I am at a dire need of advice or anything PLEASE. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 almost 5 months, and all in all we love eachother very much, , It was at the theatre’s were everything seemed fine, all it took was a small talk about her moving, and how she was still going to visit, so as it would be natural for me,..I got kinda surprised, and before we both knew it the date was over and our parent’s were coming for us. Keep in mind im 17 she’s 14.

Ok. But that’s not the problem that Im having or had…
It’s when she left she called me and asked if I was mad over the little arguement..and I was like no…not at all. Then her phone hanged up. So I got curious, and texted her saying “uh…did you just break up with me?”
I just couldn’t help it, but the mistake that had happened was that her mother NOW had the phone in her possesion…oops!
her mom replied with “she’s not allowed to date” so later she was forced to break up =[..my chest hurts alot right now should I wait?

I have been dating this wonderful man for the past year, I’m 23 he’s 28. Things have been going well, except that he has not told his family that I have a child. Let me give you some background. I had a child when I was 16 out of wedlock. Since then I have graduated high school (on time), earned my bachelor’s degree in Biology and now I’m in my Master’s program. My son is now 7, and my boyfriend, my son and myself spend a lot of time together. But there are some differences between my boyfriend and I, for example, he’s a very private person and I am very out going. I’m white and he’s first generation Filipino. I have met his family twice since we began dating, but they know nothing about my son. He has told me that he’s going to tell them about my son for at least the past 6 months, however, it still has not came to pass. He says that he’s scared that they will hate me, even though they got along fine with me when I met them before. I am willing to deal with the differences in cultures; in fact I find them fascinating. I am also willing to deal with the fact that they may not accept me at first, I understand why they might not. But I am very secure with myself and how I have dealt with having a child so young. However, I’m growing increasingly frustrated in the fact that he will not tell them. Am I not worth it to him? What do I do?

It seems ever since I turned into a teen my parents think I do a lot of bad things that never happen and don’t even let me go outside without supervision. How can i get them to trust me again? How can i make them trust me?

I opened up my stupid mouth and said that my parents told me I was spending too much time with her, which was a mistake in itself, and she was offended by it. Now she feels that my parents dont want us to be together and that she isnt good enough for me, even though I’m the luckiest guy in the world to be with her…it seems like everytime I see her she becomes sad all of the sudden and I see her being fine when she’s not around me…any suggestions…or is this out of reach? I really want to make this work.

see my boyfriend stole a bike and my mom got into it because she knew the little boy…i of course had nothing to do with it but i got in trouble. i got grounded, she took my cell phone, took my door off, and went crazy & started hitting me just because i told her she couldn’t take my radio away cause she didn’t buy it for me. So i left for a day cause i didn’t want to hit her back. (she is my mom) I came back Monday night.

ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years and everything was perfect until the first year where my parents stopped liking him, im going to be 18 next month and im tired of hidding . i cant even say my boyfriends name at home because thats a no no and for them they think im not with him anymore. we made mistakes, he wasnt responsible. but we both changed and matured so much to prove them how much we want to be together.now im also scared to tell my parents because they told me they wont pay for my college. help me i really dont know what to do. he is the best thing that could ever happened to me and he is a different person but my parents dont see that obviously.im good in school i do everything they want me to do but im not completly happy.

Okay. So, I guess I’ll start with the basics. I’m 15 and my boyfriend is 18. He was 17 though when we started dating. We’ve been dating for 7 months now. Our entire relationship has been difficult mainly because my “parents” have made it that way. They’ve threatened to get a restraining order against him, etc. Sure, I’ll admit it; I fucked up a few times but it’s called learning from your mistakes. I’m fifteen, almost sixteen, and I know I’m far from perfect. Anyways. My parents expect me to be perfect in every single aspect of my life and I’m not even kidding. They think my boyfriend is a “mistake”, when in fact he’s not. My boyfriend is (temporarily can’t even talk to me right now) older, obviously and can help me out in so many ways. Examples: homework, learning new things (tennis), etc. He’s an amazing guy. The reason as to why my boyfriend temporarily can’t talk to me right now is because my parents had him arrested for “commiting to the delinquency of a minor”. He posted bond thank goodness. The police told him and I that we couldn’t communicate whatsoever until coart and everything is settled. Oh, and guess what else! My mom put me on probation for six months because she thinks I’m “too much to handle”

H E L P ! ? :X

I went to live back home with my parents after a serious break up, Me and my boyfriend are back together and we are planning to get married in about 6-9 months. I want to wait till i get married to leave their house again. But they are financially abusing me, they want me to pay for everything help them with everything and they are compulsive gamblers. I know they are my family and i need to help them, but i have to look out for my future, with my new husband, i havent been able to save at all for this wedding because of them. Should i just get married through court and leave, or should i find a away to tell them im leaving the house? PLEASE HELP.

I am in a bind, me and my father and stepmother do not get along for very personal reasons. They emailed my boyfriend and basically b!tched him out about his and that, and basically said that he wasnt good enough for me, and he was a no good sob and deserved his life to be hell, in which is already is. He is trying to get his life back together, well after reading all this and having time to think about it. He decided that it would be best if he just break up with me. Meaning everything that we worked for as a team to prove to my father just went down the drain. My stepmother said that he wasnt worthy enough for me, and it some how brainwashed him into believeing it as well. Basicaly my stepmother got her way what she wants she gets its always been that way, any advice on how I can keep him and what to do with the father and stepmother besides wanting to k!ll them. (figure of speach)
I’m 20, my father and stepmom live in Tx. Thank god. But they make our lives hell by emailing, calling, and other things.

girlfriend found out parents had an affair and she was born and they kept it going for 3 years befor he left his other family and married her mom. She feels like the perfect family she had is now a lie and that they have did the worst thing ever. She feel like she was a mistake and that the didnt want her. They love her to death how do i make her feel better. She know they love her but it doesnt change the fact that she was born durning the affair. Please help I hate that she feels so bad

I have a “guy” that I really like and he likes me back but his parents won’t let him date until he’s a certain age, which is two years away. We both want to date but he is too much of a goody goody that he won’t date behind his parents’ backs. Please help!

for example, if they meet the guy and get to know him, and learn to trust him, will parents understand this, and let him date their daughter who is still underaged? no stupid answers please, and thank you for those who actually help.
hes 18 shes 14

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months, and from hearing what he tells me, over the phone, etc., his parents think I am a distraction [and basically a mistake ]. We are both 15, and he has traditional asian parents. His parents would much rather him not date me, or anyone at all. How is a way that I could meet them in which I could be myself, but also his parents would be able to see that it is our choice to be together, and we understand that? I’m not asking for a plot so they’d worship me, just a way that we could meet with a good impression.
Him and I are of the same ethnicity, but I don’t speak the same dialect as his parents, so I’d only be able to talk with him and his father, since his father knows english and the same dialect that I know.

my mom tried to keep me away from my girlfriend and well i still talk to her is it a bad thing? because i really like this girl?

My girlfriend and I are in high school and have been together for 2 years. Her parents are completley against us, and do everything they can to keep us apart. It has gotten so rediculous and if I expanded on the story it would sound like Romeo & Juliet. We’ve had this problem for a long time now, and I have absolutley no idea what to do. I still want to be with her because I love her, so what do I do????