repairs or mantinance for our house anymore. Lost intrest in our plans, goals and dreams. Treats me mean and rude has no interest in sex, or just talking to me. He will sleep for a couple of days at a time, and misses work and apps. Spending all our savings and not paying the bills. He has totally changed, I can,t get through to him at all. I love him and hate who he has become. We have been married 30 years. I am so hurt lonely and confused. He won’t go to the Doctor or counciling. The thought of divorce breaks my heart and starting over without him scares me. In order for me to cope I need to know why. He won’t tell me. Can anyone explain; or give comforting advice. Please…

He asked her out and they got really serious. He’s sort of a bully and she’s trying to get him to stop, but it’s breaking her heart. She’s bawling her eyes out and asking me for advice over IM as I’m typing this, what do I say. I don’t want to let her down. She’s saying that life is pointless without Kevin. I’m worried about her, I think it could be urgent.

i still don’t know if he really want a break up with me. i mean, he’s avoiding me for about a week now. every call he wont answer and every text i send he wont reply, every message on IM also he ignore even though he is online at that time.

my thought is he want to break with me. but he wont answer anything. he should tell me right what he want.

have any opinion on how i want to forget him? what you guys do if you all in my situation? i already felt like he’s the one but now i guess i need to forget him but it’s seems hard….

Broken Hearted and Need some More Advice?
I need some advice and understanding on how to get over someone that did something so cruel. I was married for 4 years, yes a little rocky, I never hit her or anything like that, her family and I did not get along. She has narcolepcy and we moved to chicago where my family is from florida. Then one day came and I was rushed to the emergency room and they found I had a brain anurisym and it was starting to rupture. They told me I needed emergency surgery but being that my wife had narcolepcy, I didnt want her to come back and forth from the hospital and with no help. I was worried about her, so I discharged myself from the hospital against the doctors orders and drove her and myself back to florida, where she has family and I was made to believe that we would have more help there. Her sister recently divorced and was texting her alot telling her she wished that my wife was single so they could have it like it was long ago, by going out and big plans. Anyways 3 days before my surgery in florida, she left me. I went and had surgery and when I got back home, I was served with a restraining order and then on christmas eve divorce papers. I am back in chicago now and doing better. They gave me a 5% chance to live and I did it fully and 100% perfect. But I am so missing her and cant get her out of my mind and I dont know what to do anymore because I know she wasnt right. I sit here feeling worhtless, I put on some weight because I wasnt able to do anything for the last 8 months while recovering. I sit on the computer hoping she comes on on emails me or calls and nothing. Please give me advice, I feel so lost without her even though all she did. I know there are two sides to every story and I was not perfect. But I always took care of her and I always provided for her and I always loved her. I put my own life on the line to make sure she was safe and back home incase something happened to me. Now she doesnt ever call, she changed all her numbers, she emailed me once telling me to move on with my life. I never hit her, yes I did call her some names in times of heated fights of hurt. But even if I wasnt inlove with someone or we grew apart, never would I leave someone I once loved like I was left. Am I wrong for still loving her and missing her? I am so down in the dumps and my life really feels over. Nothing makes me happy anymore, I sit here all day and night wishing, praying and hoping for a mirracle and people think Im nits because the way she left me and then to do all she did while I was trying to recover. I never got a normal clear chance to recover. It was and still is the hardest thing I have ever been through and all alone to boot. I undersatnd all you all are saying and I thank you, but it is so hard for me, she never gave me any type of closure that I so desperatly need. After all to me she was my wife, my life, my world and my love. I put my life on the line for her to not even look back and do this, who could do this to another person, I will never understand. By the way I am now 41. I was also wondering does Karma really happen????? I am just curious seeing the way she left me and carried on with her life between her and her sisters fun and games and to act like I never meant anything at all. And to think I was her husband and to me that meant the world.
Wisen smart, to be honest with you, it sounds like you have had some men issues to say anything like that about my situation. The restraining order was placed because her family told her to make a restraining order or they would disown her, second of all at court it got dropped because she lied about everything to get the temporary injunction. But thanks for the advice. LOL

She is friendly but largely dismissive of me. We had a solid relationship, but the breakup was rough. There are some issues we never dealt with that I would like to bring up, but they are not that important. I just want to feel comfortable enough to be her friend, again. So, how do I ask her if she has bad feelings towards me (e.g., if she looks down on me, thinks I am strange, or is angry)?

I was with my boyfriend for about two years. We broke up about 4 months ago but didn’t really change much up until a couple of weeks ago when he decided he didn’t want to hang out with me that much anymore. So, he stopped answering my calls or anything like that. He only calls me when he needs something like the other day he calls and asks if I can come pick him up from this concert since his buddy drove and he didn’t like it so I go because I love him. He hangs out with other girls and doesn’t consider me to be his gf but I am so lonely b/c I stopped hanging out with my friends when I met him 2 years ago and my friends aren’t just gonna take me back after I left them like that. Any advice?

My girlfriend is a b*tch, well all women are bitchez. So whats the best way to hurt her feelings when breaking up with her?

I have just broken up with my first boyfriend, and I’m finding myself in a lot of emotional pain. Perhaps the most difficult part is that we still care for each other, and we had to break up due to geographical reasons (I’m moving across the globe in a week, and neither of us have the funds to visit each other often). I have tried surrounding myself with other friends at this point, and that has helped a little. Tonight we were going to watch a movie, but I don’t want to watch a chick-flick or anything dealing with finding one’s true love.

Any advice? I’m 19, by the way.

how did you deal with it.. how did it affect your life? did you make any changes? how did you get over him/her? what was the hardest part?

I love my husband, but I fear that things may not work after all. We have been fighting alot latley and I have tried and tried to wirk things out. Everytime I try to talk things out he gets angry and said there is no problem, or that he dosen’t want to talk about it. Not only that I want to have children, and with out going into detail, I don’t believe I want to have them with him. It has nothing to do with him but his family. (I am 20 he is 22, been married for 3 years) Anyways I want to brake things off, but I love him and I fear how bad it will hurt. Any advice or true life storys? What does a broken heart feal like?

me and my gf of over a year broke up a couple of weeks ago. im 18 she is almost 16. This is not the 1st time but I think it may be for good. she wont talk to me at all. she was my 1st real gf, 1st love, 1st everything. we’ve done nothing more than kiss. I can honestly say that my heart hurts. I thought we would spend the rest of our lives 2gether. I really did. I cant imagine not having her in my life. weve spent the past few weeks not talking but fighting via text messages and i finally told her if she was just going to argue to stop texting me. AND SHE DID. now the only communication we have if u want to call it that is i took her pictures off of myspace and put on some kind of mean songs and she replied by doing the same. i guess i am wondering if any of this means she is thinking of me or missing me too. every time i hear taylor swift on the radio i think of her. everytime i do certain things i think of her. all i do is think of her.

what shoudl i do? i really dont want any1 else even thought she thinks i cheated on her. i swear on everything i have i didnt. when we were 2gether i didnt even think of any1 but her.

I have just found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me with a 21 yr old and he is 44yrs old. I am 33 yrs old and I love him but I dont think that I will ever forgive him. What should I do. Should I move out and get my own place and make a fresh start for myself and my daughter.

My bf and I have been together for seven years.