I’m interested in a girl that broke up with her bf a month ago. I asked her out, not knowing about the break up. She said that she wanted to take the summer off guys, which I completely understand. But, she was willing to go as friends. Then she apologized and said she loved talking to me. Should I keep leaning on her shoulder until she is ready? What’s the best way to approach this?

He said that he wants his space and that he’s no longer boyfriend material. What’s the best way for me to get over this? PS- he has been telling my friends and his family that he was going to propose for 4 months.

Long story short: My ex & I broke up last summer & he is married now.It was an ugly break up. He has been married about 7 months.When we see each other out places he flirts alot, ask me to eat lunch with him & makes sex jokes about what we used to do.My best friend is usally with me & she always says how he has began acting the same way he did when we first met.I got into a heated arguement w/him 2 nights ago & I told him to stop playing games with my head because his behavior is leading me on & I dont want to be hurt.He says he isnt cheating, “it’s just talk”..I walked away from him & told him to leave me alone.Yesterday he spotted my friend & I and followed us to a gas station and pulled up next to us just to say hi.He was starring at me.I said hi. He said a joke to make me laugh before they pulled off.Why does he keep doing this? I told him the night before that his behavior is leading me on & he is acting things out without actaully touching me.Has any one else had this problem?
His wife lives in Bangledesh so I cant tell her.Even if she did live here he said she doesnt speak English.I still love him somewhat & he knows this. I dont understand why he would be so selfish & playing mind games if he knows he is married & he already made his mind up.I had been seeing him off & on for 2 years & he didnt tell me he was getting married until two weeks before he was leaving the country. When he did break it to me we were about to have sex!We started arguing and I kicked him out.I dont understand him or how I even got involved with this bizarre dude.

I am 37 and would like to get married and let God’s will dictate if motherhood is for me. My boyfiriend already has a teenage daughter and does not want anymore kids. We are practically engaged. Should I get rid of Mr. right over this one issue alone?

I want to comfort my best friend, but im not the best person to comfort someone, they been going out for ages almost 2 years and it came out of the blue that they broke up, any ideas, suggestions or tips how to be a good friend?? x

The full story is, i could tell things werent the same between us she just didnt seem very happy so i decided to break up with her. when i did she broke down and cried harder than i could of ever imagined.. well we talked for about 2 hours and i realized what i did was the wrong move and she really did care about me.. i asked her to give this weekend a chance and see if things would work out between us she replied “you broke up with me” and every time i said i was sorry and wanted to try it again she would either say “i dont know” or “you broke up with me” i think she still cares about me what should i do.. do i call her? or let her call me? i want her to know i still care but i want her to realize what she is missing if she lets me go.. if i hang out with her this weekend should i act like we are still together or should i act as if we are just friends?

I broke up with my ex boyfriend of three years about 4 weeks ago. I found out he was cheating on me, he of course denied it, but then admitted he only made out with the girl, which according to him isn’t cheating. Scary!

Anyways in the past we have broken up about 3 times and each time he would call me and beg me back. I would end up changing my phone number, but would become weak and call him.

First let me say that I definitely don’t want to get back together with him. The way this break up ended was with him telling me he still wanted to be with me, which I refused and then telling me disgusting things like how he only likes f***king the chick he cheated on me with.

I was furious and hurt that he would say this. From there is got really bad and text messaged me horrible messages calling me a loser and that the chick he’s with now is a better f***k than me, etc.

That all happened about a week after the break up and since then it’s like he is happy as can be while I am crushed and so devastated. It seems as though his life is perfect and he can just move on without a care for how much he has hurt me.

I feel like I have never really known the guy I was with for three years. He was my first serious relationship.

He also owes me $5000 (I took out a loan for his financial difficulties) and now it has been this total effort for him to pay the monthly payments. A few days ago I talked to him on the phone for 30 seconds about him putting the money in my mailbox. He was so casual about it and had no care at all that I finally talked to him on the phone.

I don’t get it, how can someone go from saying I love you, I wanna marry you, have kids together to this??

My question is why all the other times I broke up with this guy he would call constantly and try to get me back, but this time he has moved on like nothing. Like he doesn’t even care and I am here miserable. Why is this?

I am contemplating on whether this guy may have been a sociopath.

Let me know your opinions

new friend that he now hangs out with. Im a really good nice person. Ive learned you can not control people but now feel so a lone. Do others feel this way?, its become such an “all about me world”

we broke up and sometimes i feel like i made the right decision but i kinda see her moving on and now more then ever i want her back..i dont wanna think its cause i cant have her cause my feelings are so strong right now..but i dont know…i almost married this girl and now i kinda feel like i want to again but she wont even talk to me or return a text message…what do i do ?