This guy and I are former colleagues: he left the company earlier this year, but we’ve stayed in contact. I was always interested in him, but backed off when I found out he had a g/f. He broke up with her earlier this year, and we almost hooked up about a month later, but decided to cool it and stay “just friends” for the moment, so he can work through his break-up (a 2yr live-in relationship). We’re in almost constant contact, and hang out at least once or twice a week. He compliments me all the time, and a few days ago, while watching a dvd at mine, he did the whole “cinema stretch” move, and put his arm around my shoulder, which he hadn’t done since that one time a month after his breakup several months ago. I took it as a good sign, and curled up into him, but there was no follow through – no further moves, and no kiss.
Huh? Am I reading him wrong, or missing something? Is he interested, or not? Guys, would you pull this move on a girl you’re “just friends” with? And why the lack of follow-through?

I’m 21 and this will be my first real relationship. There are qualities he posses that I don’t like but at the same time there are things he posses that I really like. I’ve never been in a real relationship before. I just want to figure out what it is that I want in the future and I’m not planning on getting married anytime soon. Is it wrong for me to stay with him and figure out what it is I want in the future…my likes and dislikes?

Lately she hasn’t been talking to me but like once a day and we havn’t hung out in a while and everytime i ask her if we can hang out she says shes too busy but shes always able to hang out with her friends and go to school events and stuff idk if i should break up with her or not…

We’ve been fighting a lot, he’s promised to change for ages. We’re both 16, I’m his first so I’ve given him space. But this afternoon he stood me up and when I asked him about it, he didn’t even apologize. So I asked to break up. But I regretted it almost immediately after. Shockingly, he agreed. I thought he would apologize and ask for another chance.

I immediately tried to talk and all, but he said maybe we should just be friends. He says all he’s done is hurt me and maybe I should just forget him and live a happy life without him making me upset all the time.

I didn’t want to let go. I don’t know how guys do it, just say be friends, and how about the memories and all? I told him we could still work out our problems, but he said maybe he couldn’t change.

He was a bit of a jerk too, giving me the cold treatment after that. And when a friend of mine called him and tried to talk to him and asked him if he loved me, he said no, I don’t care anymore. Which hurt badly, because just a few hours ago he told me he loved me.

I don’t know what to do. I suppose to let go, since I know he’s already cancelled our relationship status in FB and deleted our photos and all. I just don’t want to make the same mistake with my previous boyfriend, we broke up and I missed him and I wished I had tried to talk to him.

Now, what do I do? Should I just throw away all pride and beg him to stay with me, send many texts and all? try and work things out again. Or just move on. I don’t know. All I know is it’s hard to let go.

Recently my girl and i sort of broke up, but the way it happened never offered any closure. We got into this big argument about our jobs and us not being able to see eachother. Our work makes us a long distance relationship. Shes been so stressed and frustrated with her job that i feel she cut me out of her life without evening caring or thinking about me. So she said maybe we should take a break but i got upset about the idea and never acknowledged it.

Its been about 2 weeks since we lasted talked at all, she hasn’t text me or called me, and i haven’t text her or called her. I still love her and i miss her so much, but i don’t know if i should call her or make contact with her. My question is…should i try calling or texting her? Should i write her an e-mail detailing our break or relationship? I just don’t know what to do…any help, anything at all, would be greatly appreciated. I can’t live without her…and its destroying me mentally and physically. Thank you for reading.

i cant beleave it he lied to me the whole time as far as i knew he was not even talking to this girl god i hate him and to think we almost were about to get back togeather im still in love with him and would probly still get back with him if he wanted to but i dont know how to handle this what can i do all i know is right now all i want to do is die some one help =[

hey everyone I’m 18 and i was with my girlfriend who is now 19 for 2 years, she broke up with me but i still want her back its been a about 4 months since we have broken up but i love her to death, i did so much for her but now all she seems to be is angry with me but even for little things, like if i go out somewhere it somehow turns into a fight but a huge fight. I’ve in a lot of long term relationships but this one is different this is the girl i really love, but i just got no idea how to get her back she basically hate me and says a lot of really mean things to me all the time out of anger but she can be really nice, she says that she never wants to be with me again, it just kills me a lot of the things she says to me, she doesn’t even care about me well at least it feels like it i cry so much over her believe it or not but yeah don’t really know what to do and know a lot of u guys are gonna say i have to move on, but that’s not the option I’m gonna take cause there’s something about this girl trust me

we fight because his best friend speak with him about me,and i don’t know what he say,and he call me and say i don’t want to be whit you together more.And i don’t know where is my mistake.I don’t want too lose him because is everything for me and i love him

