I’m always honest with him as to who I talk to, but I didn’t tell him I had slept with the guy he knows I speak to as “friends”. It’s only happened once but it happened and i feel I need to tell him. Do you tell him in a suttle way or bluntly say something like that to a person that loves you. I don’t feel the same for him as I used to, and I wonder if it’s because i feel something for this other guy. The thing is my 7 yr. boyfriend is or was now for 3 weeks an alcoholic and wants to change now that I feel it’s too late. What should I do. In everything I do I see this other guy who makes me laugh and we did start out as friends but it became more one night when my boyfriend and I had split up. We’ve had problems this whole time we’ve been together and most of it was because of the drinking, but now that he wants to stop I wonder if telling him will make him depressed and want to start drinking again. I think it’s still to early to tell he’s only been sober for 3 wks.

Were only 3 hours away but with work kids school…and normal everyday life we both seem to get so frustrated that we cant be together. He lived him and moved after only 6 months of being together. He moved to be closer to spend more time with his son and me moving now isnt an option but its getting harder and harder day by day to keep us together

I am a girl

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me, what should I do to catch her in her act?can you pls help me guys!

Sometimes i think he is using me, or ashamed of me..but at the same time,i can see he is right,as its none of their business whats going on..etcc etcc…in our school,all peeps like to gossip and spread rumours around..i guess it ruined a lot of relationships already..and i’ve know ppl…who did dump each other only cos of shit ppl say :S so…what do u think?

my boy friend nd i have been going out since may 29, nd about a week later i went to my frineds birthday party, but he didnt go. in the group of people i was with there was a guy i had just met. there was a photographer at the party taking a bunch of pictures, nd in some of the pictures i was found sitting nd standing next to this guy while iwas with my group of friends. the pics were posted online nd my boyfriend saw them just a month ago nd he got upset. now all he is saying is that i cheated on him with the guy at the party when i didnt at all. i just met him that nite nd now i dnt even talk to him. me nd my boyfriend have hag troubles through out our relationship because his ex girlfried nd he friend spread a bunch of rumors that i was cheatin on him. but we got throu that nd we were doing really well now i dnt know what to do because he wants to break up thinking that i have cheated on him but i never did. i tell him i love him nd i dnt want to lose him. he dsnt believe me. help?

So me and my Ex boyfriend dated for 2 months. i broke up with him twice because… well i wasnt ready to date yet. And see the first breakup we only dated a week. Then we were good. and i broke up w/ him like 3 months ago. I cant stop thinking of him. Even though he is a jerk! and well see he is a football guy so like he is self centered around ppl but when it is me and him alone he is good. But he is very clingy around me, and most of the time insecure about the guys i talk to / hangout with. but he can be a good guy .. deep down. he was my best friend… Anyways after the breakup i cant stop thinking bout him! and now i was going to tell him im crazy about him and wanna try again, but now he is going out w/ one of my best friends!!! How do i get over this jerk, move on, and get him jealous!?! i wanna make him be like wow i want her back. I wanna get even since he is goin out w/ my bffl. Help please!!!!
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HEY! i didnt break up w/ him for the hell of it ok! i wasnt sure of my feelings, plus he wanted a break to! so it isnt just my fault! we were both into taking a break. and then we got back together but he was being to clingy and im 15!! and i wasnt sure of my feelings! ok ppl so im not a crappy person! and now im sure of how i feel, and he just dated my Fuckin best friend! What the hell am i suppose to act like!? every things ok when its not!?!?!

I’m going through a breakup with my boyfriend…it’s been just a few weeks since things ended. We dated for more than 8 years, since we were in high school. I guess we haven’t had the perfect relationship because we’ve broken up before, but this time feels real. He says he loves me so so much and could see us together in the future, but right now, he needs space to do his own thing. He wants to live his life and explore other options…which is so heartbreaking. To add insult to injury he doesn’t want any contact for a while…whatever that means.
I know I have to live my life and can’t wait around for him, but it’s so hard when I still want to be with him and have strong feelings. We have always talked about our future together and how we’d be ready to settle down in a couple years. After the breakup I told him that I couldn’t wait for him to have his fun and come back when ever he’s good and ready. And even though I know all of this, I’m still so confused and I’m torn. Part of me wants to fight and wait, part of me feels like I should move on so I won’t get hurt anymore. I just really wonder when he will call…there is no question that he knows that I was such an amazing girlfriend and friend to him, How he could jeopardize our relationship knowing that he could see us happy in the future is completely frustrating and boggles my mind. I have a feeling he won’t come back…and that hurts so bad
Has anybody been in this situation??? How do I heal a broken heart…and what do I say to him when he calls???? I’m so confused.

will making my ex jelous get him back ? as of now he wont even talk to me at all.

