My girlfriend of 9 months broke up with me because she said she didn’t feel the same. We live about 2.5 hours away from each other. I’ve been doing a lot of research and have found out that the best thing to do is give her space and don’t contact her and stay strong, positive, and not show her that I am desperate. This has been the hardest thing to do, but after a week she started texting me again, nothing about getting back together but making small talk like asking me to help her with her school work and things like that.

The first text she sent me said, “I hope you don’t hate me.” So am I following the right steps at trying to get her back? Is her contacting me first a good sign? Is there any hope at all?

I was in a long distance relationship with my current GF for over a year now, we are stronger then ever and it’s not some average thing, we share true love and I know we’ll marry some day =)

What advice do you have to do when she gets here? how should I take it all? fast, should I take it slow?? she’s moving into an apartment near me so we can be together and live together when I turn 18.

My ex boyfriend of 4 years treated me like crap the whole time we were together. He broke up with me a week ago. I don’t want him back because I know things will never change but im so angry and hurt. I tried so hard for the last 4 years to please him and it made no difference. And now he dumps me. I want to hurt him like hes hurt me. and I want to be over him. how do I do this. please help me.

Long term relationship coming to an end?

I’m in high school and ive been with my boyfriend for over 7 months (very long for high school) and im confused. We dont see each other as much and its like everything is simmering down instead of growing deeper. I’ve never had a long relationship before- are these doubts normal?

i just broke up with my lost distance gf of 1 year because i met someone that i think is “the one”. we both like each other but she seems really hesitant b/c i just got out of relationship. should i just chill for awhile?

How long do people wait to have sex in a relationship on average? Statistically speaking, how long do people wait? Please don’t “guess” or “speak from experience.” And please cite your source. Thank you.

i can never keep a girl. id really love a long relationship. please give me advice on what to do i need help. i wanna be able to kiss her to.

i’m a few months older than her but we couldn’t be anymore different. I just graduated from my BA degree and am currently in graduate school. she just finished her AA degree and started her third year of college.

She has very little moral standards, she once told me she’d taken a random guy home to sleep with him while her parents were sleeping in the room next to her with a connecting door (and her little 12 yr old sister in the other room). after she told me stories like this, i couldn’t stand how stupid she was and i told her once to stop telling me about her personal life. i think she got offended.

She is also constantly rude. once when my bf and i had a fight about getting engaged, she got herself involved by removing me from facebook and calling me a bitch and asking me what the fuck i wanted when i tried to talk to her. she also didnt say hi to me for months after that.

recently my bf and i have gotten back together after a breakup, we’ve been dating a total of two yrs now. he lives with his sister now in an apt. but she is still subtly rude to me. she asked me the first two times i visited my bf (we are long distance) why i was there. i told her both times it was to see him. she KNEW we were together. she shouldnt have asked me why i was there.

last time i was there she asked me how long id be there. not to mention, when i started talking about having been in class the other day she asked me “why? you’re in school? you didnt graduate from our university?” SHE KNOWS i moved away from there because i graduated, she said that to offend me so i had to answer back “no. i’m in grad school NOW”

she also always walks in when my bf and i are talking on skype in the evenings after our long days at work and school and we always have to stop talking for like 10 minutes because she goes into to play with his puppy and talk to him. she does this ALL the time.

she is really shallow and stupid. she doesn’t read books, she spends all her time on her looks. she took her time in school cause she works so she can have money to spend on partying at expensive clubs and bars and lounges. ARGHHH! she aggravates me!

and his mom is on par with that too. his mom once made a comment about how small my bf’s penis was because he had small hands…and when his older brother walked into the room she said “oh but Joe here, he’s always had a huge one!”

i don’t know if his family is enough of a deal breaker for me. i mean do i really want these women to be my aunt and grandmother of my kids?
my boyfriend knows my issues with them, but he defends them and he’ll take their side first

what should i do?
p.s. she is so pathetic i don’t even think she knows how to cook eggs

Is it the male or the female?

I’ve been in a long distance relationship almost a month, and it’s already kind of ‘cooling down’ for me.

I’ve told her I’ll visit her in winter. I am ready to wait till that time but I am curious which sex cheats in a long distance relationship first most of the time. (not about us, but others)

BTW she is reeeally hot and i dont think she would have trouble finding a guy.

I’m 24, by boyfriend is 23, and we’ve been together for 7 years. We’ve purchased 2 homes together, I work for his parents, and spend more time with his family than my own. Recently the marriage question has come up – from everyone in his family. I am ready to be married, and after 7 years, know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. My father is dieing, and a year ago his doctor told him if he didn’t make changes he would be gone in a year. Well, time’s up… and being daddy’s little girl, It is incredibly important to me to have my father walk me down the isle. My boyfriend says he wants to marry me, says he really wants kids, but whenever we talk about marriage – he blows me off. To him, it’s just a piece of paper and is not going to change anything. Should I wait until he is ready? I just feel like it’s never going to happen, and that I’m wasting my time. Please help!

He says he loves me and i know i love him but when i want to call him he says its too late or hes leaving….he doesnt come online till late and says he was at work…i’m not sure what to do I love him more than love and i confronted him on the net and asked if he ever cheated and he said he never would and never has …should i trust him?? please help me out….i believe him but i want to know your guys’s opinion…Thanks for the help

if u guys can give me some tips on how to how to make our relationship work? I am 3yrs miles away from my 6 yrs army boyfriend.. and wonderin if theres any related story out there that can help me into some realization..

I have to write a speech about that, and I have no idea what to say. It can’t just be from my experience alone I have to find books about it and cite my sources but I can’t find anything..

I need some help.

Oh and I need ONE quote that could sum it all up, something about being in a long term relationship. Thanks.

my ex girlfriend came in contact with me after she had trouble with her relationship…we talked just like old times…and i can tell she might be trying figure things out with this relationship before she comes back…

how long should i wait for her to contact me again…its been three days…i really like this girl, and i dont want to rush it, but if she fixes things with this kid then i guess ill have to move on…

whats the time frame on this?

Here’s how the story goes….I was talking to my manager at work and she asked me about my GF and I told her we’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year…..my manager told me that as a friend she’s 100% sure my GF has cheated on me in this long distance relationship because my GF hangs around females that like to drink and have a good time…she also told me that in a long distance relationship a female feels lonely so my GF was probably dating other guys to see what else is out there…I called my GF and told her what my manager said and my GF got really upset…below is a copy of the text msg conversation me and my GF had…please help me what do you think?

ME: Are you mad at me for bringing this up? I love you

MY GF: Im not mad at yuu baaby – im just sad tonight for some reason – it feels like theres something wrong – but i don’t know what – im soo scared to lose yuu – i love yuu so much my baaby – we can talk in about a half an hour – i love yuu!…

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