I blocked the cell number from his caller ID land line but I am concerned that it will show up on his bill. Just found out he was married and I don’t want any drama from his wife. Will my number be on his bill? Just want OUT with no fireworks. Thanks

so D and I went out like forever ago. it didn’t really last long b/c at the time i wasn’t looking for anything serious but he was. we became like best friends after that. we’ve been super close for about 3 years now and he recently broke up whit his GF of 14 months. yeah yeah, sad..
anyways…
that was last Thursday, but they’re both super cool about the whole break up thing and are friends now but i’s weird between me and him because i think i was the cause of the break up because he and I always flirt and stuff and i know his EX hates me.
Monday i hung out with him (umm…and his EX and the EX’s new beau AWKWARD!!). then we were alone and he kissed me. He said that he didn’t what anything because he just got out of a really long relationship and i get that but wednesday we totally hung out along and made out, nothing more and all clothes stayed on, it was nice weird but i felt that…that spark.
I’ve loved this kid for like forever but i could never have him b/c of his Ex but now that i can have him…idk if he wants me. what do i do?? like today i was hanging with him after school and we kiss and stuff like we’re going out and he puts his arm around me and texts me and calls and stuff…but…aggggg help????

right well i got together with my boyfriend when i was 14 nearly 15. hes always been very jealous of me talking to, talking about, texting etc other boys. he even hated me seeing my friends because he thought i would go and see other boys. then 5 months in he was the one who cheated on me (just got off with another girl he had been secretly seeing a few times). being really stupid i went back to him, and things got a bit better. you know when you can talk to someone about pretty much everything, thats what it was like when we were on our own, but when i wanted to see my friends, even if it was just us girls, he would go mental and wouldnt let me go see them. things have calmed down a lot since then, he is slightly more understanding although we still have a lot of arguments.

being 16 i obviously cant buy alcohol so one time i asked this guy who used to live up my road (whos 21) if he could buy me some, he picked me up in his car and gave me the alcohol, we got chatting, i got a little drunk, one thing led to another and we ended up on the back seat doing something we shouldnt. i feel like a complete whore for cheating on my boyfriend, even though he did it (maybe not as bad) to me too. he doesnt know, and i will never tell him coz i know he loves me and it would break his heart. how can i make this relationship work? coz i really do love my boyfriend despite what i did. and do you know any reasons why i might have cheated or feel the need to not tell him when im seeing my friends to avoid an argument. i just dont see why he gets so annoyed and doesnt trust me.

sorry this was so long. id appreciate any help .
im over the age of consent for sex as im 16. you probably will not understand if you havent been in this situation before, as it would be very hard for me to break up with him as i love him more then anything. anyone who has been in love will understand. ‘kel’ thanks you understand me .
‘tiaratracy’ thankyou. that really makes sense to me and helps a lot. its just so hard to break up with someone you love, even if you know its right to do so. i just dont know how to end things. i dont even know how not to be without him now.

My mom and dad didn’t raise me to be religious…so what do you think of that?

My ex-boyfriend that broke my heart twice messaged me on facebook recently. I really am confused as he is always the one to end things and act like he doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore. Would it make the most impact to reply back and tell him to not waste his time or just simply ignore him??

If she wears sexy panties when she goes to work. If i catch her lying but says she is doing it to protect my feelings or plays dumb and acts like she does not remember something. she seems to be off in another world sometimes when we are together.
she always seems closed off sometimes and she doesn’t communicate very well she always talks about her ex husband and justifys it by stating it is to take care of financial matters between them. She texts him and calls him. she almost always waits till i’m not around to do these things and doesn’t use her cell phone she calls from work so it cannot be traced i have caught her doing this.

We went out for one week, and he dumped me for another girl. I want to try it again. It was only a week. I can tell that he just wants to be friends, but I don’t want that at all.