My girlfriend of a year and I broke up about a month ago. She was going through some emotional hardships, she lost her grandmother, one of her best friends committed suicide, she got into some legal trouble, alongside dealing with emotional damage due to her relationship before ours that was horrible. She felt distant, like she needed some time to recoup, so she asked for a break to have some time and space to gather herself and to stand on her own two feet. The break up wasn’t bad at all, and I was strong and I’ve been supportive and have been a shoulder for her to cry on or someone to talk to. She has told me that I’m perfect, that I make her so so happy and that were great together. I tell her everyday how proud I am of her and how much I love her. Since we broke up, she calls and texts everyday. And in the past week the conversations are more light hearted, like they were when we first started dating. She tells me that she loves me and misses me all the time. She also tells me specific things that she misses and it’s sweet, but I don’t know what to do. I want us to get back together, I want to marry her, but I don’t want to crowd her or pressure her so I’ve just gone along with it all. I love her more than life and want to be with her, I’ve been supportive towards her life choices but is there anything I can do to win her back? Please help, I can’t let this girl go, she’s my life.

I have a friend who has a controlling and manipulative boyfriend. She is on the verge of breaking off the relationship, but he keeps talking her out of it. Can someone point me to some websites she can use to help her make up her mind if the realtionship is healthy or not?

I gave advise to someone the other day about getting over someone…..and now I find myself having trouble.
I have written about him before…..I dated him for more than a year….I found myself falling for him, though I don’t know why.
Guess it was the hot body, great looks, and he was remarkable in bed. Only prob was he is a loser! Complete pothead, did coke, at 34 years old STILL lived with mom and dad….and with his two kids. He had no aspirations in life, barely any education!!!
I really don’t know how I got soooo into him…but his charm was there for sure. I am a college educated professional, and attractive. Even though I know he was so wrong for me I still can’t stop thinking about him and wondering whom he is seeing now.
I really tried to help him out with his children. He used me in so many ways…and broke up with me right after Christmas !
I was completely heartbroken. I actually think he waited til after Christmas so he and his kids would get gifts from me! Help!
So far…the women give the best advise!
One guy said flirt…and I plan on it!
Dan S. is a bit insensitive..I have never been known to go for guys with big dks and no brains! I guess I just had a heart and a guy that knows how to work his charm! Okay…I’m human!

My boyfriend broke up with me because of somethign he heard that wasnt true. someone told him i cheated on him while he was in rehab and id idnt, and he wont believe me so im moving on. It’s his loss. Anyways, its only been 2 weeks and he already has a new girlfriend and he wont even talk to me. I guess i dont try to talk to him either, but he tells everyone he is over me and hates me and is all bitter about me. I just want to end things on a good note.. and i want him to know the truth that i didnt cheat. Is there anything i can do? Should i just give it time and take him his stuff and try to talk to him? Should i write him a closure letter? I just really want to move on and its hard to move on knowing we broke up over a lie and i keep thinking what if he was the one and now its over because of a lie? I know he still has to love me and care, i just dotn get why he is being so bitter? But all i know is that i deserve better than this, but i cant move on until i have closure..

Lol…I’m serious.

someone i like broke up with his ex 4 months ago as he couldnt deal with the fact she was still mates with ex so he ended it hes finding it hard and i want to help as we are quite close and this is stopping us being closer any ideas ?
someone i like broke up with his ex 4 months ago as he couldnt deal with the fact she was still mates with ex so he ended it hes finding it hard and i want to help as we are quite close and this is stopping us being closer any ideas ?
ps i dont just want him to think of me as a fling