How can I take it back? well i know i can but i really want to make things better. I said something to my boyfriend and he took it the wrong way and broke up with me. i went to his work and we talked and he said that we were okay but now he wont talk to me. anyone out there know how i can fix what i did to make thing better?

I still want to be with my ex but he tells me he has someone else i don`t no if he is just saying it to make me mad or what but it worked and he changed his number so if i want to talk to him how do i get in touch with him and he also changed his email address but what are the things i can do to get him back for good?

Ok, so I had treated her like crap and took her for granted the last 3 months of our 1 year relationship (before that it was PERFECT!) and that is b/c I had severe clinical depression and treated everyone that way (and also b/c I was a F*CKING DUMB*SS and took her for granted!). I lied to her (not much), and I was somewhat manipulative and would always start fights. She even told me (throught text yesterday) that she “never want you to say ‘I love you’ again”. And she said i had even manipulated her into thinking she loved me b/c I would say or do anything to try and get her to stay with me. I sent her a text back saying the only reason I’d say NEARLY anything to keep her with me is b/c I love her sooo much. I know I dont deserve her back and Im such a dumb*ss but please I need your help! Did she mean what she said or was she just frustrated and angry???? Its been 2 months since our breakup and weve been talking most the time, but Im not going to contact her til around Valentines Day and give her a long sorry letter and a necklace. Did she mean it though? is that a good plan? SORRY ITS SOOO LONG! 10 points best answer!

Sorry but i really need all the help I can get.

I’m 23 and got my first bf at the same age. I was really happy with him. I met him online. At first, I was hesitant coz I was never involved in any romantic relationships. I almost said no to him because friends told me that online relationships don’t work at all. But still, I took the risk. I tried to be the best gf I could possibly be. Until one day, I found out that he was cheating on me. I was so sad and disappointed.

I just dont know how to forget him. I’ve tried all the possible things like making myself busy, read books, checking out with some available men hehe…but still nothing works.

Can you pls share some of your ideas? I would really appreciate if you do.

I am 28 and from California, i have been engaged to my fiance for 5yrs and have a 8 year old daughter from a previous relationship with my ex fiance who is 25. When i first met my ex fiance i was mesmerized with her she is so beautiful and a beautiful personality. I asked my ex to marry me as i never really saw my ex only my kid & she agreed but because my ex was 17 when she had our daughter her parents couldn’t handle it and they moved to Las Vegas so i almost didn’t see my daughter that much and we ended up breaking up, my heart was ripped from me as i had lost two of the most important people in my life. She moved back 5 years ago but i was already with my now fiance, my ex and i have mutual friends. Two months i dropped by her house to pick something up for my kid and my ex and i started talking and then something just happened and we where kissing, she pulled back and said she couldn’t do it and i left, the next day i went to talk to her and ended up telling her i loved her and never stopped loving her which i haven’t and she said she was always loved to me & we ended up having sex. So far we have slept together a bit but she said that it cant go on as too many people could get hurt, the thing is i am crazy about this woman and i have been for since i met her, i get jealous when i see her around other guys and when they hit on her, i don’t even want to touch my fiance anymore she is so stuck up and fakes a love with my daughter and tries to outshine my ex with mine & my ex’s daughter. My daughter is the image of her mom and its hard to look at her at times without seeing her mom in her but she’s my angel. My ex is all i can think about, she is an amazing mother to our daughter, at times i just stand or sit there watching her and my friend said i always have a certain look in my eye and a certain smile just for her that they never see when i look at anyone else. When she is around all i can do is look at her and smile, when i get her own her own i cant stop kissing her and when she gets afraid if someone is gonna see she pulls away but i pull her back to me and just kiss & look at her,im f*cking crazy about her. I know what i am doing is being a complete prick but im in love with her and know i am risking everything but she makes me so happy. Any advice?

I am in love with a girl and I don’t know whether she is in a relationship or not, as I want to take the step to admit to her my love & what can I do, please help me.

Now me and this girl have been going out for some time now. Yes i did love her and still do but i cant see my self with her years or even months from now. I have been thinking about breaking up with her and have once. It was actually 2 weeks ago. And yes a few mistakes i made was that i went back to her. I know i shouldn’t have done it but i cared way to much to do it. But now i am having those thoughts again of breaking up with her. I think the only reason why i took her back was because i felt bad for her. And i know i cant lead someone on much longer. She is always telling me about how she is constantly thinking about how i did it before and she says she if confused to why i did it. I dont want to say that she is obsessed with me but she is always calling and we text all day. she wants to hang out all day every day too. Ive tried telling her that i need my space and it hasn’t worked. Another Reason is that she doesn’t trust me at all. She doesn’t want me talking to girls. And even told me not to talk to a few of them. A break wouldn’t work either. I also kind of want to stay single and not have to put up with all the drama. I kinda want to do it within a month or sooner so if anyone can give me tips on what to say and do. The do’s and not’s of breaking up will help a lot. Thanks

I have been with my husband for 7 years and we are very happy. He is the loveliest man I have ever known. We truly are soulmates. But, his ex-wife cheated on him and when it comes up in arguments he always cries when he is talking about it, about the cheating and how he doesn’t wish it on anyone. He gets very emotional and it always hurts me very deeply because I feel that means he still loves her. What does it mean? Why does it still hurt him so much if its been so long and he loves me so much. I need this to stop confusing me. Please enlighten me.

What’s the best way to get over feelings of unrequited love for someone?

I’ve had these dumb feelings for over 2 months now.

This person lives in the same apartment as me so it’s hard not to run into them, but so far I’ve locked myself in my room to avoid contact and I’ve even gone as far as deleting my facebook account to stop being reminded of this person.

I’ve been trying to spend most of my free time reading to keep my mind off of things, but I need something better.

Does anyone have any good tips or advice please?

I’m in a long distance relationship with someone- we see each other once a month, talk ion the phone a great deal, and click so well- But I’m starting grad school in my city, don’t plan leaving anytime soon, and she is deeply hurt i don’t attend grad school in her city- Job prospects where she lives are not what they are here…
It’s now at the point every time we talk she winds up in tears, and I’m all apologetic about the situation. I’m seriously thinking about ending the relationship, because it’s not fair to have her wait for me to get my act together- Plus i don’t have the $$ to up and releocate at this time. She’s in ‘building a family’ mode, I’m in ‘building a career’ mode. She has kids from a previous marriage- I want kids, and a small problem is she doesn’t want any more kids.
- I love her, but there are some obstacles we can’t compromise on- such neither is willing to relocate at this time-

Have you been in a long distance relationship with a person, whom you loved, but ended it because it was just too difficult? Or did you stick it out? Any advice?

Did you end a long distance relationship, and later come to regret it?
I live in New Hampshire, she lived in South Carolina
I could never ask her to move, because that would men uprooting her kids, tearing them away from their friends- that would be totaly unfair to them.

I do want kids of my own- she said even if she wanted more (she’s unsure), she couldnt’ have them- as her tubes are tied (which is reversable)- and even if that was reversed-she it it might be too late, as she’s in her 40s, and said she’s already having hot flashes and other ign of menepause..

I’ve never met someone who loved me as much as her, and wonder if I ever will again…This might be my only shot at love..