i’m a few months older than her but we couldn’t be anymore different. I just graduated from my BA degree and am currently in graduate school. she just finished her AA degree and started her third year of college.
She has very little moral standards, she once told me she’d taken a random guy home to sleep with him while her parents were sleeping in the room next to her with a connecting door (and her little 12 yr old sister in the other room). after she told me stories like this, i couldn’t stand how stupid she was and i told her once to stop telling me about her personal life. i think she got offended.
She is also constantly rude. once when my bf and i had a fight about getting engaged, she got herself involved by removing me from facebook and calling me a bitch and asking me what the fuck i wanted when i tried to talk to her. she also didnt say hi to me for months after that.
recently my bf and i have gotten back together after a breakup, we’ve been dating a total of two yrs now. he lives with his sister now in an apt. but she is still subtly rude to me. she asked me the first two times i visited my bf (we are long distance) why i was there. i told her both times it was to see him. she KNEW we were together. she shouldnt have asked me why i was there.
last time i was there she asked me how long id be there. not to mention, when i started talking about having been in class the other day she asked me “why? you’re in school? you didnt graduate from our university?” SHE KNOWS i moved away from there because i graduated, she said that to offend me so i had to answer back “no. i’m in grad school NOW”
she also always walks in when my bf and i are talking on skype in the evenings after our long days at work and school and we always have to stop talking for like 10 minutes because she goes into to play with his puppy and talk to him. she does this ALL the time.
she is really shallow and stupid. she doesn’t read books, she spends all her time on her looks. she took her time in school cause she works so she can have money to spend on partying at expensive clubs and bars and lounges. ARGHHH! she aggravates me!
and his mom is on par with that too. his mom once made a comment about how small my bf’s penis was because he had small hands…and when his older brother walked into the room she said “oh but Joe here, he’s always had a huge one!”
i don’t know if his family is enough of a deal breaker for me. i mean do i really want these women to be my aunt and grandmother of my kids?
my boyfriend knows my issues with them, but he defends them and he’ll take their side first
what should i do?
p.s. she is so pathetic i don’t even think she knows how to cook eggs